Would you like to have a threesome and how would you go about asking your partner if he/she would like it too?

Question

In my experience, it is mostly the guys who would want to indulge in this but I would like to hear if the females also feel this would be a good idea. If the answer is yes then would it be with FFM/FMM or ? it seems always acceptable that FF is ok but guys seem to steer clear of MMF unless of course the guy is doing the wife/partner. Guys generally like to see girl on girl but what would girls feel like if it was guy on guy and involving the girl also. Numerous options but what would YOU accept.

Answer 1

My misus used to speak about us asking another woman but we never got round to it, she left, maybe that's why but i have been with 2 women a couple o times, it's a great experience like, wouldn't mind another go.

Answer 2

Well, I have been there in relationships and out of them. In both situations mmf and ffm. Out of relationships is fine. Though in them, once you bring another person in the bed, it leaves no limit, no line within that relationship and leads to jealousy and mistrust. So fine if the relationship is not serious but if you are looking for "the one" best leave the flings to the side. If you are both the more free spirited type of couple then it may work. I am not that way so It didn't work for me. Just my take.

Answer 3

I had a 3some with 2 male mates and it was the best and we always said it something we would like to repeat.

I would say a rule that 3some are best left to when you're not in a relationship, 3 single people enjoying some wild fun is amazing but the pressure it could put on a relationship would be huge.

Answer 4

Nope. If he needs someone else to enter our relationship for sex, then he is just too unhappy for me. I would kick him to the curb without thinking twice about it. Very unacceptable in REAL relationships. This is nothing but fantasy that usually stems from straight men's obsessions with 2 women together in bed with them. Judging from male friends that have done this in the past, it's probably not a good idea. Every single one of their relationships were destroyed over such reckless behavior. Instead of expecting your partner to succumb to a stranger in your bed, why not try pleasing them better yourself? It's selfish and demeaning to ask this of anyone.

Answer 5

I think u should have a talk with ur partner telling him/her how u feel about wanting a threesome with u... But with that said, make sure that ur partner understands that u still care about them and loves them,and this is just an extension of ur sex life,but if he/she says no, then discuss why not... My husband and i have been swingers for a number of years and we found that doing this with couples is better than with single people... research the subject first before talking about it though....

Answer 6

i would recommend a head [your head] exam , for you o see if u got all the pieces left intact in there .....

girl ..., are you freekyn' bored ?? .. i mean , isn't u'r partner enough for you , you want another person in the couple ? , how do you expect any relation like this to work ?, how would you expect u're partner to get to tell u that he loves u ? if u throw him , and u're self, in bed with another person, no matter the gender .. ???

i think u have a problem , and everyone thinking like you . i don't think you have a strong idea about what a relationship is about ....

Answer 7

What i'd like to know is how many girl actually would have a MMF 3some. This girl im talking to said she would do that, and it kinda freaked me out... is that normal for girls to want to do that? (MMF)

Answer 8

I don't understand why anyone would want to do that within a relationship. If your single & thats your kinda thing, then great. People just don't want to commit these days, its all to easy to just pop in & out of relationships now. Sad really.

Answer 9

the only way youll get girlguygirl is if she is secretly a lesbian

Answer 10

No