they go out clubbing with her/his friends?
2007-08-17 15:26:54 · 33 answers · asked by thunder217 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you cant trust them with their friends, then you cant trust them anywhere........ right???
of course I do......... but then again its not me..... its you ............ do you trust your partner???
2007-08-17 15:32:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some times I wonder, am I cracking up, but then I remember that statement that most people have an emotional maturity or emotional intelligence of a two or three year old. I just wonder what that suggests to people? Is it too hard to make the leap to study emotions? I can see where people might not know how much progress has been made in psychology now and that with a little knowledge they can raise kids and a mate with incredible results. Would that be enough information for people to study emotions or not? I even found a website trans4mind .com with 64 free ebooks. Would anyone take advantage of such earth shaking happenings now to get a handle on the whole situation? I kind of don't get a positive feel about it, his friends having more influence then you. I sense people are stuck in there ways or something and don't see the complexity of what their looking at. I can see the atmoshere at home and your future and that of you kids. What do you think? Problem, solution. Isn't it that simple? I said the solutI guess people think, yeh but what about this? Yeh, it's abouon, what's the problem? You need to know something and the skills to deal. It's not just this though, it's the whole mindset for failure and genius is just some information away. Wouldn't people rather have that kind of mind power to see the whole problem and the solution, or is it just about this, so focused that the solution passes by and you future is here in a nutshell. This problem requires a new information for you to see the big picture. I guess people think its just one question. It's getting out of of the mind to see the situation and the skills to deal with a complex question and excuses and talk. It's not a two minute sound bite and everything is OK. It's your whole future whole new attitude to handle all the questions and answers he will say and you will say and excuses and the next problem and the root of the problem and how to keep it from coming back in another shape not yours.
2007-08-17 15:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by hb12 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are going to the club to have a good time and just hang out then you should trust them. If you think they are going to look for people to hook up with or whatever then you shouldn't trust them and you shouldn't be dating. Trust is a really big part in a relationship so you shouldm figure out if you trust your partner or not.
2007-08-17 15:32:34 · answer #3 · answered by Lyndsay P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't go to the club with his friends, although, he will go to a bar (every once in a while). But, yes, I trust him 100%. If I didn't trust him I wouldn't be with him. It's not worth being stressed out about your significant other messing around. Your better off alone.
2007-08-17 15:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by love_dont_judge 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I go to clubs and out dancing when Im dating someone. Its called trust, you have it or you don't. If you dont. You either are given a reason not to by the person or you are insecure. If this is the case, this might not be the best relationship. It doesn't matter where you get your appetite, as long as you eat at home.
2007-08-17 15:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by innamorta2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cant trust your partner than don't be with her my moto has always been trust the one your with until they show they can't be trusted then see you later because if they want to play up then they really don't want you anyway and you will find out ,so trust her its less stressful and more fun and you won't drive her away with not trusting and being jealous.
2007-08-17 15:34:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your other wants to go to the meat market when they have a big steak at home, that's not a good situation. When you get into a committed relationship you give up 'going out' with the friends. It is the beginning of a bad journey down a bad road. Here come the thumbs down I'm sure but this is sound advice from someone who has been happily married for 18 years and seen many couples go spiraling down the toilet.
2007-08-17 15:35:38 · answer #7 · answered by Jimbob 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When boyfriends/girlfriends start to do things apart from eachother (like hanging out with other SINGLE friends)...I think its just a recipe for disaster. And that goes for marriage, too. I would not entirely trust them, no. If they are "clubbing" that means they are dancing/recieving drinks from/ hitting on, other people. Not always, but probably more often then not.
2007-08-17 15:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you can't trust your partner you shouldn't be with them. Trust is a very big part of any relationship.
2007-08-17 15:29:39 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hell no! you know why people go clubbing........so if my man goes i go. if i go, my man goes. anything else means something is going down. if i see a guy at a club by without a lady i assume he's single and thats not the vibe me or my partner should be giving off.
2007-08-17 15:35:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. married 20 years and trust her all the time.
2007-08-17 15:31:43 · answer #11 · answered by sbrman_2004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋