Family & Relationships - 17 August 2007

how do i not get so annoyed at my husband? we have been married since june 2nd this year and he is really aggrivating the hell out of me. he used to like to do things together but now all he wants to do is sit on the couch or in the bed to watch tv. its okay to do that now and then but when i want to go do something with him he blows the hell up and dont want to do it because he dont want to get up and away from the tv. i am only 26 years old and h is 27, all i want to do is live life, go have fun before we have kids. am i in the wrong for being aggrivated? he used to like to go to the bars for a beer or two then be done now he wont even do that, much less go to the movies or walk around at the mall. he really is getting on my nerves is that wrong as well?!?! very very confused i am lol..

2007-08-17 13:03:52 · 8 answers · asked by funandfaithful 2 in Marriage & Divorce

in India i wait on them hand n foot as is the culture there , but here with no domestic help and a small kid to look after , im dreading there arrival . Please suggest tactful ways i can let them know they have to chip in too .Also they like their meals very late and we all have to rise early at 5am for school/office. They also would expect me to wear traditional salwar suits here and i dont want to be an oddity . I need suggestions to handle these seemingly small problems which can be perceived as big offenses by them ( my hubby wont step in this domestic issue , so pls dont suggest enlisting his help ) I have to bell the cat myself.

2007-08-17 13:02:56 · 15 answers · asked by smashingdelite 3 in Family

I dated/lived with "Tom" for about 2yrs we even talked of marrage. We broke-up(he left me) the reason being "I don't want to be 40 and rasing a new born" he said(he was 37 and allready had a child from his last marrage) he knew i wanted to get married and have children of my oun.Well that was 5 yrs ago.I just found out from a friend who started to work in his office not only did he get married 1 yr ago but his "wife" is 5 months pregnant.Not only was this a wanted pregnancy but my freind tells me this is all Tom talks about with ultrasound pics all over his office of his unborn child.I can't help but feel so sad and empty.

2007-08-17 13:02:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean, singlemoms get to call their ex's a "package" and that's far worse. That ex will never go away as he is the father of their children! That's why they gotta still be "friends" for the kids. So you mean to tell me she can call all THAT a package and I can't call a simple girl I'm dating or living with a "package"?! I don't get it? Will one of you divorcees explain this to a single guy?

2007-08-17 13:02:01 · 11 answers · asked by What? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This girl is startin to do my head in!??
-asked this girl out who i like and she likes me..
-she said it was too soon (just broke up wit bf)
-i tried a few times, then gave up...
-she text sayin not heard from u in a while..hows things?
-saw her again and she said she was havin 2nd thoughts about me cos it was good to see me and she realised how much she wanted me
-asked her out again, she was busy, now i tried (for the last time ever!!) and got neither a yes or no but ill speak to u tomorrow!

please, whats goin on? what does she want? whats should i do?
i really like her but i am gonna give up but i keep gettin mixed signals

2007-08-17 13:00:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-17 12:52:25 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 29 years old, I have 5 children ranging from 6 months to 8 years. I stay home with them every day. My husband works to support our family. I take care of all the household chores, with the exception of asking hubby to occasionally change a diaper, fill the dog water bowl or take out the kitchen trash. However we now have had a huge disagreement that is threatening to our marriage. I feel he should mow the lawn, where as he thinks I should add it to my chores, at least part of the time. I tried to explain that breastfeeding the baby, and caring for my other responsibilites makes that impossible for me, but he won't listen. Am I wrong to simply expect him to do this? I have also suggested that we hire someone. He won't have that either.What now??

2007-08-17 12:52:16 · 31 answers · asked by Renée G 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-17 12:50:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-17 12:50:10 · 23 answers · asked by Robert B 2 in Singles & Dating

i really fancy this girl but she is 9 years younger then me, i'm 27 shes 18, plus i got my self a gf she and she got her self a bf.

we came close to kissing today, but i pulled away.

i really dont know what to do?

2007-08-17 12:49:20 · 8 answers · asked by beboo 2 in Singles & Dating

I think he likes me, he always stares at me, when we where partners at a science project he would laugh at my jokes when it wasnt even funny, flirts with me, and ect. but anyways I am too shy to ask him out so how can I make him ask me out and tell him I am interested without telling him specificly

2007-08-17 12:48:16 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Tell me what you like and dont like about how i look....and what i should do to look better...and rate me 1-10 thanks :D

Heres da link........
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2007-08-17 12:44:58 · 6 answers · asked by CB24 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've known this guy for a week, && there has been an instant connection. We've been flirting like crazy && he knows I like him, how can I tell if he likes me back???

2007-08-17 12:44:51 · 1 answers · asked by oliveah! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-17 12:42:53 · 2 answers · asked by Shari G 2 in Family

2007-08-17 12:41:19 · 2 answers · asked by Ink Corporate 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-17 12:41:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a thirteen year old girl. I really like this guy and I know for sure that he likes me back. His best friend told me that the guy I like told him that he liked me and his sister said the same thing. He has been flirting with me and I flirted back. He knows that I like him because his sister told him. His sister and I are friends so we talk about this stuff alot. People have said to make the first move. What is the first move? He hasn't asked me out yet. There were times when I was pretty sure he was going to but said something else instead. Like he leaned over toward me and was going to wisper something but not what I thought he was going to wisper. I am also somewhat shy so try and keep that in mind. Should I ask his sister if he would ask me out or something else? Should I ask him why he was flirting with me and he still didn't ask me out. He doesn't have a girlfriend, because his sister told me so. Should I ask his sister why he was flirting with me but didn't ask me out? Help!

2007-08-17 12:39:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm going to visit the family who hosted me in their home for an year, 10 years ago. I'd like to give each one of them a nice gift, but they can't be too big, expensive or heavy. It's a lot of people from different ages - from very little kids to very old people. They are:

gender / age
F / 1
M / 4
M / 7
M / 25
F / 27
F / 33
M / 57
F / 54
M / 78
F / 74
F / 72

Some people have suggested stones, Havaianas and Ronaldinho's shirt. Do you have any other idea?

2007-08-17 12:39:34 · 8 answers · asked by juferrazcoelho 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, first of all let me just say that I know I was wrong to be snooping on my brothers computer and I should mind my own business and respect his privacy and yes I feel horrible about it but I was bored and he wasn't around.So please spare me the insults. Anyway as I was looking through his recent searches and I found that he searched for "pregnancy by foreplay" .He was out with his girlfriend the other day and I think that they did something and hes really worried that she might be pregnant. I don't want his life to come crashing down because I love my brother and he'll probably never forgive me if I tell mom and dad.What do you think?should I tell them?

2007-08-17 12:38:37 · 19 answers · asked by Euphoria 3 in Family

I just posted a question about me having a girlfriend living with me that I don't get along with ... and y'all basically flamed me. So long story short you expect that a guy will have ZERO baggage or relationships and miraculously be rich and completely stable all at the same time as you happen to enter his life. On the flip side, you expect that this same guy will be more than willing to take on all your sh*t - EX HUSBAND, KIDS, maybe even ex-boyfriends you are still "friends with". Sure seems to me like we have a double standard in good ol' Jewmerica once again.

2007-08-17 12:36:20 · 22 answers · asked by What? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

would you rather date a girl who is phisically inituative or one who just sits and enjoys your company without ever being sensual?

P.S.
I'm refering to cuddling and kissing, not sex

2007-08-17 12:33:42 · 8 answers · asked by candiecorn 1 in Singles & Dating

I have no money of my own except social security check of $750.00 pm. Husband has control of all other income in his name. Bought a $150,000 fishing camp without my knowledge in his name. He pays the bills for our home but I have to buy any cleaning supplies or food that I would like. We do not sleep together and barely communicate except for generalities. e.g. it's hot today!! LOL The reason I am still with him is MONEY. If I would leave I think I would be a bag lady. I have 3 children and 7 grandchildren whom I dearly love and who love me. That is a plus in my old age. I am happy when he is gone to his camp, but no money to do anything.
Does anyone know what my options might be?

2007-08-17 12:32:31 · 16 answers · asked by Sunny Fields 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you've been married a year and half and feel like you don't exist, all you do is meet the needs of your partner, cater to them - cook, clean, work, take care of 5 kids (not all mine - step kids)...I feel completely alone. Yes I've talked to him, asked for us to go to counseling, asked him to help around the house, but nothing gets to him - not sure he cares...

2007-08-17 12:32:25 · 9 answers · asked by anneicare 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel dumb asking this question, but I really need to hear the views of others about this.
About every other week my husband gets into fits of rage then days of being really nice. The span between his fits of rage and niceness seem to be getting shorter and shorter.
In his last fit of rage (4 days ago) he insulted me and my mom and punched the door leaving a hole in the door. He said he was moving out by today, but he has not left. He is now back in his "niceness" cycle. He is trying to act nice and is acting like he didn't do anything. He talks about our future and how I will always belong to him.
He says he is mad because I look down on him because I have a better job than him. He calls my family friends and tells them he pays all the bills even though I pay 90% of our bills because he can not keep down a job. My family thinks he will harm me if I don't leave this relationship, but I don't know why I'm staying after everything?

2007-08-17 12:32:18 · 9 answers · asked by Moira34 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what do i do?

2007-08-17 12:31:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I fell in love with the most beautiful girl i have ever seen. She is smartest and nicest person i know. She was a wake up call for me and she made me change myself. Now that she is almost gone and i may never get her love. I am thinking that after loving someone so deeply and thinking of someone so much. Will there be a time again when i will feel like this for someone else. This girl she has occupied my heart to the full that i do not like anything and anybody but her and miss her every second...Oh man it hurts to not have her here.

2007-08-17 12:29:17 · 2 answers · asked by Hello 2 in Singles & Dating

Do these ever work out or should I delete her and look closer?

2007-08-17 12:26:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you still have any freedom after marriage?

2007-08-17 12:21:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have been together on and off for 8 years. We have 4 kids and i just dont want to be with him anymore. i dont know the reason, i just dont. am i going to hurt my kids? am i doing the right thing? I love him but he does not pleaz me in any way

2007-08-17 12:20:50 · 18 answers · asked by Tierra_99 2 in Marriage & Divorce

♥THANKS♥

2007-08-17 12:20:09 · 7 answers · asked by STALKER BLOCK 3 in Family