I was at the movies with this guy (It wasn't a date, but he has asked me out). Anyway, he put his hand on my lap, he left it there for a few minutes before he held my hand. Then every so often, he would keep his hand on my lap. When his phone rang, he let go of my hand to turn it off, but he put my hand on his lap, and kind of held it there until he turned off his phone. Did he do this so I wouldn't move my hand, that way he could hold my hand after? Also, what is with the hand on lap thing? I've never even heard of a guy doing that before. I also had my hand on his lap at one point (I'm pretty sure he put it there, because I wouldn't initiate that kind of thing). What does all this mean? Any thoughts?
2007-08-17 19:37:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The guy is "testing the waters" to see what you are comfortable with. I would assume he would have taken things farther if you had given him the go-ahead.
You can be very certain he is interested in you, as for how often guys do this, I personally haven't made that move, since women tend to be more sensitive near their hips. But some guys, who are inexperienced and don't know how to go about it, might put their head on your lap.
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2007-08-17 19:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by Hermes711 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure he was wanting a hand job
I mean my ex boyfriend did that one time and when I didn't take the hint the first time he just took my hand and stuck it down his pants and THEN I got the hint lol
I'm better about things like that now though because I can tell when a guy wants something, I used to not know anything though.
2007-08-17 19:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by jesslovesblink 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was having a bit of a grope by the sounds of things.
That's the sort of behaviour I partake in & when I'm doing it, it is my way of testing as to whether the girl is open to a bit of fun.
When you had your hand in his lap did you feel whether he had anything hard....in his pocket?
2007-08-17 19:47:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure why he did that; but I'm pretty sure most guys wouldn't do that on a "friendly" outing, I know I wouldn't. The question is, are you comfortable with this? God bless.
2007-08-17 19:45:37 · answer #4 · answered by wizball 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that he was just wanting to hold your hand or let you know that he is into you. Not for any disgusting pleasure of his own.
2007-08-17 19:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by j_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically it means, that he was hinting at you to do other things, but be urself, and know ur boundaries! good luck and keep true to urself for all the guy issues ur gunna encounter!
2007-08-17 19:44:03 · answer #6 · answered by Royal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants to touch your vagina and for you to touch his penis; and everything else that goes with that.
2007-08-17 19:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He s jst taking his chance wit u.
Jst think wat u want.
If u want to move futrher wit him, go on.
Or else, Ask him to stop it immediately.
2007-08-17 19:49:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋