Family & Relationships - 17 August 2007

ok, i have been dating this guy and i love him and he loves me too. I knew he was preety old than me but i still went out wid him cuz i thought he is like 6-7 yrs older than me but today i asked him and he told me that he is 36 and i am 17. i know u guyz r gonna say to breakup wid him he is a rapist...but he is not i really luv him and its gonna feel weird wen i c him again cuz now i kno his real age he told me if i wanted to breakup wid him i can... i am in a reallly confused place cuz i dont kno if dis relationship is gonna work u kno wat i mean.
plz think bout it and give me ur opinion . Y ,Y does age matters

2007-08-17 12:18:03 · 12 answers · asked by someone special u can love 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you think it is fair that a non-working spouse should receive half of the fortune when in a divorce? Example: Michael Jordan having to give up his home, property, and other assets topping close to 150 million dollars. Along with child support & ALIMONY! I feel that the one who was clearly not the bread winner isn't entitled to half. I feel she owes him something for not having to work for the past 15 some odd years and being able to live the life of luxury. In all fairness she does deserve a few million (enough to live off of).

2007-08-17 12:16:58 · 5 answers · asked by atuor 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-17 12:16:57 · 2 answers · asked by koalatcomics 7 in Singles & Dating

Her and I got along great till her other daughter in law-whom she did not get along with left town. Now she tries to start arguments between my husband and I and is acting weird in general. She told my husband I never answer the phone when she calls-I work and take care of our 18 month old. If I am busy I don't drop what i'm doing and run to the phone ( if I happen to go to answer the phone now and I see it's her I don't answe it anymore though). She just showed up at our house yesterday afternoon and I was looking something up online (an article I wanted my husband to see) I looked up and she was here (peeping around the corner in the hallway, god knows why she didn't just walk over and sit on the couch. I look up again and she is gone. I figure she is in the bathroom. My husband is standing here and I ask him. He looks and she just left. I told him, I bet ya $10 she got mad and left because I didn't jump up and make a fuss over her. I won $10.

2007-08-17 12:16:51 · 8 answers · asked by viper pilot 2 in Family

does anyone know what cyber sex is? everyone keeps talking about it!

2007-08-17 12:15:03 · 0 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

One boy and one girl. Our son was born 2 years ago and the daughter is hers from another marriage. Since my son was born we have had our ups and downs as most couples do but they never seem to go away. All the talking in the world dosn't solve any issue either one of us has. Over time our fights have gotten worse, physical and sometimes in front of the kids. We both agree this is not the way to handle it and have told each other it wont happen anymore. But it keeps going on, every month or month and a half we are back on the fighting train this cycle never stops. Now i am the one that needs to leave but we split our bills down the middle. Money is tight, cause of a lot of fights, if I keep handing my money over to her for bills and I need to leave this marriage how can I? When do I stop worrying about her and worry about me if we both agree the marriage is done and I have to go when can I start supporting myself. I am lost and don't know what to do.

2007-08-17 12:13:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-17 12:12:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-17 12:09:16 · 4 answers · asked by Shemelia W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ugh....i guess this year you could call me the "it" girl...every guy thinks im hot...and im trying not to be conceited! but every time a guy asks me out my friends tell me that my face turns really really red!!!! please help! make up doesnt!

2007-08-17 12:09:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a warm, caring, professional woman who can take care of herself, hold her own, be assertive as needed and be unselfish, sympathetic and empathetic too. I have a great sense of humor, am sincere, attractive, have a good physical appearance -- yet, when I meet a guy (man), they focus on the physical (I dress normal or even conservative and never show cleavage and wear skirts that fall right below the knee), and never get past that. I never get asked out and the guys (men) who seem interested in that I'm interested in are in some way involved with someone else!

Is there something wrong with me? I act like me no matter who I'm with -- women or men. But, if I'm attracted to a guy, I may flirt mildly or ask questions that show my interest in him than I would do normally. It's normal!

I feel like guys (men) don't like the nice girls (ladies, women) out there. Why not??

2007-08-17 12:08:57 · 16 answers · asked by advice 1 in Singles & Dating

Have to ask again as not many men replied :)
Guys, be honest, how many of you think that sleeping with prostirute is not cheating? Say, if your partner is away?

Is it true that men need sex more than women? If so, would you look for sex if your partner was away for a several months or even a year?

I am sure women would be able to stay without sex for long time,but it seems that men would not mind having sex whlist away from the partner, as THEY ARE MEN AND HAVE DIFFERENT NEEDS, they just relax in this way, there are no feelings attached, so its not Cheating to them..

I ask this question cause I have recently heard this similar thing from two guys (well educated, mid 20ties) and now I wonder, do many of you think like that?

We, women really need to know whats inside your head, so go on confess :))

2007-08-17 12:07:19 · 31 answers · asked by GreenEyes 1 in Singles & Dating

gives them a compliment? Are they fishing for compliments from us.....or are they really that dense?

2007-08-17 12:07:06 · 6 answers · asked by daljack -a girl 7 in Singles & Dating

I have been scanning Yahoo answers for weeks now in search of answers to help handle an emotional/physical affair that began between a long time friend and I. I have about 25 questions that I asked, that came with 1-50 answers sometimes. Many...many were very judgemental about it, some were angry about it, some gave some very heartfelt and real life advice. Some gave some nasty answers, people who were never affected by an affair anywhere in thier life. So I have had a lot of soul searching going on. I am now seeing a therapist to help sort out the feelings that led me into this. Yet I can't help wondering...through it all...all the pain, and anger and guilt within myself...for getting involved in this...I can't help feeling that some people are 'Just Born for Love'. And they get married, because they do love someone and yet they don't know when and how and with who and why they need stop with someone else. Thier hearts are just too big. Just my thoughts.

2007-08-17 12:06:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is being told that you look like a porclein doll a compliment?

2007-08-17 12:02:21 · 20 answers · asked by QueenOfNoWhereLand ?? 2 in Singles & Dating

hi i'm 15 and my brother is13
he keeps on hitting me!!!!
i don't know what to do
i hate to admit this but he is stronger than me and is not afraid of hitting me!! and even if my mom or dad say anything he keeps on doing it
he won't listen to anypne
he keeps on beating me up
and he really hurts me
last time he hit me on my lower stomach and i couldn't move for an hour it really hurt!!
i just don't know what to do
i feel so defenseless!!he is stronger than me and there is nothing i can do!
pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease help!!i am begging you!!!before he kills me for real

2007-08-17 11:54:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

and holds you in his arms till you fall soundly asleep.

2007-08-17 11:53:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I saw him at a local eating establishment and fell for him but I regret not reaching out to him.

2007-08-17 11:49:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am single and i don't have kids, i never married.I met this divorced man and his wife left him 6 years ago, so they are divorced with 2 kids.He is wonderfull and very nice guy but i'm scared to get involved with someone that already has kids, what do you advice me to do?should i look someone single like me?can i be more happy with him?am i going to look for trouble??help me!!Please be serious,Thanks!

2007-08-17 11:44:23 · 32 answers · asked by Rute A 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Further to my Ist Q i have been having this virtual relationship with a single guy on the net for 2 yrs now n i lied to him that im single coz it started with a lark and later i discovered how much i really enjoy conversing with him. Anywayz he has grown to love me a lot and thou he dates other women and tells me about it , he is growing fonder of me by day. Im unable to come clean with him and overridden with guilt from both sides , coz im also being dishonest with my husband who is unaware of this . But somehow despite knowing all the right things to do , im unable to break this connection and daily i spent hours on the net laughing and chatting with him. How do I get out of this ? My relationship with my husband is ok-ok , on a emotional /intellectual/humorous level i click more with my net pal. We dont cyber but do declare our fondness for eachother on chat regularly. Somehow i cannot imagine life without this stimulating exchange daily . Has any1 suffered a similar dilemma ?

2007-08-17 11:41:35 · 18 answers · asked by smashingdelite 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 42 years old man, 18 yearz married, never been happy with my wife, just stood there for my kidz, they are 11 and 16 yearz old...i'm getting really sick, no hope, no future, another word i feel bad when i think to leave them...i dont love my wife, i dont talk to her...i dont make love to her...i even dont like to look at her...but i love my kidz...what should i do?

2007-08-17 11:40:44 · 16 answers · asked by V 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy has been asking me out for 2 months. I haven't given him a definite answer, not because I don't want to, but because its a little complicated(the reason isn't important right now) Anyway, I really want to go out with him, but he wants a definite answer. He wants to go on a date this weekend. I haven't spoken to him since he asked me.
He's been asking me for 2 months. He tells me how beautiful I am, and he tells me he can't stop thinking about me. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to call him, because he'll want an answer. I've tried telling him why its complicated, but he doesn't think its that big of a deal, even though it is. I mean, he's waited 2 months, there must be something there, right? Please help me. I need advice. I don't want to lose him.

2007-08-17 11:38:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How many have you had

2007-08-17 11:36:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I undersand you can fall in love more than once... then I wonder, what is the point?

Is it just to enjoy the illusion of the moment that everything is good and fine, with your special someone beside you? Then when its over, you move on and keep looking for that special moment again?

What is the POINT! Why do we have this desire for love when it ultimatly ends in tears?

2007-08-17 11:34:27 · 14 answers · asked by .... 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad is completly taking over my life.
I am 18 years old, and I dont do anything.
I'm not allowed to have anything to do with my friends.
And im am to never see my boyfriend again. I love my boyfriend, and I plan on seeing us staying in this relationship for a while now.
He hasn't even done anything to have my dad dislike him.
I haven't left the house in 3 weeks.
I want to move out ... but he already told me that was out of the question.
I can't hang out with any body.
what do i do?

2007-08-17 11:33:48 · 11 answers · asked by Kassie 1 in Family

I hate it. I get so nervous talking to people.

2007-08-17 11:33:21 · 25 answers · asked by jblack988 1 in Singles & Dating

OK me and my ex broke up a month and a half ago and he keeps calling me and telling me he wants me back and wants another chance and by now i just hate him. I always tell him to leave me alone. i ignore his emails and his phone calls but it doesn't work he still keeps calling me. I told him all i want is for him to stop calling me and to leave me alone. anyone got any suggestions on how i can deal with it?

2007-08-17 11:33:18 · 29 answers · asked by Mila 2 in Singles & Dating

My son's mother is talking about taking my son all the way to california. We just came from there in april because were struggling,we was in New Jersey up until the last week in July. She always said she wanted to come to georgia and I have family here so we came. because my brother owes me money and I still went to help him out even after not getting paid she gets mad. ?Now she's talking about moving with my son. She's emotionally unstabled and likes to move alot as you can see. What should I do please help I want to take full coustody of my son so he can be stabled.

2007-08-17 11:32:46 · 6 answers · asked by josephcodner 2 in Family

in court they said i had to equitable half my bank account half value of the house
i proceeded with getting a re mortgage and all she had to do was sign off of deed her half was 23k she told mortgage broker
she wanted 40 k or she would not sign well he said no 23 k is half
so she did not sign i lost the mortgage locked in at 7.75 now it will cost me 11.25 per cent
now what do i wait to go back to court and tell the judge she refused to sign or do i try a different way and just send her a check for 23k

2007-08-17 11:27:36 · 3 answers · asked by bob s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so I was outside playing baseball with my niece on those little fisher price baseball kits, that comes with the little softball attached to string when you hit. So I go up to my 11yr old niece and say...keep your eye on the ball, and Swing! well she swung alright and the softball nailed me square in the groin! Obvisouly I fell down in pain and she started laughing and said, HOMERUN! ugh girls...y do u find it so humerous?

2007-08-17 11:26:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been living with a very nice guy for a few years. He is my -friend-. He drives me ape ****, I don't love him.

My mom adores him, thinks he's the nicest guy ever and is constantly whining that he needs to make "an honest woman" out of me. Its almost getting to the point that I want to completely cut off communication with her. I've also considered lying to her, saying I have a girlfriend.

I want nothing to do with any kind of relationships (I'm 26 and have always been like this). If I married him, I'd be even more miserable than I am right now.

How can I get through to her that I don't want to get married without lying to her?

2007-08-17 11:25:10 · 9 answers · asked by witch_cat_meihama 2 in Marriage & Divorce