Okay, first of all let me just say that I know I was wrong to be snooping on my brothers computer and I should mind my own business and respect his privacy and yes I feel horrible about it but I was bored and he wasn't around.So please spare me the insults. Anyway as I was looking through his recent searches and I found that he searched for "pregnancy by foreplay" .He was out with his girlfriend the other day and I think that they did something and hes really worried that she might be pregnant. I don't want his life to come crashing down because I love my brother and he'll probably never forgive me if I tell mom and dad.What do you think?should I tell them?
2007-08-17 12:38:37 · 19 answers · asked by Euphoria 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Why not talk to your brother.
2007-08-17 12:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by pepsiolic 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that isnt serious enough for your to tell on him about maybe if you want to help him you need to have your parents open up about sex and discuss it along with everything else because obviously nobody has done that or he wouldnt be searching that and what if he didnt do anything but his friends said that it was possible to become pregnant from foreplay so he wanted to know if it were true or not which again leads to someone needing to sit him down and talk to him about the birds and the bees as well as you since you think your brother reading up on pregnancy and foreplay will make his world come crashing down....
2007-08-17 19:48:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, quit snooping around. Tell your brother that you violated his privacy and that you are sorry. Let him know if he still trusts you enough, you are there for him if he needs to talk.
As for the pregnancy by foreplay thing...it's possible, but not likely....see the links below.
http://health.ivillage.com/gyno/gynobc/0,,6h9q,00.html
http://media.www.thedailyaztec.com/media/storage/paper741/news/2004/11/04/Opinion/Ask-The.College.Doc-792882.shtml
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/ate/sexandrelationships/sex/200397.html
http://dearsugar.com/16846
http://www.mainefamilyplanning.org/docs/ask_counselor/questions_11.php
2007-08-17 20:19:49 · answer #3 · answered by Green Is Sexxxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should let your brother handle his problems. Because you might not be right about what's really going on. Its best for your brother to handle his business himself. Instead of you bothering him. Cause I have brothers and they wouldn't want me telling mom and dad about something I don't know anything about. Right? Sorry If I'm too mean. But you shouldn't tell your parents. You should ask your brother about it. Maybe he will tell you what's going on and if not then it's not your business. But just straight out and tell your brother.
2007-08-17 19:50:34 · answer #4 · answered by awkwardnerdlove 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, keep your mouth shut. It is between your brother and his girlfriend. Quit snooping around. You never know when you may find something you wished you didn't know. Don't ever admit to anyone that you saw this on his computer even if you find out the girlfriend is pregnant.
2007-08-17 19:44:47 · answer #5 · answered by Julie H 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No.I think you should go talk to your brother and let him know what you did.He loves you and he will understand just dont do it again.Let him know what your concerns are about the pregnancy and maybe inform him to get the girl a pregnancy test.This may be a false alarm so no need to worry your parents just of yet.Talk to your brother first.
2007-08-17 19:45:31 · answer #6 · answered by dede 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not your concern really. If you are that concerned about it fess up to your brother about your snooping and talk to him about it. It is NOT your place to tell your parents about it. He could have just been curious too, you never know. Try not to jump to conclusions without knowing ALL the facts.
2007-08-17 19:46:11 · answer #7 · answered by Ethelucy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if ever he needs to talk about anything you're there for him and leave it at that. Until a problem is there don't create one. You really don't know what the situation is until you have the facts. Keeping quiet now is the best thing to do.
2007-08-17 19:44:26 · answer #8 · answered by Michael K 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no talk to him and explain how youl always be there for him trust me i have 2 cuzints that got pregnant at a young age(1 is 18 and the other is 15)so just talk to him
2007-08-17 19:52:53 · answer #9 · answered by Lace 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well your not sure of the situation yet. There could be another reason for that to come up on his comp. I wouldn't tell my parents or he would hate me and never trust me. I would tell if the situation gets really deep for his safety. Just see how it goes and maybe it'll be fine.
2007-08-17 19:44:26 · answer #10 · answered by Closed 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
talk to your brother first. he just may be looking up some info for a friend.
2007-08-17 19:43:14 · answer #11 · answered by george 2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋