Okay I asked a question previously about sex. Many people suggested that I 'teach' him to do what I like and tell him what I don't like. How can't I tell him what I do and don't like if 'I' don't even know? I don't masterbate or anything. I have a mental block about it. I just can't do it. I WON'T do it. So how can I teach a man to give me what I want when I don't even know?
2007-08-17 11:21:58 · 12 answers · asked by Skyy L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Play a game. It's called, "I tell you when I like something, and you do it more."
If you will NOT experiment on your own to find out what you like, that's about the only way to do it. And make sure you play from both sides -- you telling him, and him telling you.
2007-08-17 11:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by Jarien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will know after you do it. Trust me your first time wont be great it hurts and Im being honest. However after you do it a few times you will start to see that you prefer certain things and not so much of other things and thats how you know- as for the masterbating that is fine- some do it others dont- but dont think that it is dirty or degrading- it is a normal thing. and dont be surprised when a guy ask you to do it front of them-
2007-08-17 18:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by mrsyac2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right...how would you know a candy is sweet or sour unless you try it..(don't give me that read the label ). Is it a question of guilt thats why you can't masturbate? people have different preference when it comes to that...no one can tell you whats good, whats ok and whats great....maybe the two of you can start by kissing and let his hands and tongue lead the way...
2007-08-17 18:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by lvchic_702 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i guess thats your problem. You don't even know what you like. You can try asking him if you guys can try different things and by experimenting together you'll have to find something that works for you.
2007-08-17 18:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by California Kush 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will learn with him. Have him do different things and see if you like them or not. Read the magazine Cosmo. It is really helpful in that area.
2007-08-17 18:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by Angelic Valentine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might try watching a few x-rated movies to get ideas of whats out their to like or online lots of that stuff floating around,experiment with diff things to see if you like it or not just be sure to use condems an be safe an stay clean
2007-08-17 18:29:14 · answer #6 · answered by panthor001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're obviously too young and too immature to have a satisfying sex life.
2007-08-17 18:25:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be very young or just need something that turns you on.What do you get excited about.
2007-08-17 18:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by markc4364 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you could slow down with the expectations and learn together
2007-08-17 18:38:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play "Doctor" and experiment with him.
I'll bet you'll learn then ;)
2007-08-17 18:27:05 · answer #10 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋