Family & Relationships - 14 August 2007

I have been masturbating since my school days and now at the age of 25 yrs, it has become part of daily routine. I cann't miss it. It has however helped me from loosing my virginity.
Should I stop it or continue with it ? Unfortunately, in India, this topic is not discussed freely. So there is no way to know how general people specially girls feel about boys doing it as it concerns them most.

2007-08-14 04:09:01 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Beauty
Brains
Smart mouth
I have that already.

2007-08-14 04:07:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is staying in town for college and commuting and I'm a senior in high school. We're pretty serious and we trust each other. I'm just not sure about the different environments and settings and people we'll be encountering and how it will affect our relationship. College friends, classes, etc... I just am so worried we'll drift apart, and just want to ideas/advice on how to keep things going strong. I know it's not the typical long-distance thing, which I think gives us a better survival chance. It's still tricky all the same. Any advice or success stories would be greatly appreciated!

2007-08-14 04:07:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a chihuahua, and I am interested in getting another dog. She is great with other dogs, and has been brought up around large breed dogs.

I read that Whippets are great with dogs, but may chase some cats.

Does anyone have experience of having a Whippet and a small dog? How do they interact?
Any other information would be great!

2007-08-14 04:05:50 · 7 answers · asked by Midwest 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-14 04:04:53 · 41 answers · asked by The Ideal Muggle 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

needs a ride to school. he would normally drive himself because he has a car 2.(he has a resticted) but he was in the hosptial yesterday and the doctors said for him not to drive for a while. so, i might give him a ride because i live close to him the only thing is i dont have a license (for another month when i turn 16) i have a restricted so i dont know if im allowed to have passengers in the car with me unless they are family (either know he is like family)

2007-08-14 04:01:39 · 21 answers · asked by Kay-Bianca 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are recently married. He has a longstanding obligation to pay for his 2 younger brother's (v. expensive) college education. He made this commitment when he had a good paying job, which he later lost. Since then, we got married (secretly, with the hopes of having a "real" wedding for our family and friends) and he has begun to recuperate financially. Unfortunately, we are not in the same "financial" position as beforeand although I've been saving money for our wedding, my husband hasn't saved a dime Instead, he's resumed sending money to his family and has lied to me about it. His mother is somewhat manipulative and further complicates the problem by calling to complain about how much she works, her financial woes and seeks advice on how to raise his younger siblings (she left his father many years ago). First, can I get my husband to stop lying to me - finanical infidelity will ruin our marriage; second, how can we get his manipulative mother to leave us alone?

2007-08-14 04:01:18 · 29 answers · asked by mnm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not looking for a debate, because pretty much everyone has their mind made up and no amount of arguing will change it. I'm just trying to open up my mind and understand the other point of view, because frankly, I don't get it.

OTHER THAN THE RELIGIOUS ASPECT, why are you anti-gay marriage (if you are)??

Please, state your opinion as an opinion and not as a fact. (instead of "Gay people are crazy!!1!one!!!" say "I feel that homosexuals are crazier than heterosexuals")

2007-08-14 04:00:36 · 16 answers · asked by Liz 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't mean extreme things like religon, but say the biological father has maybe provided information or guidence that, in my opinion could be amended or refined. Would this confuse the child or do i even have that right?

[i know there are a lot of other factors like; what is my status with the single mom, how much is the "real" dad in picture, or how old is the kid. So, for the sake of argument, we'll assume I have been dating her for a year. the father gets weekend visits every now and then, and the kid is 7.]

2007-08-14 04:00:07 · 2 answers · asked by The-School.org 2 in Singles & Dating

We are not having a bridal party

2007-08-14 04:00:05 · 9 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Weddings

2007-08-14 03:59:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother had always inivisioned a church wedding for me, her only daughter. We came to a compromise and are having the ceremony at a beautiful 19th century Gothic Revival Brownstone Chapel, but are getting married by a JP. How long do civil ceremonies average? The wedding is at 10 am, it's about a 20 minute drive to the reception, which starts at 12 pm. The woman who runs the place said if guests arrived at 11:30 and made their way in, it was fine, and everything would be ready. I don't know whether to put "Reception Immediately Following" so they don't feel obligated to stand in the parking lot until 12, but I don't want them there too terribly early either. There will be about 110 at the chapel, so by the time everyone gets out and headed to the reception, we should be safe, yes?

2007-08-14 03:59:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I wanted to have a dozen roses sent to the house for my girl. The main question is ladies do you think it is ok to give my girl a dozen roses of a blue and white mix or all blue roses. I know certain colors mean certain things. Thats the main reason Im asking. And by the way this is the first anniversary Im not trying to over achieve. Thanks for the help.

2007-08-14 03:58:23 · 5 answers · asked by Gemini 2 in Singles & Dating

I know this guy who is shy and quiet but is attracted to this bitchy girl. She snubs him, ignores him and gives him the cold shoulder if she doesnt get her way. They also constantly fight as she wants it her way or no way. Is this attractive? I thought being good to someone is the right way to do things.... dont you want someone in your life who does nice things for you?

2007-08-14 03:54:05 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As I said earlier you are NOT dependable and are NOT determined or commited to make a life with me. It is always unclear, and always a negative result comes out dealing with you.

You have a mind of your own and do not want to connect and work as a friend with me - in the interest of the house, our child and a future. Do exact opposite of what the situation demands and are not a team player. When I help you in writing about your priorities...you still do the opposite. Due to such actions, outsiders/ lawyers/ apartment complex people take advantage and benefit.... and WE... our child, myself and our family loses...

It is very hard to get a hold of you on the phone. WHY ??? You never answer the phone and never return phone calls. I am always in the dark about what is going on or what to expect.
Something is very very wrong..........

IS THIS WORKING LIKE CLOCKWORK ?

Prove me wrong with your actions !!!

I have worked on the move transition to reunite with him.

2007-08-14 03:54:01 · 35 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

There's a guy(okay okay it's 2, or 3, or more than 3) that I only want to get sex from. I don't care about money, I especially don't care about relationships or emotions or any of that cr@p, I just want to bang him and get another notch on my bedpost. Is that so wrong? I mean, guys have that attitude about women.

How do I go about doing this? Should I be perfectly upfront and blunt? Or, would a guy think I'm "psycho" b/c I'm a "girl" doing it, and girls aren't known to be sexually upfront like that?

Should I fib and sweet talk and pretend to be more innocent than I am, just until I get the guy in bed, then I can dominate him and stop calling him after that? LOL.

So obviously I'm not a gold digger...but am I similar to a gold digger, in the sense that I'm using a guy for a primary purpose? Should I be titled a "d!ck getter" instead of a gold digger? LOL.

I can just imagine Kanye West singing it now..."I am sayin she's a d!ck getter..." haha

2007-08-14 03:52:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 23, just graduated college, she is 19 and has 2 years of college left and is going to school an hr away from me now. She lives 15 minutes from me right now... so if I go pick her up bring her back to my house then take her back home I drive an hour. If I drive an hr to see her at school, stay for the weekend and come back its the same as hanging out now for 2 days. Really I dont see the problem with her going away to school, she will get away from her strict parents (11PM curfew)

My parents think she is too young (based on age) yet she is Ukrainian and has had a much harder life than most of us and is more mature than a typical 19yr old, actuially wants to succeed in school and finish early.

I still live with my parents until I get a job or my business can support me. Her parents are strict so the only way we can spend any time together is at my house. When she goes away I can see her at her apt but my parents would know we were together. I want to stay with her.

2007-08-14 03:51:09 · 8 answers · asked by badkarma784 1 in Singles & Dating

We are getting married June 14th, 2008. Should I send them soon? Also, should I provide a list of nearby hotels/motels for the out of towners?

2007-08-14 03:50:58 · 17 answers · asked by Linz ♥ VT 4 in Weddings

Honestly, everytime i mention that my husband makes all the decisions, and choices everyone freaks out. Most people think poor me, and that my life must be sad.
I chose this lifestyle, i like this lifestyle, and im quite happy and my marriage is fantastic. My husband wasnt forced into either, we discussed this before we got married. We agreed before we got married that this was the lifestyle we would have.
He works, i do not. There fore i feel like he should be afforded more authority over money, housing,credit,etc.
I think a lot of people think subservient means he beats me or something. He DOESNT!
To me being subservient to my husband is just letting him make decisions and choices. I trust his judgment, and I feel comfortable in him making the choices.
My husband is fantastic, hes putting me through college for my own entertainment. Bought us a house,and has a good job. I love cooking, and cleaning. It works for us. Its not for everyone i understand that.

2007-08-14 03:46:59 · 25 answers · asked by Cebsme 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I know he hides secrets behind my back, nothing serious though.i know it from a reliable source, i can't tell my boyfriend about these secrets because he'll know that person who tell me stuff, it will just ruin everything between them..
well now,i don't mean to be a dramaqueen & i'm not usually like this, i tend to be more open-minded..

but this..It's really bothering me so much since we've been years together, and i thought we have all the trust for each other. It really breaks my heart knowing he's still capable of lying behind my back..

My Question is simple and not judging, Are all guys like this?
and should i still trust him & just how 'open-minded' should i be??


urgh..i'm in hell..please someone comfort me..i think i'm about to lose the last person i can really trust in this world.. lucky i still have my dog..hiks T_T

2007-08-14 03:45:47 · 2 answers · asked by lizzie 2 in Singles & Dating

Im talking am talking about before you meet them and get to know them. What are you initially attracted to ? I mainly want to hear from men but women can answer to..

2007-08-14 03:44:04 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how would you feel if your son is dating a gold digger? most women my friends and i dated are gold diggers. we don"t know where they are coming from.

2007-08-14 03:43:29 · 40 answers · asked by LEXUSRY 5 in Singles & Dating

So the on-going drama of my life just added another chapter to it. It all started in the middle of second semester when I asked this girl out but she didn't give me an answer, but was flirting with me a lot after I asked her out. I knew she didn't like me, so I realized that she was playing me. But, I thought she deserved another chance, because she seemed like a good person. Big mistake.

Over the months we became really close friends and I began to like her again, more and more each day. Her flirting with me also intensified each time we were together. So I was going to ask her out on Sunday, but I called her on Saturday to say goodbye, and she says she is going to walk her dog, as she is hanging up I hear a man's voice say "Who was that?"

To my disbelief, she was lying to me. During the next few days she didn't talk to me at all (on msn, yes or no answers, or ignores me, I call her, no answer). Then I go on facebook and I see she got a boyfriend.

2007-08-14 03:41:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Every since we decided I would stay home with the kids, have no income of my own, he has gotten very contolling.

He feels he have to make all the decisions without consulting me.
He does all the gocery shopping, I have to settle for what he buys.

basically the only decision i have is WHAT TO COOK AND DISCIPLINE THE KIDS

I have expressed my feeling and he still does it. I'm tired of arguing.

I can't get a job because i don't have a babysitter and he want pay.

totally unhappy, but my kids are very happy

2007-08-14 03:40:22 · 16 answers · asked by dennis w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im a person that has always been shy and quiet. I am the only child and my mother was over protective of me. So when im around people i dont know I clam up and get really quiet. One time at orientation at my new school this girl asked me why am i so quiet. I said because im around ppl i dont know and its a bad habit. She was like ohh ok i though u was conceited. im like, no im not, im farrrrr from that. Whats up wit that. I still tryin to break out that mold but its really hard. but conceited? stuck up? why?

2007-08-14 03:38:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok, we all know that people fall "in love" but what is love really? I think instead of saing "I love you", we should say, "I feel you." Cause I know I feel for my husband and my kids. It might be kinda dumb but how do we truly love? I'm curious to see if someone can really put it in perspective.

2007-08-14 03:38:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have posted here before. I have been married for just under three months. Some things that happened before our wedding (which turned out to be nothing) pushed me into a cycle of insecurity with my husband. I have actually been seeing a counsellor to deal with my issues. I have been careful not to over-burden my husband with my paranoia...but he's picked up on it...he knows that i have snooped on him. He's trying to be super supportive but I can tell he's freaked out. I want to do everything I can to re-assure him that I'll get past this... but after we have a conversation about what I'm feeling I can tell he gets scared and starts to shut me out a little. Anyone have any advice for how I can put his mind at ease?

2007-08-14 03:36:55 · 13 answers · asked by Sally Ann 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My exboyfriend told me I expected too much from him. That was probably why he dumped me. So I was wondering what everyone else expects out of theirs to see if maybe I am expecting too much.

2007-08-14 03:33:22 · 3 answers · asked by Noodle 2 in Singles & Dating

My only daughter is getting married in September. She took me looking for a dress at Davids Bridal. She wants me to wear a long dress with no sleeves I really don't want to but I said if she absolutely wants me to wear it I will only buy it if I can get a jacket to go with it. I have no problem with it being long but it looks like a prom dress and I am almost 50 yrs old. I will probably will never wear it again. And I want to be comfortable that day, I love my daughter and want to make her wedding special just don't know if I should get this dress or not? What is your opinion?

2007-08-14 03:33:16 · 15 answers · asked by Dawn 2 in Weddings

ok, i met this amazing guy, at a club about 3 weeks ago and we hit it off great, he asked for my number and i gave it. he didnt know i dont have texting on my phone and he thought i was blowing him off, he did call once, but his voicemail box was full so i couldnt leave a message. anyways, communication misunderstandings made us both think we were blowing the other off. well, i was out at another club and decided i should try to call him pretending like i was drunk to kind of give the last horrah. well he answered. and we ended up talking on the phone for over and hour, then two hours the next day, we were even kind of, not really joking about him coming to see me, he lives in florida and i live in michigan. but i seriously, as lame as it seems feel like ive found my soulmate and now i dont know what to do with him being so far away. if i could i would pack up now and spend the rest of my life with him, what should i do? thanks a lot

2007-08-14 03:32:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating