Family & Relationships - 17 August 2007

my husband & i hav bn married 4 almost 6yrs our relationship is really good but he never does anythin even remotly romantic is there a way i can get through 2 him???

2007-08-17 20:32:19 · 11 answers · asked by b_t_e_b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In my experience, it is mostly the guys who would want to indulge in this but I would like to hear if the females also feel this would be a good idea. If the answer is yes then would it be with FFM/FMM or ? it seems always acceptable that FF is ok but guys seem to steer clear of MMF unless of course the guy is doing the wife/partner. Guys generally like to see girl on girl but what would girls feel like if it was guy on guy and involving the girl also. Numerous options but what would YOU accept.

2007-08-17 20:31:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am after this guy, he doesn't know I exist, but I havn't really tried to go after him yet. Were both a little shy, so how do I get him to notice me. And no I am not a stalker

2007-08-17 20:20:55 · 8 answers · asked by miceatplay 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 31 yr old lady married with 50 yr old man before seven yr by my uncle & brother in absence of my expiered parents. i considered it as my luck & worked hard for studies along with teaching job& home tution.as his earning was 1500 only. meanwhile i devloped inrelationship with my distant relative. now i am living separetly and my husband is denying to give me my acadmic document and son. pls advice.

2007-08-17 20:18:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am having a fun affair with a swingers couple. We're all Bi and everyone's been happy but now I think I am falling in love with one of them... What should I do? Tell them, or cool it off? Both?

I know I will get a lot of weird and wonderful replies to this, bring it on, haha! I can take it ;)

2007-08-17 20:17:59 · 6 answers · asked by Curious Alice 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Whatever your response, how long have you been married?

2007-08-17 20:16:26 · 7 answers · asked by ? 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am 31 yr old lady married with 50 yr old man before seven yr by my uncle & brother in absence of my expiered parents. i considered it as my luck & worked hard for studies along with teaching job& home tution.as his earning was 1500 only. meanwhile i devloped inrelationship with my distant relative. now i am living separetly and my husband is denying to give me my acadmic document and son. pls advice.

2007-08-17 20:15:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love this guy very, very much, but he is ruining the relationship with all his insane jealousy. I'm an attractive woman, and every man that I talk to he thinks ther's something going on. I even got to the point of avoiding having conversations with men, cause I know he's going to give me the third degree. I have never cheated on him, nor I ever felt like it. Sometimes I feel I can't stand it anymore and I want to end it all, but I love him so much and this is the only problem we have, and it's a big one. Any one out there with any ideas of what should I do to make him be less jealous and insecure about me (and yes, I tell him I l love him very much, I'm not interested in anyone, etc, all the time)? I appreciate your answers :)

2007-08-17 20:14:18 · 11 answers · asked by frustrated 1 in Singles & Dating

I always told myself I would never be the jealous type, but I'm in my first serious relstionship, and certain little things are getting me extremely jealous, even things I know I shouldn't.

My girlfriend has the sweetest personality, and she's very friendly to people, and I'm afraid people are going to use her and manipulate her, and that angers me because she has been hurt in the past by a lot of people and I wan't to protect her, but this protective feeling is manifesting itself into extreme jealousy.

2007-08-17 20:08:12 · 15 answers · asked by Clarence 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-17 20:07:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anon 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfreinds name is michael and i love him more than anything but i think im too bossy iv tried not to be but i cant help it i always tell him what to do and he will cuz he said he dont wanna loose me but i just dont know what to do i dont want us to break up and im affraid were going to i love him more than anything hes the one i wanna spend the rest of my life with but i dont wanna keep hurting him its like he has no say in anything he does hes said if i break up with him he would kill himself and he saw his dad kill himself when he was 14 so im affraid he would and i dont wanna break up with him i just need help not being as bossy and jelouse but its kindove a temporaroly long distance relationship where we visit once in a while but soon he'll be moving in and im also pregnant

2007-08-17 20:06:17 · 4 answers · asked by hottie_11689 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

used to know a girl when I was a shorty (family friends) but we never used to actually speak to each other, but I used to go play with her younger brother a lot. 20 years later I saw her while I was overseas (we now in our late 20's). We went out to dinner and theatre to catch up. She told me when we were little she didn't speak to me as she didn't know what to talk to me about. Now we get along pretty well and we talked for hours - she told me about the past and what she been upto since. when I suggested I send her something when I got back as a thank you gift, we stopped at her place and she gave me a gift to take home. She hug me goodbye.

I sent her books coz she reads and she went and told her family members. She snail mail me back to say how she enjoyed catching up with me. She sent me a magazine she was recently interviewed and photographed for about her unusual line of work.

Do I have to wine&dine more? Some advice please.

2007-08-17 20:05:10 · 5 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-17 19:53:47 · 11 answers · asked by What? 2 in Weddings

So today at work Alex came up to me and said "You like Brad" who was standing behind him working. And I replied "No I dont" and he repeated "you like Brad" so I ignored him and went to the crew room. As I was entering the crew room I heard Brad say "I'd have to beat up her brother (my bro works @ the same place I do)" so when I came out of the crew room I asked him "Why would you have to fight my bro?" and Brad replied "If anything were to happen between us"...so I said "Alright" and started walking towards the front of the store...

then Alex stopped me and said again "You soo like Brad" so I turned to him and jokingly stated "So what if I do." Well, Brad was still next to Alex when I said that...

Usually Brad talks to me a lot at work...but after I said that he didn't talk to me for the rest of the night. Do you think he knows I like him and doesn't like me back...or does he like me too and know its bad since my bro works with us and he (Brad) is 4.5 years older than me??

2007-08-17 19:53:26 · 8 answers · asked by Boo Yah 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm still really in love with my EX-GF we were together for about a year and a half and were even engaged. A few months after getting engaged we got in a fight because I found out she was lying to me and I was sick of her going to clubs every weekend. Anyway after we broke up about a year ago we tried to make it work but it seemed like she would try to get in a fight for no reason and then we wouldn't speak for weeks on end. At this point I'm about ready to move to Hawaii for a job in a few weeks. Most recently we didn't talk for about 3 months and when I told her about moving she agreed to have dinner with me. We had a great time and I told her I still loved her. Anyway I'm sort of at a loss as what to do. Is there even enough time? I feel like i'm out of options. BTW We're both in our late 20's highly educated, great jobs. She's also from the East Coast and I'm from the west coast... any suggestions or words of wisdom?

2007-08-17 19:49:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Recently I found out my boyfriend's email password and saw that he was a member to a sexsearch.com site, where adult personals are posted, video chats go on, etc. I am furious but know that I am not alone. Don't know what to do about it. Need help.

2007-08-17 19:46:34 · 4 answers · asked by some girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been married for 5 years and have a daughter that is 4 and a son that is two. I love my wife and my kids. But I found out last month that my wife cheated on me twice when I was in the Marine Corps overseas. I want to work it out but she is saying that she doesn't see the point. I have been out for a year and this happened withe her 2 and 3 years ago. I know that I love her and I can get through it. She left for a family emergency 2 weeks ago but it seems that she just wants to be away. She has pretty much said that it is over. I dont want to keep on convincing her to stay with me. I am so confused. What should I do. If it is over than ok but I am worried about my kids.

2007-08-17 19:41:17 · 9 answers · asked by usmc20dc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

attracted to in a boyfriend/girlfriend?

2007-08-17 19:40:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was at the movies with this guy (It wasn't a date, but he has asked me out). Anyway, he put his hand on my lap, he left it there for a few minutes before he held my hand. Then every so often, he would keep his hand on my lap. When his phone rang, he let go of my hand to turn it off, but he put my hand on his lap, and kind of held it there until he turned off his phone. Did he do this so I wouldn't move my hand, that way he could hold my hand after? Also, what is with the hand on lap thing? I've never even heard of a guy doing that before. I also had my hand on his lap at one point (I'm pretty sure he put it there, because I wouldn't initiate that kind of thing). What does all this mean? Any thoughts?

2007-08-17 19:37:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 18 years this monday. A few years ago my husband slipped and said he loved a girl from work to me during sex. I am 19 years younger than him and she is younger than our oldest daughter. He dreams about having sex with the girl from work among many others and has called out thier names. He looks at others no stares when we are out together. Should I let him go. I am obviously not who he wants to be with and I can't ignore this. I have tryed to talk to him many times, but nothing much changes. I don't want to be cheated on but most of all I don't want to be lied to. I feel like a fool for still loving him and wanting him to be happy. I just don't know what to do. Any advise?

2007-08-17 19:35:54 · 13 answers · asked by lovesfool 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-17 19:35:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-17 19:35:27 · 20 answers · asked by Pineapple Princess 3 in Marriage & Divorce

is spending $1,000.00 on 2 cats from across the boarder; would you still offer to buy the jeans for him? Makes a mother wonder.

2007-08-17 19:33:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, so there is this guy whom i havent seen in a while, and i want to drive him absoulutly insane, when i see him in a couple of days at school, and i want to know, what i should wear to make his jaw drop to the ground, and make him want me, but know he will never be able to have me which will drive him even more insane. does that make any sence?

2007-08-17 19:32:29 · 12 answers · asked by Debbi H 1 in Singles & Dating

How would I use the word pique in a sentence?? Does it have more than 1 meaning?

2007-08-17 19:29:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, I have a rather large crush on my best friend's older brother. Like a large crush, I've tried to ignore the feelings but they won't go away. And I'm staring highschool next year, he is in the grade before me so I'll be seeing him more often, now the problem is, I've been best friends with my friend since kindergarten, and I don't want things to get weird, what do I do about this? since I probably won't admit my feelings, is there anyway I can get over my crush? HELP!

2007-08-17 19:28:23 · 2 answers · asked by Emily J 6 in Singles & Dating

My daughter has looked forward to going away to school. She took two years at the community college, and now is finally off to a state school 2 1/2 hours away. She is overwhelmed, and very lonely (the dorm is a quiet one- and when she gets back all the doors seem to be closed). She is not connecting, and misses her life at home (she worked and voulnteered with older folks - 20s -60s.. who she used to complain were so much older than her- but now she says she would trade a life of college for her daily life at home). She HAS had depression in the past, so it's a fear.

It breaks a mom's heart to hear your baby (the oldest, but Still - she'll always be my first born) crying.

Is there some wisdom anyone can give me to get MYSELF through the missing her, to give her wise advice but not tell her what to do, and help HER help herself?

It's a sad night here.

Signed,

Brand New College Mom

2007-08-17 19:27:35 · 4 answers · asked by Mc K 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

...and one day your niceness wears off and you turn into a great Big Meanie?

2007-08-17 19:23:14 · 8 answers · asked by Agent319.007 6 in Singles & Dating

is it really as bad as guys make it seem?
are you turned off by the inexperience..

i mean how do you evem know how to do it?
im not saying i am , im only 17 im still gonna wait untill i am married but i am curious if guys find that unattractive
doesn't mean im a prude, which most guys think you know.


and guys who have been with virgin is it a bad time for u?

2007-08-17 19:22:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-17 19:21:23 · 21 answers · asked by Papa Johnathan 4 in Marriage & Divorce