I've asked many questions about my crush in the past, and from the answers I've received, it seems like there is a pretty good chance that he likes me back. Problem is that he is leaving for college in 9 days. I know I will definitely be seeing him on Sunday, when we go out to dinner with alllll of our other coworkers, but I'm afraid that might be the last time I see him until he comes home when classes aren't in session. He's pretty shy, as am I, so he hasn't said anything to me. So I'm trying to figure out if/ when I should tell him that I like him instead of waiting for him. I don't want to do it at the dinner, cuz we are gonna be with 20 of our coworkers that have no idea that I like him. Would it be really lame for me to tell him online? Everytime I think about telling him in person, I get too nervous and am too afraid to tell him face to face. I was thinking of maybe telling him tonite online, but I dunno. Or should I not say anything at all? I think I'd regret that tho. help!
2007-08-17 10:42:54 · 8 answers · asked by dreamer55 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's going to be a freshman.
2007-08-17 10:51:35 · update #1
Yes! Definately. You should because if you don't he'll look for girls and find one he likes. Then you'll really regret it. Take a chance! And if he doesn't like you back, he's a jerk and you need someone better than that.
2007-08-17 10:49:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should play it cool at dinner and feel out the situation. If he has been your crush for a long time and you have flirted, etc. and he still hasn't asked you out than he is just not that into you. Sorry but if a guy really wants to ask you out shy or not he will!
2016-05-21 22:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him... i did the same thing with a guy back in june at graduation... the worst that can happen is that he doesnt feel the same... and just remember : if you take too many chances you may regret something , but if you never take any chances you'll regret everything that could have been...
so just go with your heart and see what happens!
♥jessica!
2007-08-17 10:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by *jessi* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing for sure you may mist out on a great relationship weather you still be friends or pals 4ever. I know you shy and all that but someone must say something. why don't you say I like you a lot how do feel about me I got to know before you leave. I wouldn't email him but if you feel he may reject you and your hearth is not strong enough to survive if you or rejected do what you gota
2007-08-17 11:14:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will he be a freshman? If so, I don't really think that it will matter because he will be playing a whole new ball game. If it's his 2nd year or more, speak your piece! The worst that can happen is him telling you to never talk to him again ...
2007-08-17 10:50:49 · answer #5 · answered by mrsclh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and get him away from everyone and tell him. Good luck!
2007-08-17 10:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by Zombie Birdhouse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-08-17 10:45:26 · answer #7 · answered by jt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you carry butt lube in it.
2007-08-17 10:47:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋