Family & Relationships - 17 August 2007

I have a wife, two kids and two dogs. Kids are 13&9 so their education would also be a factor. So where is a nice place to live where there is employment, nice homes and good schools?

2007-08-17 11:25:07 · 8 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

and my boyfriend saw me!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-17 11:24:13 · 30 answers · asked by Leah 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I was outside playing baseball with my niece on those little fisher price baseball kits, that comes with the little softball attached to string when you hit. So I go up to my 11yr old niece and say...keep your eye on the ball, and Swing! well she swung alright and the softball nailed me square in the groin! Obvisouly I fell down in pain and she started laughing and said, HOMERUN! ugh girls...y do u find it so humerous?

2007-08-17 11:23:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay I asked a question previously about sex. Many people suggested that I 'teach' him to do what I like and tell him what I don't like. How can't I tell him what I do and don't like if 'I' don't even know? I don't masterbate or anything. I have a mental block about it. I just can't do it. I WON'T do it. So how can I teach a man to give me what I want when I don't even know?

2007-08-17 11:21:58 · 12 answers · asked by Skyy L 1 in Singles & Dating

what do you do if your man accused you of cheating but you have never cheated?
We are broken up now because he just doesn't trust me. I don't understand why he would think such things of me. I have two kids and he is not there father. I don't have time to cheat.
What should i do, I really care about this guy and maybe even love him but he can't trust me.

2007-08-17 11:21:27 · 30 answers · asked by mzting 1 in Singles & Dating

I am majorly in love with this guy and we were talking for hours last night. when i had to go he said that i put the beauty in beautiful. He knows i like him and he said he liked me too. but when i logged on this morning he was on so i said hi. it has been 5 hours since i sent it and he hasnt responded yet. i dont know what to do i want to still like him but i dont know if i can anymore. please HELP!!!!!

2007-08-17 11:20:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who I have had feelings for for ages, but, as he was married when we first met, I never acted on them or expected him to feel anything for me.

He is now separated and moving towards divorce. At first he was upset, but now talks positively about his plans for moving house, travel and work changes. Since feeling better, he's also contacted me very regularly (almost every day over the past few weeks) and we are planning on meeting up in a few weeks for a weekend together.

When we are together, he stares a lot and I often catch him looking when I am doing other things. He is also very compliamentry - tells me I am smart, hard-working, full of life, etc.

We have a lot in common - more with him than any of my other friends. All this, despite the fact that he is 45 and I am 23.

From this information (I know, not a lot to go on), do you think he likes me? I'm a little overweight, but have an OK face & don't dress particularly sexually - just jeans with dresses, etc.

2007-08-17 11:18:57 · 12 answers · asked by Kirralilly 2 in Friends

2007-08-17 11:18:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my wife and i want a threeway (mmw) with a black man we are white we both had them befor just not with each other and befor we were together we would like to share the fun been together 7 years

2007-08-17 11:17:57 · 20 answers · asked by lookingtopleaseher 1 in Marriage & Divorce

http://www.teleflora.com/category.asp?rcid=99043
Any of the first 6.
I'm concerned they may be too small on such large tables.
Also would celedon (green) or ivory linens compliment green flowers better.
(wedding colors ivory, celedon w/ hints of black.)

2007-08-17 11:16:44 · 15 answers · asked by RED 5 in Weddings

This Q? is coming from my 6 yr old son, believe it or not. Today we spend a lil time with his father (my ex hubby) and as soon as we arrived home, my son stated "Mommy, I want to be a News Reporter....I want to know "Why........" so here I am postin his Q? It's a way of showin him that even though he is not a News Reporter at this time, his Q? can still be read & answered by millions! I believe he asked this Q? because his lil mind still does not comprehend that two people can still have feelings for one another, be good to one another & yet live separate lives as I and my ex hubby do! Please if you decide to answer this Q? do it using words that a young child can comprehend....I am plannin of readin the answers to him :) thx

2007-08-17 11:12:10 · 15 answers · asked by gmg2 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I swear If I see or hear one more woman over the age of 21 whining about how she was "used" or "got played" I'm gonna scream!!!! Why can't these women admit they wanted to have sex, or they tried to use sex to get a man to commit? Sure, there are men who are dogs, but in so many cases it seems like the woman is using the man as much as he's using her. It's like if the guy calls, it was a "spiritual experience" but if the guy doesn't then she was "played" and she tries to put all the blame on the man instead of seeing that she made a personal choice to be sexually active. I am sick of seeing women who put themselves out there as victims. It reflects badly on women as a whole, it gives the message adult women can't make reasonable decisions about our sexuality without turning it into some dramafest! This is 2007... are there any women out there who don't have 1957 mentalities regarding choosing to be a sexual person whether or not it end up with happily ever after?

2007-08-17 11:11:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am really good friends w/ my ex of 23months..we go to the same university and since he knows that i did horrible 2 semester in a row he wants to give me space to do good this semester..then he says that i will make someone happy one day yet not him and that he wants to go with me to Romania which is my native country in the winter after his b-day until before school starts if i get good grades..my friends especially good guy friends tell me that he might be popping the question since no guy will go w/ his ex to a foreign country for no reason.what do you guys think?

2007-08-17 11:10:58 · 20 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok this is killing me.
i REALLY REALLY like this guy. l mean for like months. last year was good and we connected. and its the first week of school and all we have done was said hi.
but it feels like hes lookin @ me but then he looks away. hes an introverted guy but he talks alot when u talk about a subject he likes.
how do i take it to the next level?
ik it sounds gay but i want him to be my boyfriend!

2007-08-17 11:06:06 · 11 answers · asked by oohthe summer 2 in Singles & Dating

How easy is it for a guy to get aroused by visual stimulation only ... I mean when seeing a girl in public? Does it happen often? Can any girl cause it or is it just the girl friend/wife?

Thanks in advance for answering.

2007-08-17 11:05:18 · 18 answers · asked by applegoogle 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm your typical white guy and I have been dating this chick from the Philippines for about 6 months now. And the thing is that I feel something is wrong. She don't seem too much into me and the thing is I'm not exactly a Brad Pitt( I'm UGLY ) hehe. But she is VERY HOT. I don't even know how I hooked up with her. The thing is that she now is talking about getting married. For me this is way too fast. And now I feel that she's using me to get her green card. She keeps talking about how she wants to go visit her family in the Philippines ( She currently can't since she doesn't have papers ).

I mean our relationship is fine and the sex is great but I'm starting to feel used. She says she loves me but I mean I don't believe it. If we break up I am going to be very sad and I will miss her. Things just won't be the same without her. I will sure miss stuffing THAT turkey. I am an Aeronautical Engineer. She just takes ESL classes at a community college.

Is she using me???

2007-08-17 11:02:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im A Shy Bloke But Yeah Im Polite And I Love To Talk Any Enjoy Myself

2007-08-17 11:02:02 · 2 answers · asked by sunnyb4u 1 in Singles & Dating

and I think he feels the same way about me.
Trouble is hes got a fiancee and they are expecting a baby.
Am I wrong to feel like this?

P.S its Sasperman.

2007-08-17 10:57:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Itallians and Irish especially!

Where can I meet white men who are attracted to black women?

I'm not interested in the guys who are into rap and that type of lifestyle, because I'm not, I want to meet nice laid back guys.

I've gone on Yahoo Personals, Match.com, and this interracial site, but I really don't want to pay to meet guys, you know.

If you have any good ideas please let me know! Or, maybe if you're an interested party =0) let me know as well and I'll give you a detailed list of what i'm looking for.

Oh, and I reside in the LA and OC area, so if you have places I should go in my area let me know.

Thanks! =0)

2007-08-17 10:56:11 · 4 answers · asked by Lovely in Cali 3 in Singles & Dating

Hi Iam 20 years old have a 6 month baby, my husband is 23, anyway I know my husband for 2 years now, we lived together for about 3 months then he moved in with me, the thing is that I wanted to met his mother after we knew each other for a while! but she was always making excuses, so I stop, then I got pregnant when I was 3 months she finally said to go over to her house when we got there I was nervous, we seat and eat everybody in the table were talking but they never said one word to me, not even how was my pregnancy going, I felt pretty offended I went home thinking that they didnt want me, I told my
husband how I felt he told me that hes mom changed since she got married to another man, his step- father and that all she does is listen to him, and never care about him anymore! since my daughter was born they havent give her a thing! and she's her first grand daughter, then his step fathers son lives there with his GF there so fake,my mother in law talkingabout me with the gf




I can not believe how they're, they always want to come between this marriage, they think that Im the bad person, cause whenever is the weekend and I dont feel like going to there house they think that I control him, but the truth is that my husband never wants to go there if Iam not ther with him, He loves me more then anything and I do too, she. The sep father has son and my mother in law is always talking to him so nice and to his Gf too, she treat him better then my husband and she talks to her more then me! everytime I go there I go thinking that things will be better, Im always nice to them, but they just dont want to open up
with me! now I dont even want to see them anynmore, only my mother in law cause I believe she has the right to see her grand dauhgter but the other people I dont care! Do you think I should see them, after them not giving my dauhter a thing?


they never want to comet to my house cause we live with my parents, and what I hate about my husband is that he never talks to her, he never tell her how he feel after all this years, they're just too
apart from each other! I dont know what to do! Help me please!

2007-08-17 10:52:22 · 8 answers · asked by Ursula M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi Iam 20 years old have a 6 month baby, my husband is 23, anyway I know my husband for 2 years now, we lived together for about 3 months then he moved in with me, the thing is that I wanted to met his mother after we knew each other for a while! but she was always making excuses, so I stop, then I got pregnant when I was 3 months she finally said to go over to her house when we got there I was nervous, we seat and eat everybody in the table were talking but they never said one word to me, not even how was my pregnancy going, I felt pretty offended I went home thinking that they didnt want me, I told my
husband how I felt he told me that hes mom changed since she got married to another man, his step- father and that all she does is listen to him, and never care about him anymore! since my daughter was born they havent give her a thing! and she's her first grand daughter, then his step fathers son lives there with his GF there so fake,my mother in law talkingabout me with the gf




I can not believe how they're, they always want to come between this marriage, they think that Im the bad person, cause whenever is the weekend and I dont feel like going to there house they think that I control him, but the truth is that my husband never wants to go there if Iam not ther with him, He loves me more then anything and I do too, she. The sep father has son and my mother in law is always talking to him so nice and to his Gf too, she treat him better then my husband and she talks to her more then me! everytime I go there I go thinking that things will be better, Im always nice to them, but they just dont want to open up
with me! now I dont even want to see them anynmore, only my mother in law cause I believe she has the right to see her grand dauhgter but the other people I dont care! Do you think I should see them, after them not giving my dauhter a thing?


they never want to comet to my house cause we live with my parents, and what I hate about my husband is that he never talks to her, he never tell her how he feel after all this years, they're just too
apart from each other! I dont know what to do! Help me please!

2007-08-17 10:49:12 · 2 answers · asked by Ursula M 2 in Friends

Is it when you want to forgive and forget when the person has done something wrong?

What are some characteristics of this?

Is this the aim of love? for it to be unconditional..?
Not between parent and child. RELATIONSHIP

2007-08-17 10:46:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My cousin is 27 years old and has two kids ages 9 and 2. My cousin does drugs and social services has been involved a few times. She doesn't pay any attention to her kids and hands them off to people when she is tired of them. She also goes from one guy to another without any breaks and not taking time with her kids. I also think that she is stealing stuff to get money since she has no job and if social services get involved again the kids will get taken away and the family won't get them. I'm afraid and I don't know what to do. My cousin needs help, but rehab did no good. She will never change and it seems she cares more about her drugs then her own kids. What should I do? I'm afraid if I turn her in to social services then the kids will get taken away and the family won't see them again. Any advice would be great. Thank you.

2007-08-17 10:43:34 · 17 answers · asked by *Dreamer* 4 in Family

I've asked many questions about my crush in the past, and from the answers I've received, it seems like there is a pretty good chance that he likes me back. Problem is that he is leaving for college in 9 days. I know I will definitely be seeing him on Sunday, when we go out to dinner with alllll of our other coworkers, but I'm afraid that might be the last time I see him until he comes home when classes aren't in session. He's pretty shy, as am I, so he hasn't said anything to me. So I'm trying to figure out if/ when I should tell him that I like him instead of waiting for him. I don't want to do it at the dinner, cuz we are gonna be with 20 of our coworkers that have no idea that I like him. Would it be really lame for me to tell him online? Everytime I think about telling him in person, I get too nervous and am too afraid to tell him face to face. I was thinking of maybe telling him tonite online, but I dunno. Or should I not say anything at all? I think I'd regret that tho. help!

2007-08-17 10:42:54 · 8 answers · asked by dreamer55 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-17 10:42:14 · 1 answers · asked by mouimoui 1 in Singles & Dating

when my bf was breakin up with me last nite....we were talkin for a while....he explainin things to me....and one thing really jump out at me....he said "sometimes i luv u, sometimes i don't"....wht is tht suppose to mean?...

2007-08-17 10:40:17 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that sh!t was too f*cken funny, yo! Jacki Chanis crazy as usual and Chris Tucker is a d@mn fool in this movie. i recommend it to everyone!

2007-08-17 10:37:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i read a lot of yahoo answers that guys always look at boobs, butt, etc. everytime i catch guys looking at me, i always see them looking at my face, not my body. are guys good at not being caught looking at the body?

2007-08-17 10:35:45 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Perhaps this is a stupid questions, but I've gone on three dates with a guy. I've looked stunning all three times, but he hasn't complimented me on anything--personality, shoes, car, accomplishments, food choice--nothing.

Can someone tell me what it means when a man doesn't pay a compliment? (He's still calling and asking me out...).

2007-08-17 10:26:59 · 66 answers · asked by kerber22 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend's falling in love with a violent guy. He likes to take advantages on her (her body, money,....). No matter how much he abuses her, she still wanna be with him. I usually see many wounds appeared on her body. I try to tell her but she still doesn't want to listen. What can I do?

2007-08-17 10:23:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating