what do you do if your man accused you of cheating but you have never cheated?
We are broken up now because he just doesn't trust me. I don't understand why he would think such things of me. I have two kids and he is not there father. I don't have time to cheat.
What should i do, I really care about this guy and maybe even love him but he can't trust me.
2007-08-17 11:21:27 · 30 answers · asked by mzting 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He accused you of cheating because he did. That's just how it goes. So why don't you ask him who the other girl was?
2007-08-17 11:23:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Screw him, he obviously has trust issues and if he can't trust you when you've given him no reason not to, then he's not worth your time. Have you cheated in the past and told him about it? He might be scared you're going to do it to him too. If there's absolutely no reason for these accusations, he's just flat out a loser.
2007-08-17 18:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by graybear 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are just like that; they are jealous.
There is nothing you can do and if you are staying with him you will have to deal with it for the rest of the time you are with him.
Another thing it could be is he is cheating on you and wants to make you feel guilty. Also, in case he gets caught he can blame it on the fact that he had suspicions about you.
2007-08-17 18:26:37 · answer #3 · answered by nanizm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The reason he accuses you of cheating is because he is a cheater himself. Guilty feelings stemming from his own cheating ways causes him to accuse you because it is the only way he can feel better about himself as a cheater. He accuses you of doing what he does so in a sick yet understandable way, he can deal with himself.
2007-08-17 18:32:18 · answer #4 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably did the cheating and is so insecure that he thinks what he is doing, you are doing. Don't get hung up on nonsense...you have two kids to worry about, not the immature High School BS.
2007-08-17 18:25:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he's the cheat and wanted out. most people who are guilty are the ones doing the accusing. move on and find someone who treats you like a lady and cares about your kids.easier said then done but you deserve it
2007-08-17 18:25:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Without trust you have no chance with him, try to move on, by the way he has a guilty conscience, he cheated so you must have...dumb guy.
2007-08-17 18:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by Glinda W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's most likely the one that's doing the cheating. Don't let his screwups bring you down. Question him!! Accuse him!! And see how he acts. If it is meant to be then ya'll can work through it. Good Luck..
2007-08-17 18:27:33 · answer #8 · answered by crazylady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth is...most ppl who accuse their partners of cheating are usually the ones who are doing the cheating. i was that person many, many times! i have much experience in that erea. so truth be toled..ur prolly better off with out him....unless u like being with a guy that cheats on u!
2007-08-17 18:26:21 · answer #9 · answered by john m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this guy is an @$$hole. You may still care for him but if he doesn't trust you now, it can only get worse. Find someone else who cares and doesn't treat you like S H I T.
2007-08-17 18:26:07 · answer #10 · answered by Nae 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he can't trust u, ur always going to be hurting and fighting with him. u deserve someone who trusts u until u do something that makes them lose that trust, no the other way around. there's no reason u should have to prove ur trustworthy when u've done nothing wrong.
2007-08-17 18:25:41 · answer #11 · answered by Kristabella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋