Family & Relationships - 14 August 2007

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2007-08-14 08:09:43 · 56 answers · asked by menudo c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it that some women will take back the cheaters (even when they continue) and will have more kids with them. The cheaters have kids outside the relationship and continue, yet the wife / gf still takes them back ?

Then the guys who are faithful and loving to their wives / gf's have to basically BEG them to have sex on occasion? Especially after years in a committed relationship?

I'm not trying to sterotype all women into one of these groups, but I'm truely dumbfounded.

Is it really the "bad boy" syndrome? Ladies SAY they want a committed, loving, caring man, but what they REALLY find attractive and sexually appealing is the guy who will hurt them or is dangerous, or is unattainable ?

I just don't get it ?

2007-08-14 08:07:42 · 37 answers · asked by aa889d 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Help me out guys! I am so confused, frustrated and miserable. How can this be! When you [love] someone to death, but be very very extremely unhappy with his or hers performance, as a husband or wife in general?

2007-08-14 08:04:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hey.... do u guys like a girl who is shapely, w/ curves, or a stick who has nothin??
cuz i have a shape to me, and alot of guys tell me i'm 2 big for them...

2007-08-14 08:03:47 · 6 answers · asked by ChUcHiE 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok, this is not a very serious problem, but i am just interested in others' opinions.

My best friend and I have been best friends with wach other for 22 years (we are both 33 now). We both have very young children. SHe has a son who is 2 and I have a daughter who is 20 months.

Her son is quite a difficult child - lots of tantrums, not very friendly. He pushes, pokes and rugby tackles my daughter, even when my daughter is being nice to him. SHe offers him her toys, drinks, tries to cuddle him. Nowadays she more or less leaves him a lone but he still attacks her.

I feel the boys mother is not firm enough when she tells him off for being violent. She does it in this softly softly voice, and i think she should really lay down the law (i would do that if it was my daughter attacking her son). SHe DOES tell him off, but gently.

It hurts me so bad to see my daughter being bullied - on occasions i have told off the boy sternly but his mother seems not to like me doing so.

2007-08-14 08:03:40 · 9 answers · asked by Chimera's Song 6 in Friends

If you didnt like a guy and you kissed him.. would you feel warm, tingly, weak and just so good in eachother's presence?[[Not in a lust way]] But kindaa deep//meaningful.

2007-08-14 08:00:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and why?

2007-08-14 08:00:08 · 21 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

Hey there all (:

I got a new boyfriend!! =) we are dating for 3 days now!
I just wanted to ask u ppl if u liked how he looked..

Here he is;
http://www.geocities.com/romsitetr/srkn2.JPG

2007-08-14 08:00:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They won't let me leave with any of my belongings, they have all my legal documentation (my birth certificate, passport, social security card, etc.) They REFUSE to let me leave, what do i do?

2007-08-14 07:58:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hi!

You guys have to help me! Ok, there was this guy that I kinda had some feelings for. He seemed so nice and perfect (his personality). And he has told everybody that he has feelings for me. We have spend time together almost everyday. At Saturday he was at this party with one of my friends and they slept together! Now I'm just so dissapointed in him, and I just want to hurt him so bad!

Please help me guys!

F.Y.I: I'm kinda attracted to his bestfriend. Not that it has anything to do with this. And forget about my friend, I'll have to deal with her later.

2007-08-14 07:58:37 · 20 answers · asked by Lovelii 1 in Singles & Dating

so i really like this guy he likes me too and he said i was cute. we got eachothere cell #'s and we were texing all night untill like 3 in da moring he said he would be on aim the next. he was but he wasnt on when i was. i tried calling him and texting him. his cell was off. he hasnt been on myspace in a long time now. dose he not like me any more? or is he just really busy?

2007-08-14 07:58:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got some advice saying don't ask a girl out if you don't think she's interested. I might take his advice but i just need to know am i ever going to find a nice loving girlfriend. My mates have g/f's so it's embarressing when they ask me to go to the cinema with them and their g/f's. Am i a total loser, will i ever get a nice, loving girlfriend?????? :-(

2007-08-14 07:57:27 · 6 answers · asked by Bradders 1 in Singles & Dating

please help me

2007-08-14 07:54:44 · 28 answers · asked by kkp123 1 in Weddings

I am 45 with 2 preteen children. Do you think there is a chance it could work?

2007-08-14 07:54:09 · 17 answers · asked by just me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i am going out with this girl now and things are going ok and weve been going out for like a month. well now an old friend of mine i always like but havent seen in 2 years meets me at my godfathers house sunday. now we are not related at all so remember that. and we have always like eachother but after 2 years and both of us growing up a bit i feel much more attracted to her than my girlfriend. what should i do? i like this girl a ton more and im sure she likes me. would it be wrong to see if something could work between us cause she lives a little ways away (45 min or so) and im not sure if we could make it work. what do i do?

2007-08-14 07:53:36 · 38 answers · asked by man behind the mask 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-14 07:52:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-14 07:50:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has quite a lot of money. I have asked him to add me to his account, but he just laughs it off. I have added him to mine? How can I approach the subject without getting laughed at?

2007-08-14 07:46:58 · 22 answers · asked by Kelly H 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 26 yers old and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. We really love eachother, but we are different people in regards to settling down. I am much more settledin m life than he is. I am done with my Bachelors in college and I have a full time job and live on my own (well, with other roomates). He is a few years older than me, still finishing up his bachelors in college, and lives at home still with his parents. He also does not have a job and his parents support him. He is always saying that he feels that "we" need to finish school (even though I am finished with my Bachelors and AA degree), get good-paying stable careers, before we even think about marriage. I do not agree with that. I feel as though we are of age and time in our relationship to atleast be engaged. I am willing to wait for a few years for him to finish school and get married. we really love eachother and talked about this many times. My fear is waiting for him forever :(

2007-08-14 07:45:42 · 6 answers · asked by Confused but hopeful 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-14 07:41:42 · 8 answers · asked by ashley o 1 in Family

im love both of them and my boyfriend is saying we are going to get married some day but i still want to be with my first baby daddy what should i do?

2007-08-14 07:40:24 · 4 answers · asked by shawty_red_atl 1 in Family

I'm in the first stages of my wedding planning, and thus far my only decision is that I somehow want to incorporate a brown color scheme into my wedding.

Though I think they're all very beautiful, I'm sick of seeing brown + pink, blue, or cream and would like to do something a little different. I'm partial to any shade of green or purple (would love to incorporate both but have no idea how), and I like the brown + red combo.

Any ideas? Suggestions?

2007-08-14 07:40:19 · 15 answers · asked by lmdaubman 2 in Weddings

Be nice I don't want my feelings hurt

http://good-times.webshots.com/photo/2516621980101742216zsUMli

2007-08-14 07:38:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need to no these things! I am funny hott(in my opinion??)and i dont no what to like tak about when im in front of boys!?? help

<3
kaley=D

2007-08-14 07:32:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive known this guy for 10 years were like best friends we hang out a lot nd go to camps together but this year at a 2 week camp he only talked to me once the entire 2 weeks then the next 1 week camp he talked to me but he was rude nd mean during the 1 week camp me,him nd a group of friends played spin the bottle nd everytime he spun it landed on me nd vice vers after camp ended i told him i like him over im nd he said he knew but he wudnt tell me if he liked me or not he said he wud tell me jus not now wut do u think?

2007-08-14 07:30:33 · 3 answers · asked by marisah 2 in Singles & Dating

im studying a report about how the looks and appearance of people are dependant more on society rather then personality (whihc i think is much better)
i need your answer fast:

brunetts, blondes, redheads, or black hair

2007-08-14 07:30:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-14 07:29:44 · 7 answers · asked by just me 2 in Singles & Dating

show me a picture of a girl that you think is sexy. Thanks

2007-08-14 07:29:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and then he goes by the way Charlie,that' My Husband Brothers son.He said he is here ,I go no phone call to check with me to see if I had any Plans.I said so when is he supposed to go Home,He is like tomrrow.He never buys me anything or wishes me A happy Birthday,I just wish he would think of me for once and do something nice for me.I don't consider his Nephew a gift because he gets &starts trouble alot.This is not the Only Holiday he does this to me,I geuss I just expected something I shouldn't have.It Just Hurts.Hope you all are having a Great day.

2007-08-14 07:28:44 · 18 answers · asked by Dew 7 in Marriage & Divorce

a girl i liked moved away so i cant have sex with her anymore, i keep thinking about her though

2007-08-14 07:26:14 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating