My friend's falling in love with a violent guy. He likes to take advantages on her (her body, money,....). No matter how much he abuses her, she still wanna be with him. I usually see many wounds appeared on her body. I try to tell her but she still doesn't want to listen. What can I do?
2007-08-17 10:23:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay away from her and don't talk to her. She is selfish and she is just taking advantage of you to get your sympathy. You are far better off not knowing about her problems because you will end up being tired and exhausted.
2007-08-25 02:32:07 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might want to report that to the authorities. That is one very unhealthy relationship. No man should ever abuse a woman for any reason. Try to explain to her about what could happen if she stays with him. She needs to know that she can do a lot better than some abusive idiot.
2007-08-17 17:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by spyder 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some women, violence means that someone cares for them, but in the real world we know that no woman can or should put up with someone that abuses her mentally OR physically. It can only end up in tragedy or death. She needs help and you should give here references of where to seek it or tell someone that is in her family what is going on, if you are really a friend, you will do this. If you are asking this question for yourself, for God's sake, get some help you MUST get rid of this bum.
2007-08-25 11:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until she wants to help herself, there's nothing you can do to help her.
Please learn from her mistake. Don't follow in her footsteps.
I know she's your friend, but she's draining you emotionally and mentally. Eventually, it will take a toll on you physically.
Apparently, it's hard on you too for you to seeking answers out here on Yahoo. Please don't let her drag you down with her. I'm sure you've tried with all your might to get her to leave this guy.
Perhaps if you can talk to her parents and ask them not to tell her that it was you who ratted on her. Perhaps they can help her by talking to her.
Above all, pray for her, pray for abuser and pray for yourself.
2007-08-25 11:26:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her. Don't let yourself get into trouble as well, but let her know she can always come to you. Let an adult know....(I'm guessing your both still younger??) Let someone else know, and let her know of any places she can go if she needs to. If you report this she will probably only just deny it and he will hurt her more because of it. Persist in trying to get her out before they have kids or marriage.
2007-08-25 09:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by greyghost_84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't want to listen you will have to wait till she wakes up and realizes what has happened. All you can do is be there when this happens and help her then. There is no guarantee this will happen before its is to late.
2007-08-25 16:58:42 · answer #6 · answered by lynnsanner@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fist, go to your rooom and pray for her. ONly God can change personalities and emotions. Second, tell the guy to stop abusing her that she is just as human as him. Then, tell your friend about how bad he is with you. Or show him another guys to be with!
2007-08-17 17:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by Hospitality 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If that is happening then you should know he hurts her so she doesn't break up with him or tell anybody what is happening. to help her you should ether tell the police i know it might hurt your friend but where her bf is going they can help him understand its wrong to hurt someone in tat type of manner
2007-08-25 13:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by Teenage Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you've already tried talking to her and she won't listen then all you can do is pray and hope for the best. it's a decision and situation that she has to one day wake up and realize.
2007-08-24 23:44:25 · answer #9 · answered by angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing that you or nobody else can do. shes the only one that can stop him from doing the things that he do to her by leaving him. just pray for her and maybe one day she will come to her senses and leave him and press charges
2007-08-24 19:46:37 · answer #10 · answered by sweetness23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋