So the on-going drama of my life just added another chapter to it. It all started in the middle of second semester when I asked this girl out but she didn't give me an answer, but was flirting with me a lot after I asked her out. I knew she didn't like me, so I realized that she was playing me. But, I thought she deserved another chance, because she seemed like a good person. Big mistake.
Over the months we became really close friends and I began to like her again, more and more each day. Her flirting with me also intensified each time we were together. So I was going to ask her out on Sunday, but I called her on Saturday to say goodbye, and she says she is going to walk her dog, as she is hanging up I hear a man's voice say "Who was that?"
To my disbelief, she was lying to me. During the next few days she didn't talk to me at all (on msn, yes or no answers, or ignores me, I call her, no answer). Then I go on facebook and I see she got a boyfriend.
2007-08-14 03:41:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She played me, again, I feel so stupid for letting her do this to me. Now I am sitting here broken hearted and writing this. So I need to know, how can I get back at her and give her a taste of her own medicine?
2007-08-14 03:42:04 · update #1
I'm thinking first day of school (we going into grade 10), or whenever she tries to talk to me in school, I just drop an a-bomb on her verbally, would that do anything? Or just make her more happy cause she'd know that she got into my head?
2007-08-14 03:43:13 · update #2
The song that describes my situation exactly is best of you, by the foo fighters, so give it a listen to just gain a "deeper understanding" XD
2007-08-14 03:45:09 · update #3
Though the "verbal A-bomb" would make you feel a whole lot better. I would try to be the bigger person.
What she did to you was really shitty. But I wouldn't let yourself stoop to her level. I would just act like nothing happened. If she talks to you, talk back. If she flirts, just realize that she's still trying to play you and blow it off. I would try to avoid her since it may hurt you to be around her.
Move on, she isn't good enough for you. You deserve a lot better. (So does her boyfriend for that matter.)
Good luck bro.
2007-08-14 03:49:40 · answer #1 · answered by Adam 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You guys are going into grade 10? I think you might be taking this a little bit too seriously, my friend. If you guys had been dating for 6 months and then you found out she had another man in her life, it would be different. But you guys were never dating. Some girls are just flirts, whether they actually want to go out with you or not.
In either case, just be strong and get past it. There are many girls out there, you'll find the one who is right for you. I promise.
2007-08-14 03:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by ѫ Breathe Deep the Darkness ѫ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is hurting her really in the long run going to make you feel better? I don't think so. Everyone is hurt at least once in their life. It sucks. It's not fun, but don't let that hurt bring you down to her level. You are above that. Just know that she wasn't the right person for you, and that the right person WILL come along sooner than you think! Move on. Just ignore her, and find someone more worthy of your attention.
2007-08-14 03:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by elizatash 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to do nothing at all and move on with your life. If she thinks that she's been on your mind all this time, it will only inflate her ego. If she thinks that you barely thought about her since, then it will hurt her more than anything else you could do.
Also, revenge only makes you look like an ******; not her.
Good luck to you, and I hope you manage to find a gal that deserves you :)
2007-08-14 03:46:02 · answer #4 · answered by BK 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
To really get her back you should move in on the best friend. Just be pals with her and laugh alot with her. Your crush will see this and get jealous. Or find a girlfriend hotter than her and really show how happy you are. Give your crush the cold shoulder.
2007-08-14 03:47:17 · answer #5 · answered by -Swatty- 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, for the second time, don't be as immature as her! That will only make her more happy. Stop trying to be a douche bag and live on with your life. Just drop all connections with her!
2007-08-14 03:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by Samson 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you had liked her and thought some thing good for her in those days. Then simply excuse her.
When you hit on some thing hard mean, there will be reaction.
That mean if you want to take revenge mean you also will get some pain unknowingly which may cause damage to your internal personality.
So, better to excuse and concentrate much on your study, you have to achieve some better goal in future for your life.
2007-08-14 03:52:41 · answer #7 · answered by mak 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Consider it a lesson learned and move on. Hurting her will only bring you down to her level.
Living well is the best revenge.
2007-08-14 04:13:02 · answer #8 · answered by wildeyedredhead 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why waste your time and energy on someone that doesnt deserve the time or day...it may help you vent but in reality not much more than that....just ignore her if she comes up to you out of the blue pretend like shes not there
2007-08-14 03:46:36 · answer #9 · answered by GA 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude you just answered your own question find you a GF show her your not waiting on her,i know it hurt to find out she going out with someone other than you been there done that an got the t-shirt,just move on best thing.
hope this helps
2007-08-14 03:48:00 · answer #10 · answered by panthor001 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋