Family & Relationships - 14 August 2007

His kids are 2 and 3 and he has been broken up with there mom for about a 1.5 yr now. I met him at my friend's party. I wasn't expecting to meet anyone. I wasn't going to talk to anyone of my friends' friend because I know what they are about. (Another story) Anyway, I like how he approach me and he was very respectable. I'm somewhat paranoid when I meet people especially when someone tells me in the very first conversation that he looks forward to spending time with me. Plus he's looking to be married someday and I maybe the one or something like that. It freak me and I let him know. I said lets just get to know each other and go from there. Well I went over his house yesterday to visit with him and his kids were there because his has full custody over them. I didn't mine but it was a little overwhelming at first and I wanted to go but later on we all had a good. Anyway, I really like him and want to get to know him but I feel that he's just looking for someone to help raise his kids.

2007-08-14 16:59:24 · 11 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Singles & Dating

Ive been in love with him for the past 3 1/2 years. We have been on and off for those years also. We recently seperated due to problems but he told me he still loved me and i feel the same way. The song that can best describe it is "outta my system" by Bow Wow. I miss him terribly and ive had chances to date other guys but ive turned them down because hes the only one i see for me.. Should i wait around for him, or how should i get over him?

2007-08-14 16:58:10 · 3 answers · asked by babbyy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Two of my best friends both just had sex with their boyfriends and both times the boyfriends' penises didn't end up entering their girlfriends and nobody knows why. They're both virgins and I am also and I am planning on having sex with my boyfriend but I don't want the same thing to happen. How do I make sure that he actually will enter me without having to stop from it not being able to work?

2007-08-14 16:57:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Am I the One?



I cant sleep
I cant eat
thoughts flow
'round me viscously........

try to breath
taken it slow
my love for you
you'll never kmow.........

you keep me up
you let me down
out of my mind
you're not around..........

a final word
one final kiss
am I the one
you're going to miss?

2007-08-14 16:56:14 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-14 16:54:37 · 11 answers · asked by teeki 2 in Weddings

I am 15 and I know my father does drugs for a fact. Every night he has work he goes into the garage and takes some drugs. As fare as I can tell he has been doing it for about 4 years maybe longer. What i want to know it should I tell my Mom? They fight alot sometimes and i am afraid if i tell her this there marrige will fall apart or my dad will hate me (we dont get along as much as he would like). Please Help someone.

2007-08-14 16:53:28 · 15 answers · asked by Ron K 1 in Family

I know these guys who say the can tell bra size just by looking at a girls boobs. (clothes on)

2007-08-14 16:50:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad doesn't like white boys and doesn't want me dating them, but my boyfriend is white, only thing is my dad doesn't know I'm dating him, I want to tell my dad but how do I bring it up? I probably don't need to mention this but wth, I'm black

2007-08-14 16:50:17 · 6 answers · asked by cherry donut 2 in Singles & Dating

Anybody have any good ideas for affordable ways to decorate an outdoor wedding venue?We will getting married outside in summer.The venue has a gazebo and a wide cement area for seating.What ideas do you have to make it more charming?Also how whould you decorate a small reception area that only provides tables and chairs?my colors will be purple and silver.
I want to provide food for my guests about 40 people any good ideas?we are thinking about just a light lunch but not sure what whould be good to serve.

2007-08-14 16:50:10 · 6 answers · asked by kitty kat 3 in Weddings

i was just wondering if you ever pray for your future husband/ wife? Or juist think about what they are doing right now?

It's so cool to think about..i pray for my future husband

does anyone else?

2007-08-14 16:46:09 · 57 answers · asked by manda 3 in Singles & Dating

we have been together for 4 1/2 yrs. now and she wont let my husbands child come to our house because she dont like me, eventhough she has never given me a chance. is that legal or what do we do because it probably makes him think his dad dosent care which is not true. and she tells him that he cant come here cuz i'm a bad mom. i feel i am a pretty good mom. and shes the bad mom cuz she wont let her son see his father because of her jealously. help what do we do

2007-08-14 16:46:03 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I recently went out with a chick and I really didn't set up the date she did with me. So I went to he resturant and had dinner with her and she askes me "Do you want to go halfs on the dinner". Since I really didn't set up the date I said yes. Well then I tryed to set up a date with her the second time and she tells me. That I sould have payed for the dinner and that she likes chivalry from a guy and tells me that we can be friends.

I just thought I would see what most people think about the guy or the girl buying dinner or how that works?

2007-08-14 16:45:45 · 20 answers · asked by Spike1982 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-14 16:45:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i think this guy is cute and this guy asked me if i was a virgin, i said i wasnt going to answer that question.. but i'm wondering if i have his mind on that..

2007-08-14 16:45:07 · 9 answers · asked by ashley h 1 in Singles & Dating

For example, taking a dump. Lets hear these stories!

2007-08-14 16:39:11 · 9 answers · asked by socceric18 2 in Friends

2007-08-14 16:38:27 · 12 answers · asked by truckluvr9 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There's is this girl i like but she is married and she once said that she would date me if she wasnt married, and her husband treats her badly and he doesnt deserve her ..she says that she isnt happy and she has thought about divorcing him but i think that she cant build the courage to leave him ...can someone give me some advice on this situation ?

2007-08-14 16:37:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi im a 13 year old girl, and i have a major crush on this guy in my class, hes pretty cute, semi-popular (same as me) and nobody else is crushing on him. we have a tun of stuff in common like music taste, sense of humour, and (ahem) expierience and i dont even want him to "ask me out" for like a one-on-one date but like i was thinking of asking him to see a movie with me and a big group, he has showed intrest in me before (kinda not sure...) and I WAS WONDERING IF THIS MEANT HE WAS SHOWING INTREST IN ME???!?!!!?
- he acts more like daredevilish when hes around me
-he talks more about the music we like when hes talking to me
-he asks to use my iPod a lot
-he um like to throw stuff jokingly down my shirt
-he sumtimes trys to sit beside me
-i catch him looking down my shirt alot!!
-he talks to me more than other girls who are prettier than me
-he defends me sometimes

what does this mean, and how would i ask/approach him to ask him out to a movie with a group?????? PLEASE HELP

2007-08-14 16:32:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

describe the mate you are with or soon will be.

2007-08-14 16:30:36 · 8 answers · asked by Maindrian Pace 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-14 16:29:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I can't help but feeling crushed. He walked out on the kids and I 3 days after we got back frm Disney Wrld. While there he not only used 2 cell phones to communicate with his soon to be live in whore. He begged me for sex the entire week. He lied and treated me like %&^% for 6 mos prior. He lied about his job and took permenent placement 2 states away. Oh and all this after convincing his Nan, mom and disabled brother to move here in Pa frm Ca. So he could be a help to them. He not only dated, had sex and carried on his lies and affair for mos before I found out, he Shacked up with her immediately after leaving our home that very day. And, to top it off the way he told me was through our son. Yes, the &(&*&( coward called our son on his cell phone to tell him he was cheating on his mother. Nice. Oh, and she Jill Eich left her 3 young baby girls and stay at home husband clear across the country. A mom (excuse me the C*(&*(Nt does not deserve to be called a mom) left her 3 daughter

2007-08-14 16:28:40 · 17 answers · asked by Maya S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know this is wrong..your suppose to love yourself . But i can find a flaw in every part of my body from my head to my toe. I want surgeries to make me look perfect. I hate my body and i hate everything about me. please dont give me rude answers just good advice would be nice. I am totally insecure and need to gain my self confidence. how can i do this? how can i just love me for me?
btw...i have a 9 month year old baby, and the father just left us 2 months ago, i was with him for 4 years...could this be the reason why i feel so insecure?

2007-08-14 16:21:54 · 14 answers · asked by Alyssa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If I don't live on campus, will it be hard for me to make friends? Since I would be going to class and then leaving. There is no lunch time or anything to socialize. Your just in and your out. And the whole time the proffessor is talking, so how can you make friends? Also, the classes are so big and you move seats everyday, isn't it hard to find friends...

2007-08-14 16:20:18 · 9 answers · asked by AnswerGirl 2 in Friends

There is a guy I've worked with for 3 years. He wanted me for 2 years and I always turned him down. He moved for a year and recently moved back. Right before he left, I realized I cared about him and we got involved. Then it turned into a big game. He would do thing like tell me he loved me, then say that he doesn't want to be with me but he doesn't want me with anyone else. He would say other terrible things just to hurt me and later apologize and say that he doesn't understand why he does it. Now that he is back, he is working with me again (he has a new job lined up though) and is living in the same town. He lies to me to drag me back just to hurt me again. He has said and done horribly mean things and told me that he is an alcoholic and bipolar and so he can't help it. Last weekend he slept with me then told me that it was just sex and stopped communication. How can I stop playing this game?

2007-08-14 16:16:04 · 1 answers · asked by britchick 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-14 16:12:38 · 16 answers · asked by 000 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been in the hospital for about 80% of the past year. My husband and I just had our 1 year anniversary which I spent in the hospital. I am VERY limited to what I can do health wise.
I do not have the energy for sexual contact yet.
I am going through alot right now and I really need him to know how much I care about him.
I have already set alarms on his calender for everyday for the next year that will go off at different times everyday that tell him that I love him and I appreciate him in different ways. It also tells him one thing that I love about him everyday.
Greg has goe to work and then come to the hospital everyday and pulled the sleeper as close to my bed as he could. Then he hangs over the arm of the chair so he can touch my hand or face while he sleeps.
When I get out on occasion he comes home and makes me food and brings juice and cards.
The doc says that things arent looking good for my future and I want Greg to know that I love him so much.
What can I do?

2007-08-14 16:01:53 · 10 answers · asked by Nancy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay, this can get tricky. for guys please be honest. you can't expect to win if you're holding something back. and EVERY guy has it. so what DO you like and what DON'T you like in a girl......answer accordingly....

2007-08-14 16:00:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-husband is serving 36 days under house arrest and another 10 in jail for a second drunk-driving charge and a hit & run accident. He wants his regular visitation, which is every other weekend, but I'm hesitant because he shows no remorse for what he's done wrong and he still seems unstable.
My daughter refuses to spend the night there although she will see him during the day. My son is okay about going. My ex-husband called me today and threatened that I had better not call the courts to check on his driving status. I don't care what he thinks but I am concerned with sending the kids into such a volatile situation.

2007-08-14 15:48:41 · 26 answers · asked by cinnamon-girl88 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ts in the year 2006 in the months from september through november. my dad gave me a phone call sayin that there was this gurl who wanted me to be in her quincinera (lits like a sweet 16 but for 15 year olds). i didnt want to but i said wat the hell. so when i went to practice i saw the gurl and was like she looks like a parrot. but over the course of three weeks i started to like her then i fell in love for the first time. after the quincenera i talked to her everyday. then i asked her if she wanted to be my gf. she was like ok. so then we went on a few dates for aabout a month. but our parents wouldnt let us go alone. WE HAD TO GO WIT SUPERVISION. (its not like were babies.) so we went to the ice skating ring one time. at that time i loved her. i felt so alive. her cousin also went along too. i asked if w can kiss but she said no. i asked and pleaded then her cuzn said wat the hell and told her to kiss me. then we kissed in a broken photo booth. i never kissed a gurl in my lif so i didnt no wat to do. i didnt move anything. then about a week later we had a good time. she said she can do anything she wants to her. it felt suspicious and i told her that she wanted to break up wit me. i was right. she said that when we kissed she felt nothing. so she told me she wanted to break up wit me but if we can be friends. i got mad and said no.

about a month later on myspace, there was this gurl named clea who i though was an old gurl at school that i liked. but it was my ex. she said that she only wanted to be friends with me. i got pissed off and told her to never talk to me again. tat was the last i have ever spoked to her.

now im $&%in depressed and feel that there is no love in my life. i even though one time of suicide.(i realized that that was stupid) though i didnt feel how i used to anymore. i felt darker. anger in my heart coursing through my veins. so thats my story

2007-08-14 15:43:36 · 3 answers · asked by Rico M 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend was VERY UPSET last night and asked me to stop over. I didn't feel like stopping over to see her after work.

She phoned and woke me up 3 times this morning asking me if she could come over to talk. I told her I didn't want to see her because she wouldn't tell me what was wrong last night.

I found out her friend was selling weed and my guy friend who was staying wanted to buy some. I offered to have her come over if she brought some weed and my friend would pay her for it. She got MORE ANGRY said she was having a bad day and worked from 3AM - 11:30 A.M. and wanted to be left alone and sleep.

We got into a HUGE ARGUMENT because she STILL wouldn't tell me what was wrong with her. All she would say is PLEASE leave me ALONE PLEASE JUST LEAVE ME ALONE we will talk about it tomorrow PLEASE.

I didn't want to wait until tomorrow and told her F**k you you stupid B**ch! She flipped out and FINALLY told me what was wrong. Turns out what was wrong was REALLY DUMB
(please read)

2007-08-14 15:43:23 · 13 answers · asked by BadToTheBone 1 in Singles & Dating