There's a guy(okay okay it's 2, or 3, or more than 3) that I only want to get sex from. I don't care about money, I especially don't care about relationships or emotions or any of that cr@p, I just want to bang him and get another notch on my bedpost. Is that so wrong? I mean, guys have that attitude about women.
How do I go about doing this? Should I be perfectly upfront and blunt? Or, would a guy think I'm "psycho" b/c I'm a "girl" doing it, and girls aren't known to be sexually upfront like that?
Should I fib and sweet talk and pretend to be more innocent than I am, just until I get the guy in bed, then I can dominate him and stop calling him after that? LOL.
So obviously I'm not a gold digger...but am I similar to a gold digger, in the sense that I'm using a guy for a primary purpose? Should I be titled a "d!ck getter" instead of a gold digger? LOL.
I can just imagine Kanye West singing it now..."I am sayin she's a d!ck getter..." haha
2007-08-14 03:52:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kitty -- Buying porn isn't enough; I want to do the guys that MAKE the porn! LOL. Amongst their friends and many many others.
2007-08-14 04:00:13 · update #1
Phil -- I don't need to protect a heart that I don't have. I'm not newbie to this!...I've been with 125 people already and I have NO emotional attachment. I am a guy born with a woman's body it seems to be.
2007-08-14 04:01:56 · update #2
you freaking rock, f on. dont let these haters stop your free heart, use protection there is so crazy **** out there!
2007-08-14 04:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go for it. So long as you don't BS the guys. I'm sure most men would be happy to use you for sex in a mutually understood arrangement.
Get your partners tested. All of them. Every time. Don't do anything with a guy who won't go get tested and show you the results. Be safe.
Condoms. Condoms. Condoms. Condoms.
Only problem with this plan: you can't put a condom on your heart. You will get emotionally attached like it or not. Or the guys will. Or both.
What are you trying to get out of sex? Can you get that need filled elsewhere? Have you considered getting a really good vibrator?
Good luck, I think...?
2007-08-14 10:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by Phil 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
The answer is all of th above. If you're looking to score, and are willing to do anything to score, then use all the powers in your arsenal to get what you want.
But be prepared to deal with the wreckage you create in doing so. You could be hurting yourself and others physically and emotionally by painting the town such a deep chade of red.
Have fun. Be careful.
2007-08-14 11:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by Matthew P 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would like to tell you to please respect yourself and others and be responsible so that you'll be able to help others by your good examples. Be refine because you are a person, created for good. Love is not love if you only want to use persons for your own convenience. Be a real man or woman
and may goodness of heart reign in your whole being.
2007-08-14 11:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by lui 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you have my email address tell me where you are at...
No, you do make a good point, men are basically whores, but society does not loot at them that way, woman, if they sleep around are the whores, BS. The only thing I can say to you is be careful about disease, HIV, herpes, etc.
now go do your matress magic....
2007-08-14 10:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by jake5282 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Check out adultfriendfinder.com. I suspect it's your kinda place. Mind you, I'm not judging you. More power to you for knowing what you want. The only thing I feel compelled to say is be careful. You know - condoms &c...
2007-08-14 10:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no guy will ever mind it even if you tell them. guys are not like girls in this matter. girls feel bad when guys play with them but guys feel it extremely good when they know that a girls wants to play with them . keep on it you will never find a guy who will mind it. i am just thinking why you was not near me...oh....
2007-08-14 11:06:49 · answer #7 · answered by PHD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play coy with a guy; women hate it when men "play" them, so try not to do it either.
Be up front, let them know what you want, and go for it.
2007-08-14 10:56:55 · answer #8 · answered by BK 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you are a whore and you want some dik. He'll get the point, won't fall in love, and will probably bang the daylights out of you. God I wish more whores like you were honest about it.
2007-08-14 10:59:33 · answer #9 · answered by mama a 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Are you kidding? This is most guys dream. Just tell them. I'm not sure I know any guys that would say no (as long as you're not a total skank about it). Just play it cool and you'll get what you want.
2007-08-14 10:59:22 · answer #10 · answered by Shoeless Joe 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋