This guy has been asking me out for 2 months. I haven't given him a definite answer, not because I don't want to, but because its a little complicated(the reason isn't important right now) Anyway, I really want to go out with him, but he wants a definite answer. He wants to go on a date this weekend. I haven't spoken to him since he asked me.
He's been asking me for 2 months. He tells me how beautiful I am, and he tells me he can't stop thinking about me. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to call him, because he'll want an answer. I've tried telling him why its complicated, but he doesn't think its that big of a deal, even though it is. I mean, he's waited 2 months, there must be something there, right? Please help me. I need advice. I don't want to lose him.
2007-08-17 11:38:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are u stupid?
if u like him and he likes u then whats the problem? i dont think its complicated.
if im not getting the point then add some details
2007-08-17 11:43:56 · answer #1 · answered by rock*star 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you really want help? It is rather hard for me to help you if I don't know what the real problem is. If it is that complicated that you can't give him a real answer maybe you should tell him no for now. Get your situation cleared up. Then you can ask him out later and not have to worry about whatever it is. I really need to know more about your situation. If you really like him you should be able to talk to him like an adult. You may be messing up your chance at real happiness. If he still wants to go out with you after being blowed off for two months maybe he is that special person just for you. I hope you get your thing together. I wish you happiness.
2007-08-17 11:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by godiz4me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to lose him, and you feel he's that important, then like it or not...but you have to confess to him and tell him the truth about why you can't date him exclusively.
.That's all you can do.
If you go in circles with him and you're not straight up about what's going on, then of course he'll only assume you don't like him like he likes you and that you're only making up excuses to not see him and/or date him for that matter.
.BE HONEST. Say what you need to say.
He's going to walk right out of your life just as quickly as he came into it if you're not up front about what's going on and you don't give him an explaination.
.good luck.
2007-08-17 11:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by Murphy's Law 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that the little complication is important. you have to get over that complication and tell him your answer. if not, you will lose him
but everything seems fine between the two of you, so you guys should be able to hit it off
2007-08-17 11:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by elusive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well its kind of hard to answer becuase we dont know why its complicated for you.. ummm but i mean hes waited and hasnt givin up yet you might want to give it a shot with this guy.. but like i said it would be easier to help out if we knew the whole story. good luck
2007-08-17 11:44:48 · answer #5 · answered by chick_on_a_stick69 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I were you, then I wouldnt go out with this guy. If he doesnt accept that you dont really know if you want to go out with him because of your complicated reason, then he doesnt deserve to go out with you. I think he's putting on this great show of 'patience' to impress you.
2007-08-17 11:48:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get you. If you want to go out with him then why are you going around the issue? You say why is not important, but in this case it is because I cant give you a better answer....sorry
2007-08-17 11:44:37 · answer #7 · answered by spring 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he asked you out on a date, he didnt ask you for a kidney!! get over yourself and your 'complications' and quit stringing the poor guy along, he deserves a straight answer one way or the other, you are lucky he is still interested.
2007-08-17 11:48:30 · answer #8 · answered by oh really 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont wanna lose him and u wanna go for a date than goooooo i guess cuz u r not really specifying the reason y u dont wanna go if u think dat its a really big deal than tell him straight u know dont make him wait if ur answer is no cuz it hurts.
2007-08-17 11:45:30 · answer #9 · answered by someone special u can love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are marryed or have a BF then i can see where its get complicated if you dont then just go out with him if you like the fact he is chasing you dont make him wait to long he will tire of chasing you
2007-08-17 11:46:15 · answer #10 · answered by panthor001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont get it, your telling us all the info so we cant really help you but you will loose him if you dont do anything about it soon. it kind of seems like your scared to get into a relationship. i dont know but the guy obviously cares for you so i would give him a chance, go on a date with him, if its strange for you then tell him you dont feel right with him, he'll understaand.
2007-08-17 11:52:37 · answer #11 · answered by MOFO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋