she works on one side of the warehouse, So I don't ever see her!!
2007-08-17 02:16:35 · 11 answers · asked by AnaHi82 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Imagine how good it would look if you went AND brought a small gift. The HR person is someone you really want on your side.
2007-08-17 02:21:28 · answer #1 · answered by Ade 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If you don't want to go then don't go. My human resources person was married and I went it was nice but the whole company didn't go. We have also had other bridal and baby showers here at my job but not everyone attends. Mostly whomever they hang with and that persons department.
2007-08-17 09:31:57 · answer #2 · answered by OFFICIALLY MRS. HOWARD! 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I wouldn't go. You never see her, I assume you don't have a personal relationship with her, so there's really no point in going except to get on her good side. However, I would suggest that you at least send a "good luck" card with a gift card in it to the place she's registered.
2007-08-17 10:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to go to a bridal shower, you don't even have to bring a gift!
So it is not wrong that you do not go to the shower.
2007-08-17 09:30:44 · answer #4 · answered by Terri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is just a respectful thing to do by going. But, It is totally up to you if you want to go or not. It can not be used against you, if you don't go.
My work is going to throw me a shower and it won't bother me if not everyone comes.
2007-08-17 09:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by beth v 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not friendly with the bride to be do not go. Some ppl just get carried away with their guest lists. They sometimes think.... more guests more gifts. Also as others have pointed out she holds your work file... that is crap!!!!! You should not fear anything would happen to your work environment because you do not attend her celebration. That's unprofessional!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-08-17 11:03:10 · answer #6 · answered by Aunt Nini 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's ok not to go. I hate those work bridal/baby showers events. Just send your regrets that you can't go (make sure you have a good alibi).
2007-08-17 09:20:28 · answer #7 · answered by asldfkjdfj 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Didn't your mom ever tell you that you don't have to do anything, if you don't want to do it? My Mom didn't tell me that either but since I am not your Mom, I can tell you that. Life is to short to go through it doing things that you detest doing. There are too many things that we have to do that are just not fun. I have to clean out the cat box today. I really hate doing that. If I had to go to a dorky shower today too, that would take an entire day of pleasure out of my life. Do what you want to do. Good luck.
2007-08-17 09:33:39 · answer #8 · answered by dellet2 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you have never met this person dont go. If you have and occasionally hangout got to lunch then yes you should go but you dont have to. If you have never talked to this person but hello as passing no way. Dont let co-works pressure in to going just say no thank you it not your thing.
2007-08-17 16:01:26 · answer #9 · answered by typicalcagirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go, take a modest gift, and have some fun. Remember, she is the person in charge of YOUR work file!
2007-08-17 09:30:15 · answer #10 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋