Family & Relationships - 14 August 2007

though i like it if a guy i like runs after me....is there any solution for a girl like me who likes this guy and wants to know him more and he also knows i guess that i like him but doesnt give me much importance.I try to be so nice n sweet to him,like show concern over some of his worries....how come he`s not responding the way im responding or being sweet to him?where am i going wrong?and plz dnt say tht forget about him...i want a solution...
im 27gonna be 28,hes 30,gonna be 31.....and yes if he has an ego then i have ego too....so no i cant risk asking him out and getting a "no" for an answer.

2007-08-14 03:30:33 · 1 answers · asked by Sexysaint 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

21,years girlfriend is preganant from her boy friend, she is going to give birth to chaild very soon,
both cannot marry because of theirs won problems,
will girl friend love her boyfriend (after giving birth to child ,)forever.
what her heart will say about her boyfriend
after birth of child beceuse she is unmarried

2007-08-14 03:27:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well i have this friend whos girlfriend broke up with him and now shes going out wihthis bestfriend and he doesnt no who it is and he wants to no and his ex girlfriend said u can tell him cause i already no u will so should i?

2007-08-14 03:24:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He purchased a £5 bag which I cut because I was running low. I have other clients to provide for as demand his huge in the afternoon after clients have been grifting. I cut it with fentanyl to add bulk as I was out of baking soda. Anyway the little fucktard ended up stuffing it after severe convulsions. I had his friends around giving me shite about how my deals are fucked up with shite. He choose to take it so how can I be to blaim? I keep telling them that but they don't understand. Why would I want one of my best clients to die when he's a good grifter? What should I do?

2007-08-14 03:22:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he works as security in the building i work at and he calls every female sweetie including me.... i was just with him and a girl that works in the building pass by and he called her sweetie..she wasnt very pleasant either she struck me as the type of female that think she is all that

2007-08-14 03:19:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 19 and I moved to NYC to attend college. The plan was to go to school, live by myself for a year, and work and my mother pay for the apartment. But then my oldest brother, who lives in nyc who lived with his girl, broke up with her, and now my mother wants me to live with my brother in a one bedroom apartment. She said if i dont, then I would have to pay for everything. I didnt sign up for this, and my mother lives all the way in hong kong, and I have been taking care of myself and it has been really hard looking for apartments and dealing with financial aid, work, etc. I just graduated from high school and its been overwhleming being an adult, and i dont want to sound spoiled, but i really dont want to live with my brother and i didnt sign up for this.....Is my mother right? I mean if i woulld have known that I would have to live with him, then i would have went to an actual college somewhere else. help.

2007-08-14 03:19:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

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2007-08-14 03:16:40 · 1 answers · asked by whitley 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 28. Siblings are 27 & 21. Our divorced dad (54) lost his mom (80) last year, and he's acted like a weirdo ever since. I'm convinced that it's also a mid-life crisis. A few examples...taking up pot smoking, fighting with me & my sibs, blowing $$$$ on a trip to Beijing to find a "friend", erratic driving behavior, etc, etc. (He's a high school health/gym teacher!) My sibs & I no longer want to be around him. "Friendly" conversations with him feel forced, fake. He just makes us sick. I miss my "old" dad. I need to have this conversation with him before we completely cut ourselves off....But I do I begin without being confrontational?........I should also mention that I lost my mom (51) to breast cancer 5 months after his mom died, so it's not like I don't know what grief is.

2007-08-14 03:16:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

sorry i know stupid question it's just my 'friend' basically called me fat and ugly :( and its kinda got to me

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2007-08-14 03:16:18 · 81 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have separated from my husband and have 10 months old daughter. At the moment my emotions are all ovet the place and I think I dont know what I want.

At the same time I feel like I am free now (I initiated split up) and I want to meet new people. I would have no problem getting new man, but feel its too early to get into another long term relationship.

Also, I dont want my daughter to suffer and if I started serious relationship now, I can tell that she wouldnt even notice, but I am not ready.

I think I should wait a year or two, but how would she take it then? A new man in her life?

I am young and dont want to stop seeing guys, but then what about my baby?

Any ideas what is the best age for child to get new dad, so it is most naturall and stress free? (Living with her father would be stresfull, although he does love her and wants to be together, but we just argue all the time)

2007-08-14 03:15:41 · 17 answers · asked by GreenEyes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

then we got into an argument and now he is saying that he dosent know if he can put a ring on anybodies finger. he is 5 years older than me and this is the first real serious realationship i have been in. plus i will be the third mother to one of his three children. what should i do!!!!

2007-08-14 03:15:22 · 13 answers · asked by amanda b 1 in Weddings

I don't have any desire to be apart of this wedding as it is a second wedding for both and between them they have 7 kids.

2007-08-14 03:12:02 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am all for a collaboration but I think that there are somethings that should be handled by just one person so that there is consistancy.

2007-08-14 03:11:25 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, my first love contacted me yesterday through facebook after 7 years without hearing from her. Im married now and have been for the past 18 months, the marriage has gone pretty well so far but ive never had that smae feeling for her as i did my first love (childhood sweetheart of 4 years).

Question is what so i do?, do i keep contact with my first love in the hope that we could just be good friends or would this be dangerous?

Its really strange for me as some of the old feelings come crashing back when i think of her, should i keep contact with her or should i look for some kind of closure?

what do you guys think? do you still habour feelings for your first loves and if so is this natural so long after we stopped seeing each other?

2007-08-14 03:07:00 · 56 answers · asked by chris c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So I knew about my old fashioned step-grandfather not liking it, but my mom said I would've been better off in public school and I told my dad and he said my grandmother said the same thing! Mostly I'm angry, resentful, defensive,... I'm a little upset though. Shouldn't they have talked this through earlier? I mean, I've had nightmares about going back to public school! I'll be 17 in January, by the way.

Admittedly, I am anti-social, but I havn't really had a chance to be social seeing as how I have no car and no job, and everybody my age are... Unagreeable. But I don't think that's any reason to rethink my education over the past 6 years!

I'll be starting college next fall probably, so I'll be too busy to think about all this and I just want to ask some objective people before breaching the subject once more with closer observers. Sooo.... Any thoughts internet people?

2007-08-14 03:06:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

FOR THE SAKE OF THE KIDS

2007-08-14 03:05:02 · 19 answers · asked by Omar 1 in Marriage & Divorce

About a year ago a friend of mine was in his college dorm room and the microwave he was using burst into flames. Immediately the fire department was notified and were on there way. Mean while all these people heard the alarm go off, and ran to the room in which it was coming from and started freaking out when they saw the fire. My friend was trapped inside while the firemen were trapped outside due to all the people blocking the door. By the time my friend remembered his fire extinguisher it was too late the fire was already spreading. And when the firemen were able to get in the room and put out the fire it was too late my friend was already dead. Now I feel terrible cause I didn't do anything to help even though I know i could have done something but its too late.

2007-08-14 03:03:18 · 16 answers · asked by natsuhiboshi9 1 in Friends

a strong positive emotion of regard and affection; "his love for his work"; "children need a lot of love"
any object of warm affection or devotion; "the theater was her first love"; "he has a passion for **** fighting";
have a great affection or liking for; "I love French food"; "She loves her boss and works hard for him"
beloved: a beloved person; used as terms of endearment
a deep feeling of sexual desire and attraction; "their love left them indifferent to their surroundings"; "she was his first love"
get pleasure from; "I love cooking"
a score of zero in tennis or squash; "it was 40 love"
be enamored or in love with; "She loves her husband deeply"
roll in the hay: have sexual intercourse with; "This student sleeps with everyone in her dorm"; "Adam knew Eve"; "Were you ever intimate with this man?"
sexual love: sexual activities (often including sexual intercourse) between two people; "his lovemaking disgusted her"; "he hadn't had any love in months"; "he has a very complicated love life"
Love has many meanings in English, from something that gives a little pleasure ("I loved that movie") to something one would die for (patriotism, pairbonding). It can describe an intense feeling of affection, an emotion or an emotional state. In ordinary use, it usually refers to interpersonal love. Probably due to its large psychological relevance, love is one of the most common themes in art. The majority of modern movies have a love story and most pop music is about love.

2007-08-14 03:00:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I would love to make friends with people from different countries...anyone up for it??? Am frm South Africa though

2007-08-14 02:56:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-husband will not be release until my kids are over 18, so I will not get any child-support. He is not liable for back pay. I have been told that the state is responsible for paying me, but I don't know who to talk to. Is this true? If so, who do I speak to about this?

2007-08-14 02:55:28 · 21 answers · asked by butterflygirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

bcoz i not fit for my lover,thats y i asked this one,but she is very true to me....

2007-08-14 02:54:46 · 19 answers · asked by SRIRAM 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do men who have fathered children in a marriage or not in a marriage thinks they can get away with supporting their children it makes my blood boil. But if a woman decided to leave her children the father would be hell bent on getting money from her!!! I have decided my children and i are better off without my so called childrens dad!!

2007-08-14 02:54:22 · 12 answers · asked by sexiebum 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my current boyfriend for a little over 2 years now. When we met, we immediately moved in together and have had the most dishonest relationship you can imagine. I have been ready to move on for the past 9 months and he refuses to leave. I don't feel it's necessary to get authorities involved. What can I do to make him leave? By the way...it's my house he lives in, so I am not moving out.

2007-08-14 02:54:02 · 25 answers · asked by Stephanie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have met them 2x before, but they seem to not like me.

When i speak to them they dont talk back, or barely look at me. I taken gifts everytime i seen them but nothing seems to work.

I dress normal - wear tradtional indian clothes etc nothing reaveling.

Told my hubby about this and he said they like me.

Sometimes when hubby goes alone to see them, and when he returns - he tells me they were asking about me, whether am ok etc. which i find hard to beleive.
He did say numerous time that they like me - but thats when am not there with his family

But why do i get cold vibes when am there near them?

why do they seem to care when am not there and then blank me out when i see them?

I do not get warm welcome etc, and get really strange looks from mother-in law that makes me feel really uneasy

i dont know what to do.

everytime when i say i dont feel like going to see his parents - husband thinks i dont like them etc and turns into an argument

what do i do?

2007-08-14 02:53:10 · 11 answers · asked by Rosy 4 in Family

I’m estimating eighty people for my wedding reception. I need to order plates but I’m not sure what the good amount to rent is.

Is there a formula people use, like half as much more?

A ratio, for every ten people there are twelve plates?

Some sort of magic number?

2007-08-14 02:52:36 · 1 answers · asked by quiet_hands 4 in Weddings

My fiances cousin is getting married Aug.25th at 3pm. The ceremony is being held in her backyard, with reception following at the local community center, would a baby blue BOHO skirt and a black top be appropriate?

2007-08-14 02:50:16 · 12 answers · asked by Jenn L 3 in Weddings

my son goes to his fathers every saturday morning around 8:30 am I drop him off before I go to work. My son has told me and my new boy friend who is living with us that he would rather stay at home with my BF and not go to his fathers. Should I be worried about the relationship with my son and his dad?

2007-08-14 02:45:43 · 17 answers · asked by oh_jo123 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance told me Saturday that he is no longer "in-love" with me...but still loves me. I moved 2 hours away from my hometown to be with him while he was in school last year...now I have to turn around and move back and start over again. He says we lost the spark...and wants to try and work things out-he knows I still love him deeply and that I'm NOT going to give up. Any advice out there on what to do? I still love him deeply...and as weird as it sounds-we've been closer since Saturday. We still hug and kiss each other and even tell each other we love each other. We've been together 3 1/2 years, engaged over a year now. Wedding was set for October 13-everything paid for and bought-including all bridesmaids dresses and my gown. I'm so lost and confused-HELP!

2007-08-14 02:44:13 · 17 answers · asked by dani_m_w 2 in Weddings

just wondering, how you met your soul mate, whats your story?
i have not met mine yet, but i hope i will VERY soon!

2007-08-14 02:42:38 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

its seems like he is always horny and always wants to have sex like right in the middle of a movie. i dont realy like sex i wouldnt even do it if he didnt want to. then when i dont wanna have sex he is like well put your mouth on it and a soon as i do he lets me start but before i finish, he's pullin me up and he still wants to have sex. for like 3 mins and then goes 2 sleep well i wanna know whats a good way to say im not that into the sex after doin about 3 times a day 4 times a week for about a year, would it be rude to do that?

2007-08-14 02:40:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating