My boss found me and my colleague doing it in the office late at night?

Question

Later on he told us we were valuable for the company and that he would not fire us.

One night later he came to me and asked to give him a hand job because her wife blablabla

I did that and a little more, but now I am afraid people in the office will think I am a ***

I am thinking this because now one of the CEO-s out of the blue asked me out, obviously this other guy told him about me


Please do not judge me, when yuu are attractive this things happen

I work for trasnational company in Europe

My question is should I go with CEO and what can I get from this

I am not married, and no kids

My bosses are mostly expats with kids and money but no brain

Answer 1

What was your Question?

Answer 2

If you're not married and don't have a boyfriend or anything, then go for it. I would do it and move my way up! You never know how far you can move up in a company until to try! If the CEO is asking you out already, imagine how much of a raise he would give you and you dont even have to sleep with him! Its amazing how women have this advantage and men don't:(

On the other hand, if you have kids and you're married, then the best thing to do is leave! You dont want to risk losing your marriage over a few affairs at work. Marriage is way more important than a raise!!

Answer 3

Your reputation is obviously tarnished and the boss didn't fire you because he knows that he would get a "little action" and you won't hesitate. Now, the "other" guys wants freebies and it has nothing to do with love. A person is not "attractive to these things" - probably not the appropriate word to use its your hormones really acting-up. One guy yes, but one after the other no. Respect yourself and others - because guys won't. Recognize what you did is "WRONG" and if possible go to guys and ask them to forgive you, and if possible find another job - cause I'm sure the girls will have something to say as well as the men.

Answer 4

Hahahahaha! Hillarious! I am sorry, but the phrase "and a little more" was when I hit the floor laughing.

So, what's the question here? Sounds like you are just fishing for emotional justification from others on this board.

Why don't you just take responsibility for your sexual actions instead of lamenting about how "this things happen"? Okay, so everyone in the company now knows you like sex, but is that such a bad thing? If anyone calls you the s word, that just means they are jealous that you're not giving it to them if they are male, or that you're getting more than they are if they are female.

Answer 5

What was the 'and a little more' that u did??
Shifting responsibility by saying'when you're attractive, things happen' (it says you have NO BRAIN/NO CHOICE in what happens= A Common/MAJOR LIE people use!!!).
Stupid to have sex in the office, in the 1st place(you may also be on someone's security camera, whether they admit its there or not, so start worrying!!!!). You derserve whatever happens (as long as they don't promote you over someone that works hard WITH out screwing their way up the ladder!)!

Answer 6

Talk to your boss about it. You dont want a fight in the car part. I have seen it happen before. At the moment stall the CEO. And siphon as much paper as you can from both of them so that if you are fired you be good. Thats reality

Answer 7

I don't know what you are asking but I'm sure that he has been running off at the mouth. Why did you proceed to go further? You shouldn't carry yourself this way, especially at work & then be concerned about your reputation. Stop the activites you are doing & if you must just be with someone, take your personal life to your house, his house or a room. Keep your private life out of the office.

Answer 8

Too late, they probably already do. Soon you will be given a name and a reputation (if you don't already have one). Rumors will then fly about you sleeping with so and so and how you got such and such, so on and so forth. People can be cruel like that. The real problem is that they will come to expect that from you when ever they need it and when you don't put out, they may put you out. I hope that never happens and stop doing that before it becomes too late.

Answer 9

U most be crazy and really horny to have sex in your office, and the fact that u gave your boss a hand job shows that u r a real w hore..even if u needed that job u should have had some self respect and not do it, unless of course that u liked ur boss as well...

Answer 10

When you are attractive things like this happen?

No, I think when you put yourself out there like this things happen.

I've had what I call dark times. Other guys might call me "the man" or whatever.. but all I was doing was just being a manslut. I would find good looking girls and it was a game, I would do what it took to seduce them, and then go to the next game.

I found that certain girls would approach me that knew of my actions.. but all quality girls would keep their distance.. birds of a feather do flock together.

Since then I've changed my feathers... someday you will want to as well...

Until then,.. be careful.

Answer 11

Being attractive doesent make ppl want you for sexual favors. You can be unattractive and some men still gonna want sexual favors. The workplace is looking at you as some kind of s-l-u-t, i say that because the passing the word around like, so and so did this you should talk to her so you can get some too. You should have reported your boss for sexual harassment for asking you to do a sexual favor for him. Him being your boss does not obligate you to do anything he wants. Whatever you do you need to make it loud and clear that your not the business sex toy