Hi im a 13 year old girl, and i have a major crush on this guy in my class, hes pretty cute, semi-popular (same as me) and nobody else is crushing on him. we have a tun of stuff in common like music taste, sense of humour, and (ahem) expierience and i dont even want him to "ask me out" for like a one-on-one date but like i was thinking of asking him to see a movie with me and a big group, he has showed intrest in me before (kinda not sure...) and I WAS WONDERING IF THIS MEANT HE WAS SHOWING INTREST IN ME???!?!!!?
- he acts more like daredevilish when hes around me
-he talks more about the music we like when hes talking to me
-he asks to use my iPod a lot
-he um like to throw stuff jokingly down my shirt
-he sumtimes trys to sit beside me
-i catch him looking down my shirt alot!!
-he talks to me more than other girls who are prettier than me
-he defends me sometimes
what does this mean, and how would i ask/approach him to ask him out to a movie with a group?????? PLEASE HELP
2007-08-14 16:32:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be yourself
2007-08-14 16:37:14 · answer #1 · answered by That Girl. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well just a tip....since you are 13 try to not go anywhere "alone" with him. I say this because he is already looking down your shirt and/or putting things jokingly down your shirt. Ok, now about the crush thing....just ask him he'd like to hang out with you and your friends sometimes by going out for pizza, to the movies, or to a ball game. How's that sound? Have fun and take things slowly...as you're only 13!
2007-08-14 23:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by Umm Qasim Fatimah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn this now at 13...Be who you are. If your not then your playing a game. It will one day bite you in the butt. You can have all the crushes you want your to young to date now anyway.
He likes your ipod cause he may not have one
Throwing things down your shirt is disrespectful, out of line
He should not be looking down your shirt ( or you let him)
Do not put yourself down. always less or more pretty than you
Tis nice if someone defends you
If you expect respect from boys, you must first respect yourself
2007-08-14 23:48:05 · answer #3 · answered by Cinnamon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think you have a really good chance with him. I have been married 5 years now and my husband does similar things to show me affection and I hear that that is how guys act when they like you. Write him a note and ask him if he would like to go to the movies, and then give him a couple of choices to choose from and then ask him to pass it back. You only live once. Have fun enjoy life. If he says no there will be another guy who likes you and you like them, trust me.
2007-08-14 23:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by TennesseeGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could just like you as a friend. Also you can't *make* anyone like you or *crush* on you. They either do or they don't.
You can hang out with him, maybe talk to him or ask if he wants to go the movies sometime and see what he says. Good Luck.
2007-08-14 23:39:41 · answer #5 · answered by zeekandthefam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he likes you, but a word of advice--A guy looking down your shirt and throwing things down your shirt is not cool. Good guys don't do that. Ask your dad what his opinion is of a guy who does this and you wanting to go to the movies with him. (I'm sure you're not going to like his answer)
2007-08-14 23:50:28 · answer #6 · answered by Michele W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well reading all the things you said I have the feeling that you might be 70% sure that he likes you.So what do you think of getting up,go,stand in front of him,open your mouth and ask him to the movie???
2007-08-14 23:39:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a 14 year old guy, i know what i'm talking about when i say this dude likes you. And to ask him out, all you gotta do is write a note saying "i'm totally in love w/ u and do you want to go out sometime" and all that bs. trust me, it'll work. just grow some balls and go do it.
2007-08-14 23:39:48 · answer #8 · answered by startswithone1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure he like you, but im sorry hes a perv. do you really want a guy looking down your shirt. I think thats degrating. i would slap a guy if he looked down my shirt. i would stay away from him . sorry to bust you bubble but he just wants you as a physical being, not your heart.
2007-08-14 23:39:50 · answer #9 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Get ur best friend 2 do it
2. Get his # and call him about it
3. Tell him at a school dance you like him when its dark
2007-08-14 23:39:38 · answer #10 · answered by RoxSox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him next time you are muckin about. say "Hay, me and the guys going to a movie blah blah blah, do ya wanna come with us"
2007-08-14 23:39:02 · answer #11 · answered by smile_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋