i masterbate about 5 to 6 times a day and i am 14 but my mom somtimes walks in on me while i jack off to porn and i dont know if she knows what i was doing but i have been feeling kinda oquared so i knida want to tell her i do it how do i tell her
2007-08-17 16:05:14 · 85 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sure she already knows and just ignores it as normal behaviour for guys your age. Unless you're trying to get her to help you do it, you'd be best just not to say anything and try to be a bit more descreet when mom's home.
Use your other head for once :-)
2007-08-17 16:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by Captain Jack ® 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHY would you tell her?! She probably already knows, or at the very least assumes that you masterbate. Trust me, your mom wasn't born yesterday. Just be careful and respectful of the fact that no one wants to walk in on that scene, OK?
Geez, 78 responses and counting....Dude, this may make a record!!!!!
Yeah, lock your door. The fact you masterbute is between you and, um, you.
2007-08-17 16:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say she knows... 5 or 6 times a day... Oh to be young again.... Masturbation is a personal thing. I wouldn't tell her, but I would try to make sure I have some 'alone' time that will not be interrupted before I start.
2007-08-17 16:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by pieofpigeon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its none of her business....besides, she already knows...who do you think washes your sheets and underwear? She prob inspects it as she goes...'Oh, bless....he's at that stage already!....Gee, dont they grow up so quickly...She's known for longer than you have... forget about it.. what do you think she does when you are at school? Trust me, she knows every one of your hiding spots and every item you bring into the house.. she has probably even watched some of your tapes.. If she was totally disgusted you would have heard about it by now. She may even laugh and discuss it with her friends, and being a woman, Id say thats a huge possibility.
Typical teenager! Thinks they are the first and only ones to discover, do, encounter.... Your dad probably does it every day too, she prob gets the buzzy man out everyday when no-ones home... you arent the only one with genitals....get over it and if you dont want to be the subject of the mothers group I suggest you find a safer place... happy learning....
2007-08-17 16:20:36 · answer #4 · answered by blerchus4incapet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to tell her. She knows because a mother knows everything about us. That is why a mother is everything.She saw you and she understand that masturbate is a normal behavior and she knows that is very normal. You father knows because your father was a teen like you.See, life a revolving door and the same stuff take place over and over again.In the future, you son will be doing the same. Talk with you father about the matter.It will help.
2007-08-17 16:11:22 · answer #5 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me she knows what your doing. All kids your age masterbate. Why would you tell her anyway? Lock the door or do it in the bathroom or when she's gone to sleep if you dont want her walking in on you
2007-08-17 16:09:19 · answer #6 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sucks for you. I'm pretty sure she knows that you're doing it, and thought it may be kind of hard for her to catch onto reality, she's probably already accepted the fact that you do. I think telling her would just make it even more awkward. Just act normal, and pretend that you don't know that she knows. If it's realllllly bothering you, then well...
go tell her.
2007-08-17 16:09:54 · answer #7 · answered by Irene \m/. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's probably not a good idea to tell her... and uhhh 5-6 times a day? that's getting a little over-excited... might wanna try to cut it down to 1-2.. cause it kinda seems like if it's 5-6 you have no life (no offence)
2007-08-17 16:32:16 · answer #8 · answered by Blake K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm well, if you feel comfortable about talking to your mom, then go ahead. But you both may be embarassed. The best thing is to make sure mom can't walk in on you. Go behind locked doors. You know your mom best. Do you think she would want to talk about it? Or would she really be embarassed?
2007-08-17 16:29:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a personal matter. I dont think u should let her know. U will just embarass urself.
But, u've to find out the side-effect of your behaviour actually. Masturbate is not a beneficial thing. U must try to avoid it.
But, if it can prevent u from sex, then masturbate is better.
2007-08-17 16:11:37 · answer #10 · answered by Doc^chem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋