Family & Relationships - 17 August 2007

* This isnt really a question..I just want your opinion

Well yesterday I wasnt in the best of moods and niether was my hubby so i guess you could say we clashed a little or alot..we got into a huge fight..he was telling me i lost him that he didnt love me anymore that he felt nothing for me and i kept yelling at him at first and then just broke out crying i cried all night..i literally went numb and was so hurt and was trying to get some kind of reaction from him but nothing (hes really HOT tempered)

So today we didnt talk at all..he left for work and came back..nothing until a little bit ago..and he repeated that he didnt feel anything and to leave him alone but i kept talking cause i needed more than just that and he tells me the truth is that he was seeing some girl but only a few times and she treats him good and all this other BS...and i start telling him hes so f ed up...and i didnt deserve this and of course im crying histerically and i turn to walk away and grabs me and..

2007-08-17 16:10:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i spend the night over at her house and then she came over to mine house. well we went to the beach and we are both competive and so we were having a contest on which who can build the best castle well blah blah blah she was all in my face and then we came back. we played on the computer and she was bossing me around and everything so i was like stop but she never did then she went home and gave me a dirty look.

i need help plz plz plz!!

2007-08-17 16:09:47 · 6 answers · asked by Ruthyrae 3 in Family

if ill file a divorce is my status as immigrant affected?

2007-08-17 16:07:54 · 8 answers · asked by adeng 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i aint a perv or anything i just wondered if anyone else besides me has confirmed the myth tht your first time is something you will remember for the rest of your life

2007-08-17 16:07:33 · 12 answers · asked by war 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean, if you've seen the guy consistantly for a few weeks, at what point do you, as a guy, start to get frustrated that you're not getting any?

2007-08-17 16:06:24 · 6 answers · asked by Lindsey B 1 in Singles & Dating

okay so i moved all the way across the country this summer and its been really hard on me and really depressing.So my old friends at my old home have already started back to school and kind of have moved on. So i am in desperate need to make some new friends to get my mind off my old ones. So I haven't started back at school yet and i can't figure out how to get friends. There aren't any activities out yet and we do live in a subdivision but girls/boys my age aren't outside like kids my little brothers age are. and what do i do if i see a girl ride by on her bike or walk by and i want to get to know her? How should i approach her and not seem weird??
any advice?

2007-08-17 16:06:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i masterbate about 5 to 6 times a day and i am 14 but my mom somtimes walks in on me while i jack off to porn and i dont know if she knows what i was doing but i have been feeling kinda oquared so i knida want to tell her i do it how do i tell her

2007-08-17 16:05:14 · 85 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need advice. I can't get along with my husband's best friend. I feel he is a bad influence. I catched him once staring at my 16 year old sister.He is into guns and hunting and I hate that. Everytime my husband goes out with him he forgets any promises he makes to me. For example, last week he said he would go to his cousin's house and that when he came back we would go out. He did leave late, like at 7:00 p.m., but he returned at 11:00 pm. and then acted like he had said nothing.I told my husband I hated his friend. My husband sided with him and even told him what I said.My husband said that nothing would come between them so every once in a while he goes out with him without asking me or telling me anything he does. I feel that my husband should have not told his friend that I didnt like him and should have just tried to keep things neutraI. I feel very disrespected and I want an apology from my husband. I really dont know what to do. I feel like leaving his *** sometimes.

2007-08-17 16:04:06 · 14 answers · asked by NFM 1 in Friends

I don't know what to do anymore. I have been friends with this girl for three years. She was my BEST friend. Then she gets a boyfriend. It's five months later. . She has DITCHED me so many times. The whole summer I've hung out with her ONCE. And she brought her boyfriend too. And they made out the whole time. Now they're in another city together and I'm pissed. She's gonna end up ditching me on my birthday to be with him, because she's done things like that before.
What do i do ??

2007-08-17 16:02:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-08-17 15:58:31 · 1 answers · asked by mari 1 in Friends

If you saw your friends husband with another woman, would you:
A) Confront him?
B) Tell your friend?
C) Forget about it and move on like you never saw anything?

2007-08-17 15:56:25 · 24 answers · asked by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a couple of friends in my life that I think are taking advantage of me. How can you tell when your friends are taking advantage of your kindness? One friend is always ready to come over here for dinner, movie, couple of beers, asking me to watch his daughter, but I never see him asking me if I would like to hang with him at his place. I have another friend who lived with me for awhile until she sucked me dry and then moved out. Thats a sure sign I know. I have another friend who I do not think is completely honest with me about how she feels about a guy we both know. How can one tell, are there signs your friends are taking advantage of your kindness, the type of caring person you are?

2007-08-17 15:53:48 · 3 answers · asked by tkllum 1 in Friends

to my husband's cousin who is going through a divorce. Her husband has been a real jerk and we just want to send her flowers and let her know we are thinking about her. Saying that sounds like something you say to someone after someone dies. Any help?

2007-08-17 15:52:30 · 6 answers · asked by abcdpepe1122 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-17 15:47:20 · 12 answers · asked by wondering 1 in Marriage & Divorce

have sex ps i want only ages please and thank you

2007-08-17 15:39:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a good looking guy so I am told. IN a relationship with a good looking woman. I cant get enough physical affection, foreplay and sex. I am very generous and the opposit of selfish during sexual activitty. Yet I have not been with a woman who wants or appreciates what I need. I have resorted to phone sex and escorts to fill my need. Whats wrong with me?

2007-08-17 15:38:27 · 8 answers · asked by stbg3 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-17 15:38:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay if white mothers have a black and white child they just can't do their hair! have you noticed that? i'm birracial but my mom's black so they need to learn from them!

2007-08-17 15:31:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've seen this guy around school, and I think he's very attractive but I don't know how to come out of my shell and talk to him. I tend not to stop talking and I start to get annoying OR I blush and don't talk at all. How do I go up and start a conversation with this guy?

2007-08-17 15:30:37 · 9 answers · asked by riquer578 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-17 15:29:36 · 20 answers · asked by broken heart 2 in Marriage & Divorce

they go out clubbing with her/his friends?

2007-08-17 15:26:54 · 33 answers · asked by thunder217 4 in Singles & Dating

I had an amazing half a year and then she just as easily turned it off.
I thought I was smothering her and so gave her some space, and I lost her. "You are a good friend" she told me. "A good friend"? Felt the blood drain from me when I heard that.
A good friend. But what a memorable six months...

2007-08-17 15:26:11 · 11 answers · asked by cynic 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont see why people make a big deal out of it, especially the zealous religious nuts and overprotective parents.

they say u'll be ready if u've waited till marriage but think about, just becuz u walk about 30ft (approximentaly the length of the aisle where the bride and groom walk)...that doesn't mean ur gonna all of a sudden be ready

and besides, my parents waited till marriage for sex and now they hate eachother to no end.

I'm not saying u should get drunk and do it with some random person u've never seen before and won't see again...but whats so bad about it if u truly love ur partner and u use a condom so u dont get pregant or an std.

oh yeah and to the religious nuts who think its a sin or that its un-holy or w/e: After the great flood passed, God said to Noah: "Go forth and multiply", he did not say "go forth, marry and multiply". So how do u feel about that?

2007-08-17 15:25:55 · 21 answers · asked by stlouisramfan2003 3 in Singles & Dating

if i really had my way, it'd be family and like 2 close friends.. since we might have it at our house..

i know we can't get away with that though.. we have to invite some of our other friends.. but then there are those friends that you don't hardly talk to.. you know.. the ones that you see only when it's someone's birthday and they show up to the dinner too, or that you hear from like once every 3 or 4 months... is it bad if i don't invite them?? it will probably eventually get back to them that they weren't invited to the wedding... what do you guys think??

2007-08-17 15:24:28 · 27 answers · asked by idgaf 5 in Weddings

it has gotten bad on several occasions...both are very opinionated as far as how they feel and NEITHER are willing to confront one another and it puts me in a complicated position. they have left our house to sleep in a hotel and my wife doesn't ever want to go to their house again. My wife and parents are people who are hurt easily and are very slow to forgive...how do I fix this? should I even bother trying???

2007-08-17 15:23:30 · 6 answers · asked by juanes addicion 6 in Family

My bf had propose to me last month and i have not accepted it yet. I still cannot get over about he and his ex-gf. I have talked to his ex-gf before and she told me how caring my bf used to care for her, etc etc...
To me, everything is going on fine for the both of us. I just cannot erase of his ex-gf face and all the things she told me. How can I cross the obstacle and accept my bf? If i cannot cross the obstacle, i doubt i would ever agree to marrying him.

2007-08-17 15:21:44 · 2 answers · asked by AK 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife & I had hadn't seen each other for a few weeks prior to this incident. We met up at my sisters house on her way up to our new house that I was going to be moving to with her in a little over a month.

She agreed to let me buy a new TV so we decided to take a ride to the nearest Best Buy. As she was getting our sons car seat out of her vehicle I told my sister to hop in the front seat.

She got a little miffed, did the whole silent treatment thing.

She ended up apologizing stating that it probably had something to do with the 10 hr drive, our separation, & that fact that she was hungry at the time but then she expected an apology from me.

She said a wifes place in a vehicle is next to her husband unless she gives up the position. But it was my sister!

Am I wrong or is she?

2007-08-17 15:20:02 · 22 answers · asked by navynucjohn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the girl i love told my mom to talk to her mom and dad so my mom invite her mom and dad to lil party to talk about both of us that we love eachother and i want her to come because she told my mom to talk to her mom and dad

2007-08-17 15:19:38 · 6 answers · asked by Jose C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hello I am 20 years old and visitng my brother and his girlfriend in New York for three weeks. He let me visit 9 months ago also. He wants me to do all the dishes while I am there and clean up his puppies potty when he is not home as his puppy has a habit of eating her potty. I feel like cinderella. Is it fair for him to ask me to wash dishes while I am there. Plus am I supposed to help my mom out with the chores if I live at home? My brother says that I should help out my mom and help her with the cleaning and dishes and cleaning my room. I'd love any opinions from any 20 year olds.

2007-08-17 15:19:35 · 31 answers · asked by sharonsham 1 in Family

I am going to try and make this as short and sweet as I can.

I live with my aunt...and things are wonderful!! But they want to send me to my grandma's house and...the people in that house despise me (I've lived there before for like a year and I almost killed myself it got so bad), they munipulate and lie and they don't respect me or even love me at all. They only take me in cuz I won't be 18 for anouther year and a half so they have no choice. I can't take that again, I just can't go throught, I won't!!!

So I was going to try and go to a friends house but in the state of Florida were I live, they would just take me and drag me back. I would run away but I'm more mature then that and I know it is a stupid thing to do. I want to get the law involved because both my real parents are in jail and I'm in relative custody with my aunt (my point being, I am no stranger to the law). I am not scared of going into the system, I would rather be there then at that house..........

2007-08-17 15:15:23 · 23 answers · asked by Sammie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships