Why can't guys just apologize and say what they mean and how they feel?

Question

???? - Broke up with a guy I've been seeing and instead of him being mature he sends me stupid emails that just say "hahaha"......outta nowhere....

why can't guys just apologize and say what they mean and how they feel? Why do they have to say stupid things?????!!!!

Answer 1

i like this question so thats why i gave you a star

you could say its a guy thing but let explain why its a guy thing
most guys have a where they dont like to be vernable they have to be tough and if they say there sorry its like saying they were wrong we dont want to be wrong and if they show how they feel we thing you have a striong you have control over us which w either and about stupid comments is because 50% of guys are stupid keep your eyes on the other side youll be more satisfied

for some guys it just about pride

but i will apologize when needed but on how i feel im not one to open to people unless im in a relationship

Answer 2

U just answered ur own question. Why cant they be mature? They're not mature, that's y all this behavior is going on. They don't apologize because they don't think they're wrong. They don't say what they mean because they don't really know how to communicate with girls, and besides, if they said what they wanted, what if the girl says no? Then what? So might as well confuse them into agreeing with something they don't understand. Guys are insecure too, so if they can dupe a girl into doing something w/o revealing what it is to her, they feel like a man, because they got what they wanted, and they also tricked a girl to do it.

Answer 3

My reason that boys won't apologize and say what they mean and how they feel is because they think that if they tell a girl how they really feel and what they mean,they think it'll make them soft or less of a man.They believe that not telling a girl what's real would make them more of a man.But I don't think they know that not letting us girls know makes them sissys for not being able to step up and be a man and say what they really mean.It's probably because they don't have the balls enough to say what they really mean.

Answer 4

SOME BOYS NEVER FULLY MATURE
SOME MEN NEVER STOP PLAYING BOYISH GAMES.

REAL MEN TELL YOU WHATS UP AT SOME POINT.

THAT GUY IS JUST BEING A CHILDISH BOY.
DONT PAY IT NO MIND. SOME GUYS TEND TO THINK THAT HAVE DONT NOTHING WRONG SO WHY SHOULD THEY APOLOGIZE.

Answer 5

It's called Toxic Testosterone Syndrome.....

Answer 6

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Answer 7

i absolutely here you. guys can be so cruel without even knowing it, they can hurt, confuse and frustrate us girls to no end. i really deeply loved a guy and he broke my heart - its unfixable. the worst thing that i ever asked was to come straight out with it sking him if he liked liked me, he told me he wasn't sure and that he saw me as his little sister, i asked him that question because it was his farewell and i thought i'd never se him again. so now i've given up on love and hope that i will never fall in love ever again in my entire life.

Answer 8

Don't extrapolate the behavior of one jerk and condemn half the population for his immaturity. Most guys are honest. They take responsibility for their actions and say what they mean.

Answer 9

It's too much like right. They leave you feeling guilty over things they should be feeling messed up about. Men for you !! LOL

Answer 10

I've always wondered the same thing. Guys are jerks, there's nothing more to it than that.