This girl is startin to do my head in!??
-asked this girl out who i like and she likes me..
-she said it was too soon (just broke up wit bf)
-i tried a few times, then gave up...
-she text sayin not heard from u in a while..hows things?
-saw her again and she said she was havin 2nd thoughts about me cos it was good to see me and she realised how much she wanted me
-asked her out again, she was busy, now i tried (for the last time ever!!) and got neither a yes or no but ill speak to u tomorrow!
please, whats goin on? what does she want? whats should i do?
i really like her but i am gonna give up but i keep gettin mixed signals
2007-08-17 13:00:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with Martin.
She sounds like a bit of a messer.
2007-08-17 13:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by Irish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I can see why youre getting wound up ;-)
Well, firstly, she seems like someone who is interested ("she text sayin not heard from u in a while..hows things?" and "she likes me" and "she realised how much she wanted me")
she has said too soon, and not never: so you are a possible
do you know why she broke up with her last boyfriend?
seems you are putting too much pressure on her to be in a relationship to me.
(assuming she was going to call you) wait for her to call you tomorrow (and if not leave it a couple of days before you call her) .... let her do the chasing a little and dont be too eager... or you will be walked all over
when you speak, arrange do something, see a movie, go for a meal, go for a walk, whatever, but dont get into discussions about relationships....its clearly too soon, just be friends, spend time together and let it develop....have some patience and get to know her and let her get to know you....
maybe the reason she broke up with the last b/f was that he put too much pressure on her....if thats the case, thats the last thing she wants now...
if she has just had a breakup she has probably had a load of relationship conversations recently, all associated with upset.... the last thing she wants will be more of the same....
go out, have fun, and relax with each other... the rest will come naturally in time....
good luck!
2007-08-17 21:36:15 · answer #2 · answered by Still Waters 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is apparent this gal still wants her ex; however, she does not want to lose your friendship(not to mention your shoulders that she cries on), hence she is saying what she needs to to keep you from walking out of her life completely.While I understand that you have feelings for her which makes it difficult for you to walk away( hope springs eternal), I suggest that you do just that---walk away. If she calls back with the same story, simply tell her that it is either she truly intends to give you both a chance or to please leave you alone.Make sure that you mean it and will not go trying to maintain contact with her if she stops calling.Although she wants you, it is not in the way or in the manner that you want.I am sorry.
2007-08-17 20:17:24 · answer #3 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is playing games with you or playing (really) hard to get, she probably can't make her mind up if she wants you or not but doesn't like it if she feels you aren't paying her attention anymore, she likes the fact you are chasing her but instead of giving you the run around she needs to be honest with you and make her mind up if she wants to take it further with you, ask her up front, is she worth all the hassle or not?
2007-08-18 04:36:39 · answer #4 · answered by Rainbowz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have patience
she does like you, but she's just after breaking up with her bf so she does not want to rush anything
it's possible she's waiting to see if they can patch things up
i think you should sympathise with her and just be friends with her at the moment
don't put pressure on her, just hang out with her and once she gets over the break up she might just realise she's really into you!
2007-08-17 20:20:38 · answer #5 · answered by ylanger ylanger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to sound cruel but to me it sounds like she enjoys the fact that you fancy her!..when you gave up asking her out, she must have hated not having the attention and therefore needed a 'pick me up'...now your showing intrest again she has got bored!!!! i would say that you should just ignore her!! she should feel lucky to be with you!!....move on and meet other people, dont give her the satisfaction of using you!!! x
2007-08-17 22:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by natasha marie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you happy with the situation
if yes then whats the problem
if your not happy with the situation then get away from it
get out and enjoy yourself be happy
stop waiting around and dreaming
BE HAPPY
2007-08-17 20:09:53 · answer #7 · answered by itsa o 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop this weird girl, shes texting you when noone else is texting her cos she knows you'll text back
2007-08-17 20:04:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it up and move on. She does not want to be with you and it should be more than clear from what you are saying.
2007-08-17 20:06:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋