my boyfreinds name is michael and i love him more than anything but i think im too bossy iv tried not to be but i cant help it i always tell him what to do and he will cuz he said he dont wanna loose me but i just dont know what to do i dont want us to break up and im affraid were going to i love him more than anything hes the one i wanna spend the rest of my life with but i dont wanna keep hurting him its like he has no say in anything he does hes said if i break up with him he would kill himself and he saw his dad kill himself when he was 14 so im affraid he would and i dont wanna break up with him i just need help not being as bossy and jelouse but its kindove a temporaroly long distance relationship where we visit once in a while but soon he'll be moving in and im also pregnant
2007-08-17 20:06:17 · 4 answers · asked by hottie_11689 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honey, all women drive the men they love crazy.
While you're pregnant, you get away with anything,
(it's a rule).
If you're moving in together, and you're as bossy as you admit,
(You get BIG credit for admitting it), just be prepared to give him some space.
You might be the natural boss of the relationship, but as he grows up, that might have to change.
If you love each-other you'll work out a reasonable compromise.
Best of luck!
2007-08-17 20:25:09 · answer #1 · answered by Irv S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW !!!
ANY way it's probably that you expect something from him that he cant give and mabey it's because you just expect him to be the perfect BF ( or DAD ) but once you move in together ( which you shouldnt do unless your married ) the bossiness should calm down since he'll be there
2007-08-17 20:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by Marli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u're so bossy because u're afraid not to lose him . u should really talk tis trough with u're boyfriend . and be assured that he is the one for you and he'll never leave you . most women react this way because they are afraid to loose the guy next to them , even if the guy is fully dedicated. my advice is to have a serious discussion whit him and tell him how you feel . and then hear his opinion . my best wishes :)
2007-08-17 20:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by er_ops 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone posted what my thought is
all woman drive men crazy, thats why alot drink, poor us.. but i must say,, we love woman... but mostly at night..
2007-08-17 20:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋