Family & Relationships - 14 August 2007

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2007-08-14 04:40:41 · 7 answers · asked by natyep :] 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-14 04:39:59 · 11 answers · asked by Sexy lady 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel like I have just been destroyed 7 years and just like that it is now over. He says it is my fault that I smothered him. But I think I had the right to get angry I'm 27 he is 30 why did he need to go out with all single guys everyother weekend till 5 am? Sorry and I dont know this has just hut me so hard that I don't know what to do???? He told me he found someone else who workes with him that he just wants to have sex with and told me that at least he beoke up with me before he slept with her ! Am I wrong here or what.

2007-08-14 04:38:59 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-14 04:35:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems that women want guys to be able to read their minds and be more sensitive to their emotional needs. And guys want women to be more open & understand their need to "just be guys"...even though most women have no idea what that means...just as we have no idea about your emotions.

2007-08-14 04:34:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We known each other for a 1 1/2 now and have been dating for 3 months. He said when he first met me he told himself he was going to marry me. We talk about everything like whats going to happen when we get older alot of personal stuff and he tells me what people say about us and and he says when we are around 20 he wants to get married but he stills wants to see what is out there is what he says,what does he mean by that? we have the same interest and he always tells me he loves me and and that I'm pretty and that I'm not afraid of working and getting dirty and I'm not needy, whiney we do everything together go to church, work at the farm. Hes so sweet and he would never hurt me and he always feels bad if If he needs something and I get it for him when he didn't even ask for it. He never makes me or forces me to do anything I don't want to. One thing though he doesn't introduce me as his girlfriend? I love him so much!!! How can I reassure him I feel the same way.

2007-08-14 04:32:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-14 04:32:13 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

everything was great and all of a sudden she has change.She says she feels numb and don't know what she wants and don't wanna hurt me but she needs space.I dunno know why this is a sudden thing and i thought that things was going good not great but good enough that she wont want this.im heart broke and i think that there is somebody else at work maybe she wants that old feeling like you used to have back in high school i dont know but somebody help me,,we have 2 kids also i cant live without my kids and her...is she cheating what do i do what can i say..im lost

2007-08-14 04:32:04 · 15 answers · asked by slayer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if i love dis boy but got i a boyfriend

2007-08-14 04:30:46 · 3 answers · asked by nanie 1 in Singles & Dating

36 yrs old
Married 12 yrs
2 Kids
Having sex ONCE every 3-4 months

2007-08-14 04:29:23 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have sometimes intense fights with my family over my ethics. I never push my ethics on them, and in fact they bring it up and call me weird, crazy, tell me they couldn't live without meat, things like that and I just say "fine thats what you think" and they keep pushing it. They have always made fun of me because I'm pretty clumsy and they call me a nerd and things like that. They make fun of my dog, who I take everywhere with me, calling her dumb, stupid, fat, and my uncle says she's a rat and needs to be shot. I tell them to back off and leave me alone, but it starts a new fight. I try to not let it get to me, but it does after a while and ends with me screaming at them or sitting in a room alone until I can leave. I'm a teenage girl with the usual insecurities and things like that, so it makes it so much worse. I don't have the choice to not go to family functions unless I fake sick, which I have on occasion. How can I tell them to back off without starting another fight?

2007-08-14 04:29:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

um well my 'boyfriend', lets call him, we talk all the time. and half of our convos include verrryyyy nasty things =] i mean i have no problem with it but i want to have an interllectual conversation with him for once... how can i tell him that without soundin prudish or mean?

2007-08-14 04:26:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a girl strong and athletic, b,c student loves the book a child called it,makes friends easly,has brown hair,has blue eyes,stands at 5"4,and loves 2 know that her guy will protect her!

2007-08-14 04:26:10 · 5 answers · asked by sierra 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating this girl for a little over a week now, and finally last night, i get the courage to kiss her as were at the beach, under the stars, watching the meteor shower, with a blanket and a bottle of white wine, and she doesn't give me any tounge, and im thinking "ok, shes 22, shes probably shy, doesn't want to fully kiss me yet" then i get a little tounge out of it, and she stops me and says "can i ask you a question?", and i say "uh oh, what?" and she says " i dont like french kissing, its a pet peeve, i think it feels awkward. Well, this really takes me aback, cause im a 25 yeart old man, who loves french kissing and a good make out sesssion and i think kissing is the most passionate part, and i cant date anyone who doesnt, but shes really cool, shes a great person otherwise, i just dont know what to do, how to break it off the right way, i mean, i even asked her if she would try french kissing with me, maybe im different, and she wouldnt. I cant move on like this, help!

2007-08-14 04:25:31 · 8 answers · asked by chrisj7682 2 in Singles & Dating

http://tinyurl.com/2yg57n

I don't know if I'm supposed to be BRINGING a game as a gift...

Playing games at the shower....

or bringing my old Monopoly to be played at the shower.

I'm seriously at a loss. This is a Bridal Shower invite for September.

2007-08-14 04:24:27 · 23 answers · asked by mkt 5 in Weddings

My friend just recently opened up and told me a secret he has been holding onto since he was 13. He dates girls but he flirts/lead others on and even make the other ones believe they are in a relationship because he is not satisfied fully with the personality of one, and he said he "picks and chooses" the personality he likes within couple of girls even if it means being with selected girls on the side. If it didn't make sense, I mean, If his gf is missing a personality, he finds another one on the side to fill that in. He finally fell in love with a woman but he never told her that he had one on the side also because of his bad habit. He wants to make it right and change, and he asked me to help him, but I have no idea how to help him with that. I told him to tell her the truth and be honest with her. Do you think when she finds out, that he deserves the chance if he's willing to change? And is there a name for the type of person he is? He's not a bad guy, made bad choices though

2007-08-14 04:23:08 · 3 answers · asked by i.sere 1 in Friends

I love my gf and treat her like a princess. She always gets her way. Lately she hasn't been treating me so well. Last night i got chineese and opened my fortune cookie, read it and put it in my pocket. She said "what was it" and I said "oh no I can't show you". (I was just joking around). She said "your gonna show me that" and jumped on top of me.(still friendly till this point). I decided to she what would happen if she didn't get her way and because I'm stronger I was able to keep her from getting it. She then got all pissed off and won't talk to me. I think she was surprised that I denied her and she is used to getting her way. I think I spoiled her too much and she takes my kindness for weakness. What do you think?

2007-08-14 04:22:35 · 17 answers · asked by Tool7 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ive just started dating this girl and she has a kid witch im ok with but the kid is a little asshole hes 2 and he spits in her face and laughs and she doesnt do anything about it so i told her to spank him and she just gave him a little love tap and he laughed at her again.i like her but the kid is getting under my skin and i just want to throgh him through the window (figureativly speaking) and no I havnt talked to her about this cause its not my place to tell her how to raise her kid but if something doesnt happen soon im going to leave.

2007-08-14 04:21:33 · 49 answers · asked by SkudFarkus 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so i know some of you are going to be like "oh my gosh you only 13 go play with barbies" or something but if you were going to say that then please dont even answer. ok so heres my problem alot of people in my school have boyfriends and i really like a guy but ive never even had someone ask me out. i dont know but its just really frusterating sitting back and watching everyone be happy. anyone else can relate?

2007-08-14 04:21:32 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Met someone a month ago, knew he was going back to his country, but we were dumb and got too close. He leaves in 3 weeks, should we stop seeing each other altogether now, or just enjoy the time we have left? Neither of us have ever connected with anyone the way we have connected with each other, life is so strange, we just keep telling each other that we met for a reason, it just seems so cruel that we now have to say goodbye..........

2007-08-14 04:19:26 · 24 answers · asked by Girl 5 in Singles & Dating

I have recently filed for divorce. I'm seeking sole custody of my two children. My soon to be ex is seeking Primary Shared Custody. Here's my major issue. He doesn't work, doesn't help out financially, lays around and has his new girlfriend do everything for him. He got injured and suposidly filed for disability. That was 3 years ago and nothing. I personally think he's lying. My kids have both told me that he has been working for cash for a friend of his. He's a complete deadbeat father. Do you honestly think any judge in the great country of ours would actually give this ahole what he wants.

His daughter from a previous relationship wants nothing to do with him.

I also don't think he realized that he would be responsible for half of everything the kids need (he'd had to get insurance on them), medical bills, everything.

Your thoughts and serious answers only.

2007-08-14 04:18:37 · 12 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

to get too level 2 and 3

2007-08-14 04:18:23 · 5 answers · asked by Saydee 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, my mom says that she does all of the work, and everything. My dad owns his own silo company and my mom works part time in the postal business (she might be getting a full time job). Well, anyway, yesterday my mom and I were coming home from shopping (I hate to shop, weird I know) but we didnt' actually shop cuz before we left I said "do I have to go" so she just went all crazy and stuff. She's upset that I am going school clothes shopping with my brother's fiance and not her too. WHAT SHOULD I DO?????? WHAT SHOULD I SAY TO MY MOM??????? Should I cancel the shopping with my brother's fiance and go with my mom instead????

2007-08-14 04:13:16 · 6 answers · asked by Servant of God! Live 4 God!!!! 3 in Family

2007-08-14 04:12:09 · 27 answers · asked by katie k 1 in Weddings

I'm the MOH in my sisters wedding. We had planned on going to see Drag Queens on Friday, but something came up and now we have to cancel. What other things can we do for both the bride and groom on such short notice??

2007-08-14 04:12:03 · 13 answers · asked by silverchick_8 4 in Weddings

2007-08-14 04:11:21 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, I am trying to save up money for a cell phone, because my mom won't get me one. So she knew that I was. I started doing chores around the house, cleaning room, cleaning my bathroom, mom bathroom, doing dishes, cooking dinner, cleaning up after dinner, cleaning the living room, bringing in the trashcans. And I asked her how much I should get paid, and she said you wanted to get paid everyday? I was like maybe, how much in a week? She said 5dollars!! I was like I am 13, and I have only done one days work, but even if I did more it would still be 5 dollars!! I was like this is such a ripe off!!! I could go over to my grandmas house and clean one room and get that much!! How do I get her to up her amount? I think she just doesn't want me to get a cell at all. Please help me!

2007-08-14 04:10:58 · 39 answers · asked by Nicole. 3 in Family

2007-08-14 04:10:38 · 11 answers · asked by Miss CaLi GroWn 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Duh, the obvious- it makes you all warm and cozy inside. But what about the flipside? Love can take you down like no other, and you could have done everything right. Is it really worth it, to try and find that 1 "special" person? Why not date casually and have no expectations, and with that no disappointment?

2007-08-14 04:09:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married in a few months and I'm just not sure if I really am ready. I've been dating my fiance for about three years now. He asked me to marry him a year ago, I didn't know what to say or what to think. I said yes because I was unsure and he asked me in front of his family, I couldn't say no. One day my fiance started talking about having kids and grandkids. I don't want kids and I thought we'd already had this conversation? To top all of that off, I keep losing weight and the dress is going to be all saggy. Oh my god. I don't know what to do. The invitations were sent out like a week ago. Lately I've been noticing other guys...like before I'd see a hot guy and it was whatever. But now, I just want to take off my ring and start talking to them. I can't go through with calling it off... But I don't know if I can get through the whole marriage part. With kids?? I have a career! Help me?

2007-08-14 04:09:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce