Ok, I had a crush on this guy for two years. When he finally found out that I liked him he told me "Lose a hundred pounds then come talk to me". It took me a while after that but I have finally gotten over him and stopped crushing on him. I haven't seen him since that day.
I work as a bus monitor and I found out the other day that he was hired to work at the company I work at too. He didnt know I worked there and when I saw him walk in we both stared at each other in shock for a few minutes. We couldnt believe we'd be working together.
The two hour ride to go get the kids 'we' monitor, we didnt speak on word we just kept looking at each other awkwardly. Just being so close to him every day and seeing him everyday is making my old feelings for him to come back and I dont want that to happen. What should I do?
2007-08-17 13:11:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No I haven't lost the 100 pounds yet but I am on a diet. It has only been 3 months since I last saw him on that day, well until 2 days ago when he started working with me.
My supervisor is my dad. He knows all about my crush on this guy and what he said to me and he said that I need to deal with it because we need to work together.
2007-08-17 13:30:20 · update #1
what u must do is forgive him for what he has said to you cause we must learn to forgive others like god forgives us second second talk to him get to know each other tell him something about you and he tell something about his self u never know maybe u were meant for him if this relation dose not work do not get depressed tell your self to move on in life cause sooner or later u will find the man for u
2007-08-17 13:20:57 · answer #1 · answered by Unknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a guy from work once..... well, sort of. It was a business client of mine while I was working as an office sales rep. I really liked this guy, but not for too long. It then became a sexual fling only. I would usually drop by about once a week to drop off some orders, usually late in the day when no one was there. That was the day I usually wore my short black skirt, black hose, and some heels. Then he would pull down my skirt, slip down the panty part.... I loved it. But the truth is is that it's not a good idea to get involved with any guy related to your job. I still have to look at this guy for time to time, and sometimes it's uncomfortable being around him, knowing what we did for 5 months.
2007-08-17 20:14:55 · answer #2 · answered by Beth S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not interested get over it did you lose the hundred pounds if not then he still isn't attracted to you if you did then let him see what he miss out on either way his no worth it and if you have to work with him someone has to break the ice so just talk to him like it never happened maybe he will get to no the real you.
2007-08-17 20:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by beebee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These feelings are coming back. Its normal. But you really deserve better because any guy that tells you to lose a hundred pounds needs to get lost. Sweetie you'll find another guy. =)
2007-08-17 20:18:35 · answer #4 · answered by awkwardnerdlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ANYBODY and I mean ANYBODY who can't accept you for who you are and says such a rude thing doesn't deserve you and will always find problems with your weight. These are the men who cheat because they see a thinner or prettier girl.
Get over it sister! You can also tell your supervisor that he's an old crush who doesn't respect you and you'd prefer not to work with him...that should work.
2007-08-17 20:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by alli_knapik 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would not give him give the time of day. I would only talk to hm if you had to. If he really cared for you he would not asked you to lose 100 pounds. I would tell my girlfriend that he needs to lose weight.
2007-08-17 20:24:54 · answer #6 · answered by John 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind what he said to you about losing weight and then coming back to you, you do not need a man like that. you deserve much better. If he has already said something like that to you then he has never heard of inner beauty!!!!!!!!! do not let him affect you he is dirt!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-08-17 20:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by tabbycat3840 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll take time, u'll get over it. Remember how rude he was to u, and if u still look that way, he'll still be rude to u. So u'll be over it in no time.
2007-08-17 20:15:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else. If he rejected you like that I doubt he's worth your time. You deserve much better.
2007-08-17 20:13:44 · answer #9 · answered by whoop! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing I've learned out of life is "girl, he's not even worth it"..if he didn't think you weren't worth his time, he will never be worth your time
2007-08-17 20:17:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋