I am a good looking guy so I am told. IN a relationship with a good looking woman. I cant get enough physical affection, foreplay and sex. I am very generous and the opposit of selfish during sexual activitty. Yet I have not been with a woman who wants or appreciates what I need. I have resorted to phone sex and escorts to fill my need. Whats wrong with me?
2007-08-17 15:38:27 · 8 answers · asked by stbg3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nothing is wrong with you. you just haven't found someone with the same sex drive as you. but you will.
2007-08-17 15:42:15 · answer #1 · answered by apple 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I went through similar, I can't say i resorted to escorts but i did end up finding someone more compatible sexually.I did in fact sort of wonder myself if I had some affliction. I was treated as such by less than amorous girlfriend at the time. Once I found a more compatible person with a libido as strong as my own, it become a real non issue. The endless nights of not sleeping ,staying awake sexually unsatisified end. So i can relate to your problem, and hate to say it but you may have to confront your current partner or begin the process of moving on. There are women that value a man with a high libido. Be proud of who you are and unafraid to ask for what makes you happy. And as far as the nay sayers and those conditioned to think that someone with a high sex drive has something wrong , they can't relate nor have they ever spent another one of those sleepless nights fully erect laying next to a partner that can't keep up.
2007-08-17 22:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by mlk682 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should not think anything is wrong with you.
Have you talked to your partner? I don't know all the details of the your relationship, but based on the limited informaton it sounds like your relationship may lack communication. If you are not communicating figure out why? Is their fear and/uncomfortableness? Also, you may want to personally reflect upon yourself...What are you needs. There are people in this world that have a high sex drive and need to be "free spirits", and it is hard to be in a one-on-one relationship. I don't know how old you are either, but you just might be at a stage where you are learning about yourself. By no means, feel there is anything wrong with you. Learn who you are and what your needs are...and then accept them. In turn, try to communicate that to your partner...but don't look to your partner for the answers...for only you know them. Lastly, be ready to accept whatever the outcome is.... sometimes it is better to end a relationship then not to have your needs met because in the long run, you will be unhappy :-(
I wish you all the best!
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2007-08-17 22:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by syda j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you, you just like it a certain way and you haven't found a woman who can help you. If you don't like what you're doing then stop doing it. I have a friend who is like that as well, there really is nothing wrong with you. maybe stop with the phone sex and the escorts and go on a few dates, and find that woman you're looking for.
2007-08-17 22:45:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to find a woman with a higher sex drive. They are out there, I promise.
Phone sex and escorts? Not cool.
2007-08-17 22:42:00 · answer #5 · answered by Samantha S 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are such things as sex addicts. Go consult an expert about it and maybe they can diagnose you for sure.
2007-08-17 22:43:25 · answer #6 · answered by HoPeFuL 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you didnt mention your age.
maybe you haven't found the right woman yet.
take care.
2007-08-17 22:42:24 · answer #7 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no clue
2007-08-17 22:42:08 · answer #8 · answered by Because I'm Kool 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋