Should I let me EX-GF go?

Question

I'm still really in love with my EX-GF we were together for about a year and a half and were even engaged. A few months after getting engaged we got in a fight because I found out she was lying to me and I was sick of her going to clubs every weekend. Anyway after we broke up about a year ago we tried to make it work but it seemed like she would try to get in a fight for no reason and then we wouldn't speak for weeks on end. At this point I'm about ready to move to Hawaii for a job in a few weeks. Most recently we didn't talk for about 3 months and when I told her about moving she agreed to have dinner with me. We had a great time and I told her I still loved her. Anyway I'm sort of at a loss as what to do. Is there even enough time? I feel like i'm out of options. BTW We're both in our late 20's highly educated, great jobs. She's also from the East Coast and I'm from the west coast... any suggestions or words of wisdom?

Answer 1

FIRST go to hawaii see ur other options.. then if this girl is better and what you want call her to talkk and possibly start visitingg

Answer 2

yes you should let her go if shes always going to clubs shes most likely cheating and if not still you said ur in ur 20s well u need to hurry up and find someone someone who will always be their and wont quit talkin to u exspecially for that long i know its hard letting someone go but u will findsomeone new someone u can spend the rest of ur life with and who will always be their for you

Answer 3

yes words of wisdom. say goodbye and meet someone over there you will be surprized at what you find there she'llb e forgotten never go back to what you had its not worth it.

Answer 4

You said it. - She's your EX.
You're moving. Time to get over old times.
Nothing wrong with a fond, fun, goodbye,
as long as both know that's what it is.