i am really good friends w/ my ex of 23months..we go to the same university and since he knows that i did horrible 2 semester in a row he wants to give me space to do good this semester..then he says that i will make someone happy one day yet not him and that he wants to go with me to Romania which is my native country in the winter after his b-day until before school starts if i get good grades..my friends especially good guy friends tell me that he might be popping the question since no guy will go w/ his ex to a foreign country for no reason.what do you guys think?
2007-08-17 11:10:58 · 20 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
correction:i have known my now ex for 24 months plus after which we broke up.. not being broken up for 23 months..also we are both smart and i am working on 2 degrees at once:bachelor in teaching and associates in biotechnology..also we talk on the phone a lot and neither of us has gotten over the other person nor has dated anyone else and is still in love with me..also if this helps:even though we broke up he still surprised me for my b-day with a surprise worth hundreds worth of dollars..i mean he also asked me out on one date after we broke up and i said yes..he has been interested in seeing Romania since last year when he bugged me about prrices,attractions and then went to my mom to ask her more info..so does that sound convincing that he wants to go?
2007-08-17 18:04:06 · update #1
Well if he is a good friend.... maybe he just wants to see Romania with someone who may know a little about the country!
Take it at face value and don't let other's try to make it into some big deal.
2007-08-17 11:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the guy has told you that you will make somebody happy one day, yet not him, trust me, he is NOT planning on popping any question, except that if he wants to go to Romania with you, he might be intending to pop the question whether you will lend him some money - which, if you did, you will never get back LOL.
I smell something very very very fishy about this whole thing. That thing about "wanting to give you a chance to have a good semester" is as phoney as a three dollar bill. He's up to something. I can't put a finger on it because I don't have enough information from what you posted. But I can smell it like a rotten egg.
2007-08-17 18:19:39 · answer #2 · answered by sharmel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been separated from him for 23 months?
And he has the NERVE to ask to go to Romania with YOU? He is using you honey. Find a good guy who cares about you to go with. Even a good friend. but surely not him. I just have this strong third sense thats he's using you and will hurt you.
2007-08-17 18:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by mustanglu2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just looking to travel, but its cool having an ex as a good friend. I have a best friend who is an ex, I am even friends with his new wife. Your guy is not gona pop any question other than "can I come along?" You are still friends after 23 months, stay friends but move on!!!!!!
2007-08-17 18:18:29 · answer #4 · answered by inkgddss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't bet on him asking you the question. He probably is just being nice, and/or wants to go to Romania and what better way than with somebody that you know and that knows the area.
2007-08-17 18:15:58 · answer #5 · answered by ☆Zestee☆ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes your ex, i dont think he`ll be popping the question anytime soon. He obviously doesnt want to be in a relationship with you if he told you you`ll make some other person happy thats not him. Just dont get your hopes up, i think hes just looking out for you, as far as you getting good grades and what not.
2007-08-17 18:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by cynthisizer_x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends are wrong.
Your ex may be the best friend you have, and if that's the case, he's not gonna' jump your bones in Romania or anywhere else.
Hope I'm wrong, but don't count on it.
2007-08-17 18:14:51 · answer #7 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a good friend who genuinely cares about you and at the same time needs someone to be his tour guide in Romania.
2007-08-17 18:15:18 · answer #8 · answered by harleyq8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your ex values your friendship very much but has determined that as "Friends" you two are GREAT! As lovers, the relationship is lacking and not what he is looking for.
2007-08-17 18:22:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Popping the question?
That's just hogwash. He's your ex.
If he wanted a relationship, you'd be in one.
2007-08-17 18:17:03 · answer #10 · answered by All That Glitters isn't Gold 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋