Family & Relationships - 14 August 2007

Yesterday I woke up sick mostly with a sore throat. I spoke with (could barely talk) and emailed my man during the day letting him know how horrible I felt. I decided to go to the Emergency Room/hospital because I couldn't eat or swallow anything.

My man never even offered to go with me. He did however call me and text me to check on me and see how I was doing. I found out later that night that he was hanging out at the park with his cousin.

Men if your woman was sick and at the hospital by herself would you offer to go with her or not?

I'm not upset with him but haven't returned any of his calls today because (1) my throat is still sore (can't talk) and (2) I figure if he really cared he would've come to see me instead of calling.

Should I tell him how I feel or just treat him the way he treats me?

2007-08-14 09:46:06 · 22 answers · asked by Heaven26 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-14 09:43:45 · 56 answers · asked by Stella S 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm looking for some good ceremony readings. We need 3! We've got one from corinthians (love is patient...)

2007-08-14 09:43:26 · 6 answers · asked by modbride 4 in Weddings

The other day I was telling some people at work how bad my wife has been acting latley. She's been bitchy and has a horrible attitude and cusses and hates everything i do. So one of the other married women said "my husband would take me over his knee and bust my butt good if I acted like that" I was taken aback. I asked if she was serious and not like a sexual thing and she said yeah! I should do the same to my wife. Another younger girl said her boyfriend spanks her bare bottom whenever she acts up. I thought this was abuse? They both recommended it. The one woman even said that her husband uses her hairbrush on her butt occasionally. Is wife spanking really that popular and does it work?

2007-08-14 09:41:58 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Recently my ex and i tried to get back together per say. But mainly it was an act because his parents were down & going to stay at my house. I think mainly because he didnt want his parents to see how he was really living with his ex girlfriend & was too embarrassed of her & she wasnt good enough to meet his parents. So he went to extremes & moved all of his stuff into my house & made it feel like home to him. Perfectly ok with me. Well his best friend calls and tries to start ****. Well he calls my cell phone to talk to my ex & tells me that he is in love with his best friend's girlfriend but he wasnt calling to start **** between me and my ex & he didnt want to ruin the friendship with my ex either. And then he told me that my ex had moved his ex in with another friend of his. Also my ex's ex gf had been having and affair with his best friend while they were still living together. She is nasty white trash. Is this normal ? I know it isnt!! And he left all his stuff at my house!!!

2007-08-14 09:36:54 · 16 answers · asked by cheeks4u21 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have posted a lot of questions in the Marriage & Divorce section of Yahoo! Answers. Sometimes some of the men have really good advice and/or can relate to my situation. One in particular told me to e-mail him anytime if I wanted more advice or if I wanted to blow off some steam. Would that be considered cheating? I haven't accepted his offer, but I wanted to see what other people thought about it.

2007-08-14 09:35:56 · 44 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We're supposed to get married on October 21, 2007. We didn't send out the invatations yet though. A few days ago, my cousin came over and I hadn't seen him in 5 years so I was so happy to see him. I hugged him and then my fiancee showed up and he assumed I was cheating on him. He never saw my cousin before but he didn't even talk to me!! I keep thinking about what if we're married and he assumes I'm cheating on him with another person which I'd never do!!!! I know how it feels because my dad cheated on my mom and I saw her in pain all the time. I know it's wrong but he thinks I'm cheating! I've tried calling and he didn't pick up. I tried going to his house but he wasn't home. I'm really confused. It's making me so sad and I keep crying. Should I dump him?

2007-08-14 09:35:55 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a guy that i already dated 3 times asked me out again saying he misses me and he is sorry fr the stuff he did to me and i said yes cuz i miss him ssssssooooooooooooo much wat do i do

2007-08-14 09:32:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this guy. After several encounters and small chit chat I tell him I'm available. He gives me his number and tells me to call him when I get into his area. Twice I went to his town because I have friends who live there, and both times I called and said I was in town. It just so happened he would have something else going on but said he'd call me back and just never does. One night I called him, and explained that I really wanted to get to know him better and asked him if we connect on any level. He said he didn't know because he has not gotten the chance to hang out with me but was flattered by what I had to say. The conversation went very well, but I still have not gotten a call from him since. It's only been 4 days but I need to know. He said he didn't want a relationship and I told him that I didn't either. I told him just a casual thing and he agreed. I guess my big question is, do I make one last attempt or do I wait for him to make the next move??

2007-08-14 09:32:43 · 18 answers · asked by ALABLUEYES 1 in Singles & Dating

My Fiance & I were originally suppose to get married on Aug. 4 07' and I had cold feet & we cancelled our original date.

Everything is going great and since we rescheduled our Wedding for 9 mo's later but now my Folks are leary about helping financially. Keep in mind--they LOST NO MONEY BEFORE!!! All deposits carried over-luckily. What can I do to reassure them they don't have anything to be worried about! I know this is who I want to spend the rest of my life with. I'm bummed they don't have enough faith me to realize it too.

Mature advice only. I'm hoping someone else has gone through this and can help me.

2007-08-14 09:28:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Are the forms in this kit legal forms? If so what to do after
they have been filled out.
Serious answers please.

2007-08-14 09:28:09 · 5 answers · asked by shadowtwo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a very proud friend who is blind, she loves the Harry Potter books and has all but this newest one on audio tape or CD. I can not afford to buy her the unabridged audio book and even if I could she'd not accept it from me, (she hates charity when it's directed at her) if I can arrange it through another friend she WILL accept gifts from is there anyone willing to buy her this unabridged audio book and send it to her using the other friend's name? You'd be doing a great act of kindness, get a tax deduction and helping me to help a friend who can not afford to buy the audio book for herself. Her birthday is at the end of this month so the timing is perfect. Please if you aren't serious about trying to help, do not answer this. Thank you in advance.

2007-08-14 09:27:46 · 2 answers · asked by Mac 1 in Friends

He is a good man. Do I hang in there? If so, for how long?

2007-08-14 09:25:57 · 7 answers · asked by Kimberly 1 in Singles & Dating

Why would a man whose family friend for years and in love with me for years suddenly say hes scared to commit marry me so cant meet up.No we are not cheating we are in love.How to convince to get married what to do.

2007-08-14 09:23:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Can outsiders, strangers tell you what you should do and how to live? Can they snoop on you so they can follow your private life?Should you care about their opinion specially if this is a stalker who has been told he is not wanted around many times in many ways?

I have a stalker who tries to keep on telling me I am just not living my life right or piously.

He is so insistent on trying to send educational and job opportunities my way, even plays DJ to radio stations I listen to from India, directs movies even to try and impress me with his goodness :) But I end up only feeling very sick and sorry.

Has this ever happened to anyone? I have a chosen person who is just great but this stalker does not seem to get it.
How do I get away from this stalker?

2007-08-14 09:20:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this guy and he talkes to me but i am not sure if he is into me?? I flirt but i am not sure what he is thinking.

2007-08-14 09:20:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-14 09:20:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok listen i am wit my guy right and he gets up and goes 2 da restroom and leaves his fone its starts ringing i didnt answer bcuz its his i just tell him "hun ur fones ringing" he says answer it so i do and when i pick up a females says hey daddy i enjoyed last night maybe we can do it again......now im restraining from killing right now so pleeeze help...

2007-08-14 09:18:58 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 36 and he is 27. When we met it was clearly lust. But now I can see the childishness that he carries, jealously, insecurity, and control, not sure if I can handle it. We have been married a year and a half.

2007-08-14 09:18:02 · 25 answers · asked by Secret 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Some people get married after 5-6 months` acquaintance, the others keep dating for many years. Why?

2007-08-14 09:16:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, if a marriage license was never filed at the court house, was the marriage ever legal?

2007-08-14 09:11:31 · 4 answers · asked by elmgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have to know the date today. its tuesday. once its wednesday the questions no good.

thank you

2007-08-14 09:10:04 · 12 answers · asked by Coolchick3323 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm taking a woman to our first date, but I don't want to pay a lot. Assuming we just got a few burgers, fries, and cokes, would McDonalds or Wendy's be cheaper for a first date?

2007-08-14 09:08:32 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we are both 28 married at 22 he was a virgin I already had two kids ,so you know I like sex (0: , he seems to last two minutes, or less and blames it on me. He says I am too good, he never wants to give me foreplay he calls everything nasty, what to do??? I am so frustrated my hormones are going crazy I need tender love ,touches he gives me none! its just lay on your back for a minute then he rolls over and fall to sleep. and that is maybe twice a month thats all I get!!!



Maybe there is something going on with his child good ,he doesn't talk to his father who raised him none of the siblings and his 25 year old sister is a virgin and never dated either, I just think its weird. It has always been like this the first year was tough it was maybe four times and he said because he is too shy, with his own wife?


I have had questions on his sexuality and asked him! he told me that a lot of people have asked him that in the past because he was a virgin

2007-08-14 09:06:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I got back last night after visiting my dad and brother all weekend. I happened to notice that the KY lubricant was sitting out (not in the medicine cabinet where it’s normally kept). I decided to ask my boyfriend about it. He said it was leaking and was always getting all over the shelves of the cabinet and he was planning on just throwing it out. Well, I checked the bottle and it was completely dry and not leaking at all. The only way for it to leak would be for the lid to be open and for it to be turned on its side. This probably sounds silly, but instantly I assumed the worse…that he was sleeping with someone else and forgot to put it away before I got back. We do not have sex nearly as much as he’d like to (I am depressed and usually not up for it) so I know he has been feeling sexually frustrated for awhile. I also noticed that he bought me my favorite drink and offered to pick up my favorite burger for take-out today on his way home from work. Could this be because he feels guilty? Am I just being paranoid? If not, how do I find out if he’s being unfaithful? Should I confront him about this? I didn’t want to kiss him goodbye this morning in case he really was cheating on me. He most likely knows I am upset about something.

2007-08-14 09:05:46 · 71 answers · asked by Aeryn Sun 2 in Singles & Dating

SERIOUSLY? FOR example...if u wanna hook up with someone and u know theyre in a relationship...are u really just going to walk away??

2007-08-14 09:05:18 · 26 answers · asked by chi_south_kid1 1 in Singles & Dating

even if the two of you are "seperated" from your spouse (pending divorce), but not yet legally "divorced"?

2007-08-14 09:05:12 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

lose weight/gain weight, dye hair, fancy it up, change style, etc.
Nothing major just a few things like that....

2007-08-14 09:00:38 · 53 answers · asked by Music 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

that is the most unattractice quality in any girl i know. i just absolutely hate it! why? who started this and how do we stop it?

2007-08-14 08:58:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my bf for almost 2 years now. We're in an LDR, he's 5000 miles away (he's military) there have been times it's been rocky, but he says he's never cheated on me. He had a myspace page and there were girls on it i didnt know from home and from where he is now. There is one girl he's been friends with all his life, A. I never considered A an issue, she was engaged when we met, i never met her, but she'd drop him off at my house, one time i called her phone (he told me to) when they were out. Well on myspace she'd leave messages like, i love you, miss you, etc. It bugged me. He said, they are just friends, known each other since they were babies. I flew out to see him a month ago. A week ago on his myspace she called me a psycho stalker ***** and said i flew a long way to get laid. I was livid. I told him about it, he doesnt know y she'd say that. Myspace has caused us issues, so shortly after that he deleted the thing. I dont know if i should believe him

2007-08-14 08:56:44 · 14 answers · asked by Lilly d 1 in Marriage & Divorce