Family & Relationships - 17 August 2007

I am shaking. We overdrew our checking account by 200. Then the added charges. I am a very obsevice. The idea that I have screwed up so bad. My husband thinks nothing of this. I am upset to the point of feeling phsyically sick. I thought I was going to beat the crap out of myself this morning. I probably would have, had it not been for my two little boys there getting ready to go to the sitters. I cant get anything right anymore. I have tried forever to fix me & no good. I am tired of trying. I just want to give up. I work my butt off & all my money goes to my family & our bills. My husband works his butt off & most his goes to bills. The early years of our marriage had some financial bumps & we had to use credit cards to get by & now we are in over head & not getting by. I push my self so hard & it kills me to see us get no where. We make average or better $ for our area but we can barely make ends meet. I just never see us getting out of our falling apart trailor.

2007-08-17 02:26:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

word i know is ' honorificababilitudinitatibus' means 'honour'

2007-08-17 02:23:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

actually i found her this week ...oh my she is soo intellegent....she tooks my heart away ....give me a piece of advice plz ... wt should i do...????

2007-08-17 02:22:51 · 3 answers · asked by ooops 1 in Singles & Dating

im sad bc all my friends have a lap top and i dont i really want a lap top.

2007-08-17 02:22:23 · 22 answers · asked by Sydney 3 in Family

I never get any kind of benefits so...........I found my own.

2007-08-17 02:22:02 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I are both virgins.

We've talked about having sex for the past two days. && we've even considered it.

We've together for 1 yr && 4 mnths.

He told me that it's up to me whether we do it or not. && the thing that bugs me is that every time I ask him if he's ready, he says that "It doesn't matter as long as I am." He always answers me like that. && I'm guessing that either he's not ready or he just wants to just because I'm ready.

I mean if he's not ready, that's totally fine with me.

So what should I do?

2007-08-17 02:19:21 · 23 answers · asked by moi 1 in Singles & Dating

she works on one side of the warehouse, So I don't ever see her!!

2007-08-17 02:16:35 · 11 answers · asked by AnaHi82 1 in Weddings

2007-08-17 02:05:47 · 20 answers · asked by a little lost 6 in Singles & Dating

Many brides go in a limusine.

How about grooms?

However incredible this may sound, I've only attended two weddings: my cousin's and brother's.

My female cousin hired a limusine. I was staying in her house when she got married. I don't know how her fiance got to the church, though.

My brother hired a black Mercedes.

How did other grooms usually choose to go the church (or where the ceremony will take place)?

Women may also reply to this if they want.

However, please state if you are male or female.

2007-08-17 02:01:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mother don't like My Wife And that Has Caused confusion in our Marriage and other siblings. I love my wife with all my heart , she said I put her down and caused her to have low self Esteem. Some times when you argue with some one sometimes you to say things that you don't mean. We have two kids together We've bend married since we where eighteen years old the first 4 years of our marriage was great but the next 5 years was rocky. My wife said i give other women more complaments and not her I only did that only three times and that was it . To me my wife is the most beautiful woman in the world. I told her that I'm going to change but she will not give me a chance to prove it. I really love this woman she mean the world to me. I just dont Know what to do.

2007-08-17 02:00:31 · 21 answers · asked by REGGIE R N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-17 01:57:44 · 10 answers · asked by Sandra D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

can you guess?

2007-08-17 01:57:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My daughter is 15 and is now staying with me. She lived with her Dad before in another state.

My ex-husband sent her to me so that we could both decide if we want to reunite as a family. He moved due to job reasons so we would start over fresh in a new state.

I feel bad because I spent hours talking on the phone with my ex-husband, booked tickets for us both and booked the Salvation Army truck to come and pick up my things that are in storage.

Yet, I can not pick up and make the major transition to be back with my ex-husband again. I still see that he is controlling and money-minded. He was pushing me to sell my things instead of giving them away. I tried to tell him to stay out and he would not.

He also did not show that he really wanted me to come back and cared for me. Someone said that he should have shown interest in me and now what I do with my stuff.

I feel sad because now he will move on and I will be alone after my daughter leaves for college.

2007-08-17 01:56:20 · 11 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

army and weighed 130lbs (but I still wore the same size clothes), I stayed at about 134lbs for like a year, then got up to 160-got pregnant was 202 when I gave birth, lost 20 and now I am stuck at 184. my husband doesnt seem like he loves me or wants to be with me anymore. I want to lose weight for myself but I dont want to do it for him becuase he should love me no matter what i look like right? what do u all think?

2007-08-17 01:50:47 · 22 answers · asked by hotmama07 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Later on he told us we were valuable for the company and that he would not fire us.

One night later he came to me and asked to give him a hand job because her wife blablabla

I did that and a little more, but now I am afraid people in the office will think I am a ***

I am thinking this because now one of the CEO-s out of the blue asked me out, obviously this other guy told him about me


Please do not judge me, when yuu are attractive this things happen

2007-08-17 01:44:16 · 21 answers · asked by Agi H 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-17 01:44:08 · 14 answers · asked by Sandra D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

anyone no problem

2007-08-17 01:38:52 · 5 answers · asked by pinky 2 in Friends

HELP I am in need of solid advice?
I dated this girl 4 years ago we broke up she got married to someone for three years and was abused physically and mentally. I moved back from hawaii to be with her as I do love her very much. In the course of the last month her divorce was finalized, he still trys to controll her , and to top it off the company she worked for shut down. I am starting to feel like the whipping post. Told me she wanted to be single and I needed to move out ect.. Do you think this will pass as she has a lot of stress going on right now.
I moved back from hawaii to be with her as that is what we both wanted and now all this has happened. I know you said to butt out but do you mean forget about her and move on. I am by far not the salvation I just know what we have had is good and dont want to lose it. DO you think I am crazy for sticking around?

2007-08-17 01:34:08 · 11 answers · asked by countryboy237 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister has been engaged for 3 years and is getting married July 2008. Last year, I met my now fiance and we planned a wedding date for October 2008 (there are many reasons we have why we don't want to wait until 2009). My mom and sister are having a rough time with me wanting to get married then. They are saying that it is going to take away from my sister's wedding, when in retrospect, it will be the opposite, I feel. She is inviting about 200 people and my fiance and I only want about 50 people at the most. My mom doesn't want to pay for 2 weddings in one year, which I understand. However we want something very small and we are asking her to only pay for the reception. If we offer to have a church wedding next year in October (which we will pay for) and then we actually have the reception in April or May 2009 when she can actually pay for it, is that bad?

2007-08-17 01:32:25 · 21 answers · asked by alh3803 1 in Weddings

2007-08-17 01:25:43 · 11 answers · asked by Raghavendra R 5 in Friends

2007-08-17 01:24:15 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-17 01:22:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I almost cried yesterday when he didn't want the cheesecake I baked for him, but he doesn't mind everything else I did for him. He didn't even try it and I worked so very hard on it. I know he doesn't appreciate me and he keeps hurting my feelings. I never let on that I am hurt and I keep going back for more...why do I keep doing this to myself??

2007-08-17 01:19:46 · 8 answers · asked by Crapcleanwrestler 2 in Singles & Dating

In the past month I was beaten and I also got a death threat from another family member 4 a misunderstanding. The next weekend The family had to make an emer. 6 hr drive cause my g-ma had cancer. At 1st the doc said she had 6 mon. 2 live. She couldnt make it 2 her doc appt. so her doc came 2 her. As soon as she saw her she cried and rushed her into the cancer ward. They said she had a wk or 2 left but 3 d. later she died. I was with her. I had been quite sick but I found there 2 B more important things going on. She was a 2nd mom 2 me and a bff as well. I had never lost someone close. Mom & I r in pieces. 2 top it off we r both very ill and arent suposed to get out of bed for 2 wks. yesterday dad decided 2 serve mom w/ div. papers right after she had a tooth removed. This is the 2nd time hes walked out on us. can you give me ideas or places we could contact in r situation? Moms pays no good and I have a disease, preventing me from working nothing but part time (if that), thx!!

2007-08-17 01:18:23 · 13 answers · asked by Babes 1 in Family

I move a couple of years from my home town to another leaving all my friends behind, concequently its hard to get out and about to meet people.

2007-08-17 01:16:54 · 15 answers · asked by pagan_bouy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-17 01:12:15 · 9 answers · asked by My Anh 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-17 01:08:00 · 14 answers · asked by aly belle 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-17 01:05:04 · 14 answers · asked by seanie 1 in Family

Hi i am a mother of three i have been married for the last 15years. my hubby is an very loving person and hot tempered too. he is also responsible in taking care of the family. he has a weakpoint that he has an affair with a women but for money . wheni confronted this he reasoned out things that he will never leave his wife and kids for any women and told me not to make aissue out of it. i am now stress out bcos of this prob and have affected my health and down with skin problems. i also start strssing him out, he now says if i keep pressuring him mon this matter he would leave me and kids i love my hubby and he loves us, i do not want to leave for for anyone, but i must keep w\quite also as he is the sole bread winner. what can i do to keep myself without stressing myself which my condition is bad pls help

2007-08-17 01:04:03 · 19 answers · asked by susan r 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-17 01:03:29 · 51 answers · asked by Louis Junior. 4 in Marriage & Divorce