I don't know what to do anymore. I have been friends with this girl for three years. She was my BEST friend. Then she gets a boyfriend. It's five months later. . She has DITCHED me so many times. The whole summer I've hung out with her ONCE. And she brought her boyfriend too. And they made out the whole time. Now they're in another city together and I'm pissed. She's gonna end up ditching me on my birthday to be with him, because she's done things like that before.
What do i do ??
2007-08-17 16:02:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think it's time to find some better quality friends. It seems as if your relationship is on the way out anyway so it's not like you have to "dump" her as a friend. Just don't call her as often, don't pick up the phone as often... Go hang out with some better quality people! They're out there! I promise!
2007-08-17 16:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang, I know that feeling ! It was a very awkward and uncomfortable for the both of us. But anyone, not about me, about you. What happen with us though was this: I wasn't sure if if I spoke the honest truth to her, if she'd understand because she was "in love". But she got the signs I was giving her, letting her know that I was feeling left out, and I spoke to a few other closer friends, where words get out, but not like to the whole world. She cherishes the friendship we have just as much as I do, and we had a talk about it. She didn't realize what she was doing, and now it's all good, so it might be the same with your case. She might not realize how much she's leaving you out. So I would suggest you talk to her, and if she does understand, she's truly a good friend.
2007-08-17 23:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by Cyndee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some more people to hang out with......Especially on your birthday. And, give your friend a break, she's all in to this guy..........at least right now, so if you are really her friend, then you will understand that. But at the same time, make some plans for your B-day. You also deserve to have a great time. Happy Birthday!!
2007-08-17 23:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes girls are so wrapped up in their boyfriends they forget there are other things in life -- such as friends.
this girl is apparently one of those types.
i think that you can find other friends to do things with, become involved in activities which you enjoy (hobby, gym, swimming, artwork karate class or whatever)....
dont depend on this girl. it's stressing you out!
take care.
2007-08-17 23:06:53 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get new friends.
2007-08-17 23:06:22 · answer #5 · answered by Ally 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love God.
2007-08-17 23:06:28 · answer #6 · answered by get dent 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋