2007-08-17 12:12:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh boy it sounds like he is going through a midlife crisis? 29 years and that is sad. Maybe you could convince him to go to counseling with you and someone could help the both of you through this? Is it possible that he left because he became interested in someone else? You both have invested so many years together for him to throw it all away now....maybe give him some time but, if possible and you still want him to come back home keep communication with him and try to work this out. If he left and means to never return to you go talk with a counselor for yourself to get direction on your life now so that you will know how to move on. I am so sorry this has happened to you and I can only imagine how you feel. You have to keep yourself busy and do something for yourself right now like joining a gym, walking, exercising and staying close to family and friends. I realize this must be a difficult time for you because it would be very hard on me. My husband and I are at this point in life to where things happen like this to couples. You just never know after spending most of your life with someone that any of our husbands would do that us to. You take care of yourself right now the best you can.
2007-08-17 14:22:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh Oh I smell a rat....no husband leaves after 29 years unless there is someone else in the picture. I am sorry to say. OK so he left, hopefully he is still supporting you and the household. Just stay put and see what happens. You will find out soon enough if there is another woman. Next thing he'll do is ask for a divorce. Try to go for counseling on your own so you can handle anything that comes along. Separation and divorce is very difficult and stressful so any help you can get is worthwhile. Good Luck to you.
2007-08-17 19:23:53 · answer #2 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when a married man leaves and says he needs to find out what he wants, he has met someone else, and either doesn't want to burn his bridges yet until he is sure of the new love. he wants to leave the door open in case he needs to come back to u. after 29 years a man just doesn't up and leave unless he is seeing someone else.
2007-08-17 20:05:38 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he's just a jerk. Maybe he's feeling burdened, after 29 years, with someone who considers herself "ugly and hopeless". Your self-esteem is a huge burden to ask anyone to furnish for you. It should come from a place deep inside yourself, and it should light your world and relationships.
2007-08-17 19:26:46 · answer #4 · answered by ciamalo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time alone to find out what YOU want for YOUR life.
Date other people and see if you can find someone better.
Because this is exactly what HE's gonna do.
2007-08-17 19:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a statement not a question.......... sounds like you never let the guy think for himself, good for him to split from you.
2007-08-17 19:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by Dr Phil 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What's your question?
2007-08-17 19:54:14 · answer #7 · answered by Gee-Gee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, what's your question?
2007-08-17 19:20:26 · answer #8 · answered by ((♫♥♪♫♥♪♫ Shivers ♫♥♪♫♥♪)) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AND.....................
2007-08-17 19:52:18 · answer #9 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋