what does it mean when a guy doesnt want sex?

Question

what does it mean when a guy doesnt want sex after you have been with this guy for 2yrs or better

i mean it goes from everyday to 2-3 times a week

Answer 1

ARe u sure he can have sex? Meaning, medical issues or whatever? IF he's all clear of that, then the problem is in the relationship...and if a guy doesn't want it, it's serious. U need to talk to him about it, and ask him y. Hopefully he'll be honest with u, and u guys can work through this. Good luck.

Answer 2

Is he self-conscious, my friend couldn't have sex with his gf because he would ejaculate too early, he was so so ashamed of it and couldn't control it so he wouldn't perform.
Also, as a young boy, he was involved in an accident which caused him to lose a portion of his penis (and yes i'm being for real) and that caused him some major self-esteem issues. Not saying this is what may be wrong with this guy but just don't put it all down to being gay or not interested. Perhaps he's afraid, there are men who are araid of getting a woman pregnant or contracting diseases.
This is just a question only HE can answer!

Answer 3

Hello,

My answer to this timely question would be...if a man does not want to have sex with you, and perhaps he was used to having sex there is a definite problem. It can be many answers but the four answers that I can come up with are 1.) Maybe your hygiene has changed and youa re not as clean as u maybe used to be. There is a old sayign that says "Familiarity breeds contempt. meaning sometimes we get so use to our mates that we do not do things we used to do to get them. 2.) Maybe he is having some financial diff. When a man cannot feel like a man to know that he is taking care of his woman and treating her like maybe he is used to treating her, this in turn will play on his mind, and thus, the mind connects with the libido...no sex. 3.) May be he is gay. Self explanantory. 4.) Maybe He is seeing someone else.

Answer 4

if he cried then he surely has emotions. Just because you have sex and love someone doesn't mean you have to stay together otherwise youre a heartless robot. Especially if he waited two years to even have sex with you. Most modern relationships do it within 6 months. Consider yourself lucky. It happens to ALL of us. And yes, it happened to me. Only, other way around. Best of luck.

Answer 5

Ha..I had this issue but it soon changed...well I would talk to him to get the answer...or atleast form some kind of answer...maybe something is bothering him and he hasn't been in the mood or maybe he isn't interested anymore...or is cheating or watching to much porn....or just gay or doesn't want sex in his life right now...you have to open with eachother to get the truth...talk to him and tell him how you feel...2yrs. you two should be pretty good at this...God Bless...and remeber sex causes problems...and its not everything.

Answer 6

maybe he is one of those type of guys who is more interested in having an emotional connection than a physical connection. There's nothing wrong with that. me and my boyfriend don't have sex, but that doesn't make im less than a man or gay. But if you really want to know the reason why, you just simply have to ask him

Answer 7

so your getting "it" two to three times a week and your complaining ?.and I agree with "precious" she has a great answer , but there are many things he could be stressed, could be working to hard and to long and also sex drives change over time also you could take matters in your own hands so to speak instead of whinging because if you nag or whinge or put his performance down with out finding out why of him first ...he may (will) cut your ration down even further

Answer 8

Either... 1. He has lost interest in you. 2. He is getting it somewhere else. or 3. He smoke too much marijuana.

Answer 9

Time to find a real man.

Answer 10

It means he either already had sex or he is GAY