I got some advice saying don't ask a girl out if you don't think she's interested. I might take his advice but i just need to know am i ever going to find a nice loving girlfriend. My mates have g/f's so it's embarressing when they ask me to go to the cinema with them and their g/f's. Am i a total loser, will i ever get a nice, loving girlfriend?????? :-(
2007-08-14 07:57:27 · 6 answers · asked by Bradders 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I totally agree with what the others have written! I think you will know when that lovely lady loves you back (how's that for alliteration!). I can completely relate as Im 19 and single. No-one is ever interested and my course makes it difficult for me to meet people. I feel like a loser most days- but I live in hope that one day I'll meet someone. Like the others have said- it will happen when we're not even thinking about it. Good luck cherrub!
2007-08-14 08:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Not sure how you got in this rut, but time to steer out of it. First of all, get social. If your buddies and their others are getting out, go with em. Then ask the girls who else they've invited. Is it subtle? no. But who has time for subtle?
Start getting social in other ways. Get confidence being around people. As you do that, you'll be more comfortable asking out anyone, regardless if they give off signals or not.
Get out there, and have some fun. You can't have a winner without bombing a few times anyway. So get to bombing. It feels better than thinking you're a total loser, I promise you.
2007-08-14 08:28:44 · answer #2 · answered by Matthew P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, dont try to rush things. I think sometimes you need to be a friend and get to know people before asking them out.
Join a club or hobby class, then the person at least has something in common with you to start off with. The saying is that there is someone somewhere for everybody.
Be a little more patient, you WILL meet some one one day. It will creep up on you before you know it, honestly.
2007-08-14 08:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone finds someone at their own time and pace. If you rush in a relationship, you will end up with someone who will not be suitable or you don't love. It's not the most important thing to have a gf/bf. You need to be happy with yourself first and the rest will follow suit. No your not a loser. Its just taking time to find the soul mate!!!
2007-08-14 08:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by sbalroarhe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is somebody out there for everybody! you will find that special person, usually when you least expect it. i think your trying to hard. take a step back and enjoy your life. that special someone will come along.
2007-08-16 02:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you will--never say never. It will probably happen when you quit trying so hard, and you least expect it. Just be yourself and let it happen.
2007-08-14 08:04:15 · answer #6 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋