OK me and my ex broke up a month and a half ago and he keeps calling me and telling me he wants me back and wants another chance and by now i just hate him. I always tell him to leave me alone. i ignore his emails and his phone calls but it doesn't work he still keeps calling me. I told him all i want is for him to stop calling me and to leave me alone. anyone got any suggestions on how i can deal with it?
2007-08-17 11:33:18 · 29 answers · asked by Mila 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
or some guy would call him and tell him that your my guy and for him to leave me alone?
2007-08-17 11:34:12 · update #1
Ok, yeah so this is going to be a pain in the ***...but if you honestly want this to stop you have to do some of this stuff:
1- E-mail him back and say "Please stop talking to me, we have been broken up for ___days/months and I don't want anything to do with you anymore. We have no reasons to talk, and I don't appreciate you calling, texting, e-mailing me or anything of the sort. So stop. I'm sick of telling you the same thing over and over again, if you don't stop trying to contact me I am going to file a report on you for harassment."
2- Print out that e-mail proving the time/date that you sent it and told him to leave you alone.
3- Change your e-mail address, if you don't want to do that...then I suggest you block his address(es) from contacting yours. If he continues to e-mail you print them out for proof...blah blah blah
4- Change your phone number and only give it to the friends you talk to the most.
5- Record all incidents where he contacted you time/date etc.
**If it becomes too much, report him for harassment.**
.......sorry for rambling, I know what I suggested is pretty funny in a way...but hey you asked so I told.
good luck.
2007-08-17 11:42:52 · answer #1 · answered by Murphy's Law 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try and be nice about it
Instead of being cruel
Let him know that your sorry
you hurt him and that you'll
always be his friend and that
you would appreciate it if he stopped
calling you and emailing you...Tell him
you think you both need space away
from each other and explain when he
calls you and emails you it only pushes
you further away and making you upset!
Maybe he's holding on to the best thing
he ever had and all your doing is kicking
him in the balls when he is down...
Try a little compassion and see if that works!
Put yourself in his shoes... would you want a
guy to treat you this way when it was over?
2007-08-17 11:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by Saffie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u told him that u dont care about him anymore? usually that's what u have to say in order to get a guy to leave u alone, i broke up with one of my exes cause he was cheating on me..he wouldn't leave me alone, then he said the only way i will leave u alone is if u say u dont care about me anymore...he stopped calling me ever since, so if u haven't tried doing that, that would be my suggestion
2007-08-17 11:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by hunterjumper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that would be a good idea. or if its really that bad maybe the guy has some issues and start stalking you. if this happens make a journal and keep the logs of his phone calls, voicemails or emails. you will need it just in case you need to file a restraining order if it gets really serious.
2007-08-17 11:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by shia_luver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call your phone service, and have his number blocked. If he gets a new number, do the same with that one.
Block his e-mail address as well.
If he starts coming around your house, thats when you need to worry, as he's approached 'Stalker' level. Call the authorities, and file a restraining order.
2007-08-17 11:38:22 · answer #5 · answered by JAGuzman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-10 10:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by rosalind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your local police department and tell them that you would like for them to pay him a visit, make sure you explain everything that's been going on. If he still is bothering you then get a restraining order, if he still is bothering you take his parents to court, and hit them in the pocket which then someone will get the big picture
2007-08-17 11:42:55 · answer #7 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well block his phone number first... and then you have a guy friend tell him to back off of you because you dont want anything to do with him any more. Im sorry that you are going through that i had to go through that too.. it sucked but mine went a lil farther than yours and now i have a restrainging order against him.. but see what happens when you have a guy friend go up to him and talk to him.. good luck girl and sorry you have to deal with that...
2007-08-17 11:41:03 · answer #8 · answered by chick_on_a_stick69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a situation similar to yours. I did everything you're doing. I ended up with him trying to take my life. If he can't take no for an answer please seek legal help. Get a restraining order and block his number from your phone. I was lucky, I survived . Don't take the chance to find out what he will do next. Get help from law enforcement. Whatever you do please be sure its really over. Going back and forth between it's over and it's not over is really dangerous. That sends all the wrong signals. I'm really concerned about you. Get help please.
2007-08-17 11:45:13 · answer #9 · answered by godiz4me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him if he doesn't leave you alone you are going to put a restraining order on him. I had to do that with one of my ex's and ever since then he has left me alone. LOL. Yay
2007-08-17 11:41:07 · answer #10 · answered by adamsmommy21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋