I'm a warm, caring, professional woman who can take care of herself, hold her own, be assertive as needed and be unselfish, sympathetic and empathetic too. I have a great sense of humor, am sincere, attractive, have a good physical appearance -- yet, when I meet a guy (man), they focus on the physical (I dress normal or even conservative and never show cleavage and wear skirts that fall right below the knee), and never get past that. I never get asked out and the guys (men) who seem interested in that I'm interested in are in some way involved with someone else!
Is there something wrong with me? I act like me no matter who I'm with -- women or men. But, if I'm attracted to a guy, I may flirt mildly or ask questions that show my interest in him than I would do normally. It's normal!
I feel like guys (men) don't like the nice girls (ladies, women) out there. Why not??
2007-08-17 12:08:57 · 16 answers · asked by advice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Many of us do. We also tend to marry when we find one. I'm taken, for instance.
2007-08-17 12:15:48 · answer #1 · answered by John's Secret Identity™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is are you nice by the definition of the interested men's book. Your self evaluation, or evaluation of by other women, or by men not interested in a woman are irrelevant. Men don't want mean girls. The willingness to share baggage is possibly the virtue. Have u considered supporting a man, loving a man for his maleness, or sort out a man's baggage if he has one, probably not. Women reject men who need help, and who's fault is that?. Men are learning that if they think they know they are nice, then there is some utility and purpose in the work in serving a woman who recognizes the kindness and us nice in return. It probably not a good idea to expend one's life with a snobby self sufficient women, in a relationship based on materialistic exchange.
2016-04-02 02:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys do like nice women. It is generally assumed that nice girls, as you put it, are already committed to a steady relationship. The nice girl image also sends a low volume signal that you are looking for a serious relationship. There goes another segment of men who do not want a serious relationship just yet. As a man I will tell you one feature that few women have but men do notice and whisper about and that is a woman who is confident in her feminine self but enjoys playing simple sports. Men appreciate a woman who can participate in a softball game or sink a few hoops.
Good luck and be true to yourself.
2007-08-17 12:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No keep doing what you are doing, you are just eliminating all the fools who can't see a good women when they are standing right in front of them.
Chances are those men are more interested in things like sex than in relationships. Some men find professional women intimidating and not interesting because they are not "easy". I am sure you will find someone deserving of you soon. I wouldn't worry to much about it.
2007-08-17 12:17:40 · answer #4 · answered by Cheese 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends the type of guys that your intrested in...you probaubly want a guy who doesnt want the caring and faithful type cause their are many good guys out there who may b jus like you...theres nothing wrong with you your fine the way you are if a guy turns you down thats his lost cause you have something to offer that most girls cant
2007-08-17 12:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by Eric Johnson 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy but I feel the same way as you. I always feel as tho the hot girls like the bad boys or aka jerks. You sound like a great person and I wanna wonder why too. I like nice girls and I am annoyed and dislike snob girls. The nice girl of my dream has to be honest and strong (independent), she has a sense of justice and she can stand up for herself. Nice girls are really dedicated to their mates thats why I respect that. I'm guessing for other guys they like wild girls for sexually reasons. I don't really like girls who are too wild really... There is nothing wrong with you, I'm just like that too cept Ima guy. Attractive and strong nice girls are great.
2007-08-17 12:29:24 · answer #6 · answered by Closed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice men like nice ladies as a general rule. At least I do. In my opinion, low-cut dresses and miniskirts can be rather intimidating. If you wait long enough, you will be able to find someone who likes you just the way you are.
2007-08-17 12:16:18 · answer #7 · answered by Pooky W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe it or not, a guy can sense when a girl is easy. they can tell that they have to work hard to get laid, so they wont bother when there is another girl who will put out quicker. the nice guys are too scared to come out and say how they feel.
2007-08-17 12:26:22 · answer #8 · answered by HerR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally i do like nice girls my preference is shy girls but i guess its all on the type of guys you are looking into. You sound like the type of girl i would date and your clothing choice is very attractive i like that its sexy in its own way. But thats just my opinion
2007-08-17 12:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean,&& i don't know why.
maybe now && then you can wear shorter skirts && show some cleavage && if u don't want to wear a skirt where some short shorts.
but guys these days go for the hoess
those littlee shitts
2007-08-17 12:16:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we do --- it could be that you meet the guys in the "wrong" place --- dont ask me what the right place is --- i met my love online by accident --- so i had to base my opinion on her words more than appearence --- all i can say is keep an open mind and you will be taken by surprise ---- best wishes
2007-08-17 12:20:27 · answer #11 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋