Family & Relationships - 14 August 2007

2007-08-14 12:42:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was told my my work colleague that, in most, if not all situations where a guy sleeps in the same bed as a girl, he will try it on. Is it normal for a guy not to? Is he being a gentleman, or is he just not interested in sex? Opinions?

2007-08-14 12:40:08 · 8 answers · asked by Libra ♎ 4 in Singles & Dating

okay, so my husband's friend always hugs me goodbye (kinda weird i know) i try to avoid it, but sometimes that just isn't possible without making a big thing of it. well, my huband 'forbade' me to hug him anymore (lol... i know, forbade! a simple request would have sufficed!). well, the other day we were at his friend's house & about to leave, i grabbed my huband's arm trying to avoid the hug but they guy still hugged me... i patted him on the back with one had (the other still on hubby). my husband got mad. is it just me, or is that kinda... controlling? and freakishly jealous? i mean, how am i supposed to avoid it?

2007-08-14 12:36:23 · 20 answers · asked by Ember Halo 6 in Marriage & Divorce

problem is itis affecting our sex life BIGTIME...we dont do it. We dont do anything. He doesnt even act like he cares about my feelings about not being close with him. His hands are not broken, so....but he will sit in front of the computer and playgames all night, or he will go for bikerides when his back flares up.
He doesnt seem to care one bit about my need for closeness with him. I cant even hug him when his back is hurting. He seems very cold about being close with me when this happens. I dont know what to do, and I dont wantto use a vibrator either..I wanthim and he doesnt care. Anyone else dealing with this?

2007-08-14 12:34:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What exactly is flirting and how do I do it, I'm16 and I want to get a girlfriend :)

2007-08-14 12:34:14 · 4 answers · asked by Gilbert 1 in Singles & Dating

This afternoon my husband and I had a threesome with his co-workers wife the guys meet about two years ago and her and I meet about 1yr ago when we moved to the state where their stationed anyway it was the first time my hubby and I did it and it was fun he did us in, which I knew he would but her husband doesn't know and i'm thinking about doing it a few more times I hate the guy anyway and he's jealous of my guy for no reason, so we gave him one he just doesn't know about it.HA LOL Tell me what you think????

2007-08-14 12:32:58 · 17 answers · asked by zuribelle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I need here I love her to death so how do I win her back HELP

2007-08-14 12:32:45 · 4 answers · asked by Kris A 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a girl, and ever since I was young, my brother was favored. But then as I got older, she started favoring other boys too. Then i got older still, and she would see certain behaviors in males, and say, that a girl must be behind it. There have been a considerable amount of love marriages in my family. And she always says it was the girl who roped the guy in...because men would never rope a girl in. Even when we go to India and a situation happens to me on the bus, I'm the one in trouble for tempting men...when she knows I did no such thing. Then I tried to tell her that men go a lot further than women where dating is concerned usually(we live abroad), and she started arguing with me! I don't understand y she thinks women area the vixens and men are the victims. I agree that at times, this may be the case, but not always...but she says always. IF a male said this, I'd understand, thinking they don't get it. But shes' a female, shouldn't she understand that a female has a lot more

2007-08-14 12:31:13 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been trying to get as many responses as I can but dont seem to be getting much help. Thanks to everyone who has responded but I could use some more input. Why do men lie and say they have slept with a woman when they havent???

2007-08-14 12:30:40 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you say your wife....what happened to blood being thicker than water?

2007-08-14 12:29:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How do you get rid of an ex that is always calling or coming by. She has been doing this for a year & a half now. She does this with all ex's, not just me. She is quite the player. She does not know how to be just friends. She was always a lier through the whole relationship over stupid things that didn't even matter. She also comes on to people that she just meets. There must be some under lying cause for that. How do I stop her from doing it to me?

2007-08-14 12:28:45 · 3 answers · asked by J.J. 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been trying to plan my wedding and it is driving me crazy! I am just wondering what budgets other people have had with their wedding. I really have no idea what I am doing, so I want to have a little idea of what to expect. I am having a very small informal wedding, so if anybody has had a wedding like that, I would greatly appreciate the advice.

2007-08-14 12:23:13 · 11 answers · asked by vive 2 in Weddings

My husband and I were married at young and we now have two young children 2 and 4. A month after we got married I was already pregnant with baby number 2 and realized that he was addicted to oxy contin. It has now been over 2 years and we are still battling the same issues. He has been in and out of rehabs and I have left a numerous amount of times. I consider myself a Christian women and am finding it hard to leave with no strings attached. I can see that now the splitting up all the time is really affecting my daughter. What should i do?

2007-08-14 12:19:30 · 15 answers · asked by A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am married...but sometimes think about it (divorce)....we have our share of problems...but I wanted your opinion as to how long it took to actually say, "That's it....we need to get divorced."

What was your deciding factor? Do you regret it? Would you do anything different?

2007-08-14 12:18:09 · 28 answers · asked by Lovin' Life As Mama & Wife 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not in the mood much, I am only really in the mood right after my period. Is that normal

2007-08-14 12:13:57 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you cheapen yourself by having a one night stand, or is it just harmless fun? What do people think of people who don't/do indulge in it? Opinions?

2007-08-14 12:13:54 · 36 answers · asked by Libra ♎ 4 in Singles & Dating

It hurts me to say that but with the exception of one or two most females in my life were either Evil or Pure Evil ....Maybe it is because I truly try to be extremely nice to them - and i always looked at the positive side of females and kept giving them chances,,,, i guess that does not work out...

I know females from down south are really nice ... i am seriously thinking about moving down there from my current city (NYC) (move is because of job not females) ... I was wondering which state you think have generally nice decent females ???

2007-08-14 12:13:22 · 9 answers · asked by Writer 1 in Singles & Dating

so much prettier than me
its getting me down
what should i do

2007-08-14 12:11:51 · 23 answers · asked by Reed 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-14 12:07:46 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why or why not? If you are into tickling, describe your experience on that and what kind/position of tickling do you enjoy the most?

2007-08-14 12:05:45 · 12 answers · asked by ticklee 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 17 and my boyfriend was 18. We are about to start our senior year in high school..we were together for a little over a year and a half and he recently broke up with me for the 3rd time. And for the same reason, that he doesn't know what he's doing with his life, that he loves me, but he thinks i deserve better. I don't understand where this is coming from again because we weren't even fighting when he broke up with me. He called me this morning and said that he needed to tell me something, he told me that he lied to me a couple of times about where he was going, he told me that he would tell me he was staying home, but then he would go out with his friends. he says he still wants to be with me, but doesn't know what he's doing, he says he's really confused, which hey, so am I. I'm not sure what to do, I know i shouldnt even take him back if he tries, but i love him so much. has anyone been through this? should i take him back for a 3rd time? I'm so confused. Please help :(

2007-08-14 12:04:37 · 48 answers · asked by Samantha H 1 in Singles & Dating

i know they're ho's, but why else.

2007-08-14 12:04:23 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I said something stupid and it made the girl I was wanting to wait on me think twice..
My exlover called me and instead of saying im not going to play those games with her..I just asked what her boyfriend would think..she wants to meet up and I told her I would.
When I told the girl who im wanting to be with but am not yet that she called and wanted to meet up but I told her I wasn't going to do anything with her..and when she asked why didn't I just tell her im over those games ..instead I said I liked knowing shes waiting on me..and she thinks she can play me but im not going to let her..im going to play her..

Well know the girl I did want and had asked to wait on me is gone and says she won't wait on me anymore.I am 29 and she says if im not done with games now then I never will be.
Did I really say something so bad to deserve that?She said she was inlove with me and I was her fairy tale but now she just dropped me!

2007-08-14 12:02:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

why cant they just accept that men like a girl with a nice body?

2007-08-14 12:00:08 · 14 answers · asked by Seamus 3 in Singles & Dating

where are all the honest women in england they seem to have vanished and left the nasty woman who only careabout cheating and plundering youout of everything you have

2007-08-14 11:57:44 · 7 answers · asked by simone.merrell 2 in Marriage & Divorce

a disapointment??? I of course mean down there

2007-08-14 11:53:44 · 10 answers · asked by john d 1 in Singles & Dating

We were together for 4 months. We dated last year from April 2006 to August 2006. To this very day she still writes in her XANGA about me, and she even made her own seperate XANGA account where she would write only about me in it. She would say stuff like "i love him etc etc." and its been LIKE A YEAR.

dude, is she crazy? i didnt even notice if she was crazy or not when we were together, but we fought alot thats why i broke it off.

i just checked her recent xanga entry:

Friday, August 03, 2007


Up til now
I'm depressed.












Whenever I close my eyes
Or hide under multiple lies
I still see all that implies
Of you: black water and silver spies

Even now as I feel so dead
This heart of mine: robbed of its red
Having no choice but to live the life I've led
I guess it looks as though I still have tears to shed
Frustrated by the inability to get you out of my head

Whenever I think I

2007-08-14 11:52:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like two boys, equally, because they're both really great, so it's not a contest of who I like more or who's hotter. One told a very gossipy girl he used to like me, and the other sort of likes me, but we really don't know each other that well, who should I choose?

2007-08-14 11:51:26 · 6 answers · asked by alicia 4 in Singles & Dating

how old is perfect age to get married? what do u think? what is it by law?

2007-08-14 11:50:20 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-14 11:49:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce