Family & Relationships - 14 August 2007

HOW DO I CALM DOWN. I AM SOOOO ANGRY AT MY DAD RIGHT NOW! I HAVE BEEN PLANNING A PARTY FOR LIKE, EVER AND NOW MY DAD SAYS THAT I CAN'T HAVE IT BECAUSE I THREW A LITTLE BOTTLE AT HIM. WHAT DO I DO!?!?

2007-08-14 10:54:19 · 15 answers · asked by Holly 2 in Family

My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me a few months ago. It was very painful for me as I didn't want it. He was saying that he doesn't want long-distance anymore. But he kept saying it's for now. When I told him that I need to cut all contact with him as it hurts me to be in contact with him, he was always angry and would be doing everything for us staying in contact. He was telling me that he wants us to talk to each other whenever we need. I tried to be strong but these days I really needed him to talk to me. I asked him 2 days ago to talk but he ended up shouting at me that it's not his role anymore to be alwys there like he used to. I was upset and he then got really angry and told me that he is fed up and he has moved on and he hates me and he doesn't need me anymore. But 2 weeks ago he said he needed me when I wasn't answering my phone. I feel so hurt by this. We arranged to meet to talk face to face but he now asked for a week to think as he needs to decide if we should meet.

2007-08-14 10:48:04 · 36 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-14 10:47:07 · 10 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I can get a discount for bulk burgers. I thought about wrapping them up in fancy gold wrapping with our name printed on it and our wedding date. Do you think this would be OK?

2007-08-14 10:39:11 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

He was sentenced 15yrs. in a state prison.But he is apealing his case and there is a big chance his sentenced will be reduced to 5 yrs with 5 yrs of paroel.He has already served 2yrs....I really love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him.

2007-08-14 10:34:50 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just recently visited my mom for the weekend. She had a chip on her shoulder the whole time and was looking for a fight with her husband etc. We stayed and made the best of it but were definitely ready to leave when the weekend was over. I had decided to move four states away in a year due to my husband finding a great job in Denver. Mom has already started the guilt trip asking me when am I coming back to visit (I live 7 hrs away) and how she wished I lived closer. I try to visit when I can out of respect but it seems unfair because mom does not work and her husband is self employed. They have never visited me. I work full time and go to school part time. It annoys me that my mom is not thoughful of this and puts pressure on me and no effort on her part. How can I politely tell her that it is her turn to visit me? Why does she not understand? She and her husband just got home from a trip 4 1/2 hours from their home for their anniversary, why can't they visit me?

2007-08-14 10:29:41 · 7 answers · asked by TennesseeGirl 2 in Family

I saw him at a fair and i said the only reason i broke up with you is because my dad died and i asked him back out again but he said he really doesnt know. And i really love him. But since the fair he wont return my calls, wont answer the phone, and laughs in the backround when one of his family members says hes not here but i really want him back and i wont give up. Please help me!!!

2007-08-14 10:25:18 · 5 answers · asked by Kayla 1 in Singles & Dating

hang out with at least once a week and we always have the best of times when we're together!!! We all hang out as a group of friends along with numerous other couples ... anyhow on 8/2/7 it was the husbands birthday (of the other couple) and I among other people sent him a Happy Birthday message on myspace ... where we all keep in touch with our long lost friends. So here is the message I sent (which I have sent to guys before!) ...

It's a picture from photobucket.com that says happy birthday and has a picture of a woman (not me!) on it who is shirtless and is holding cupcakes with candles over her boobs! (ok ... I think that it's hilarious) and I wrote a comment I though was hilarious that said ... "I hope your birthday is as nice as these cupcakes :)". I am totally devoted to my husband and do not in anyway find myself attracted to this guy!

She .... our friend ... just went off on me saying it's completely inappropriate that I did this!!! Was I in the wrong?!

2007-08-14 10:25:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok well last night I had a huge party and I invited my friend who I like!We all got wasted and when I went into my room to lay down for a few minutes he came in and striped his clothes and mine.I gave him head and we did it for like ever.It was soooooo nice.But he has a girlfriend!Does he really like me?because he is always flirting with me and when we swim together alone he always chases me and grabs my butt and pulls my swimsuit off!

2007-08-14 10:21:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this freind of mines likes me more than a freind and i dont
today she told me and i dont know what to tell her tommorow
i donw want to break her feelkings what should i tell her

2007-08-14 10:21:28 · 10 answers · asked by Sunflower 2 in Singles & Dating

I was snooping through my lover's private things. I wanted to see if a man of color's private things were different than my horrible exhusbands privates.

Well I came across some interesting documents that indicate that my horrible ex-husband and my lover are actually brothers.

Should I tell them?

2007-08-14 10:20:56 · 14 answers · asked by H_bomb the III 2 in Family

Spur of the moment?

Been thinking about her all day?

Guilty conscience?

2007-08-14 10:15:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is a photographer and is trying this out. Check out the site and and let me know what you think. There are some really neat pics of brides after their honeymoon who don't feel the need to store the dress. Some even get it cleaned and it is fine.

2007-08-14 10:14:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

so i've been talking to this guy who is going to my college via online for awhile. So we finally meet up and we hang out and end up making out. I didn't want to get anymore physical than that for now. But that was Sunday night and he hasn't really tried to talk to me since then...I saw him at a dance they had for the freshman and he was dancing with another girl and I just turned my back towards him because he knew that I had seen him. Now I'm getting the feeling that it's awkward. What do you think could be going on?

2007-08-14 10:13:44 · 28 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Singles & Dating

What are some physial things u find intriguing in girls. For example:
Heavey eyeliner
Tattoos
Big eyes
Long hair
Tall
etc etc

2007-08-14 10:12:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and what should i wear to pickup chicks or just regularly

2007-08-14 10:11:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love my girlfriend but somethings she does in bed are well they range from unpleasant to down right painful.
Whats the best way to tell her without hurting her too much or better yet at all

2007-08-14 10:09:11 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what does your girlfriend do that turns you on?

2007-08-14 10:06:28 · 27 answers · asked by Amanda O 2 in Singles & Dating

Gown #1
http://www.brides.com/fashion/dresses/gallery/vendor/designer/ysamakino/detail/119669/?ff=Bride&f=Wedding+Gown+Designer%3AYSA+Makino&max=Wedding+Gown+Designer&offset=10&page=2

Gown #2
http://www.brides.com/fashion/dresses/gallery/vendor/designer/marysbridalpcmarys/detail/128503/?ff=Bride&pf=silhouette%3AMermaid&offset=191&page=22

Gown #3
http://www.brides.com/fashion/dresses/gallery/vendor/designer/jasminecouture/detail/145194/?ff=Bride&f=neckline%3AOff-the-shoulder&max=neckline&offset=16&page=2

Gown #4
http://www.brides.com/fashion/dresses/gallery/vendor/designer/atelieraimee/detail/130646/?ff=Bride&pf=silhouette%3ASheath&offset=129&page=15

2007-08-14 10:06:02 · 49 answers · asked by artsy_lovely_lady 5 in Weddings

" and ron got mad at me for choosing harry of over him
mum" hermione voice a little higher than she would of
liked it to be, she had just gotten back a few hours
ago from getting her parents and restoring there
memories and was explaining what had happend but as
she finished her last sentence a realisation had come
to her.
She quickly ran upstairs in her room and closed the
door but not before casting silencing spell around her
door. What she was going to be talking about was
private and didnt want anyone to here, she sat down on
her bed and began talking to herself because she felt
that she was the only one she could talk to about this
"god im such a git talking to my self if only ron
could see me now he could really call me mental". She
got up from her bed and began to pace her room before
talking to herself again "honestly hermione for beging
the smartes witch from my age it sure take me along
time to come to this thought".
Hermione felt sad and grabbed her favorite teddy bear
from her bed the she called harmony and hugged it as
she paced her room again "i would choose harry over
ron wont i?. I mean i did do it when ron asked me
whether i was going with him and i choose harry"
hermione stoped pacing and had the most confused look
on her face "well of cource i choose harry i said i
would help him, i couldnt just leave him there all
alone while me and ronald went back to the burrow, but
why do i feel like if i had to choose between harry
and ron for good i would choose harry"
Hermone began to realise that she was crying and wasnt
sure why she whiped the tears of her face and began to
talk again "i should choose ron he's my boyfriend
after all and harry just my friend my best friend i
can talk to him about things i would never tell ron
because i know ron would just get mad and start a
fight , i hate ron for always fighting with me harry
on the other hand has never really gotten mad at me
let alone made me cry like all the times ron has, i
love harry like a brother rite? but why do i feel like
it something more than that?"
With out knowing it she began to pace again but this
time it was twice as fast "i would love to just tell
harry that i care for him more than i do ron, i could
see myself being with harry instead of ron but what
happends if our relationship didnt work out and we
broke up we would have this awkwardness between us and
things will never go back to being the same again, i
would rather loose harry than not have the
relationship like we have now" hermione grabbed her
bag opened her door and walked down stairs.
"mum, where are you" hermoine yelled as she walked
down stairs
hermione looked around from the stairs and could see
that her mom wasnt in the living room or the bathroom
and walked down the last few stair before she heard
her mother's voice "hermione sweetheart im in the
kitchen" hermione walked down the hallway
"mum i just came to tell you that im going back to the
burrow now to see ron and harry and i'll be back
tonight" hermione look at her mother and saw her
mother looking into her eyes hermione quickly turn
away
"hermione is something wrong sweetheart you look like
you were crying , is everything okay" hermione nooded
and walked away
At the burrow harry potter was helping ginny with
dinner he had bragged about his cooking skills and
landed himself in hot water. When ginny told him if he
thinks hes so good with cooking then he could make the
meatloaf while she made the mashpotatoes and wished he
had keeped quit.
"harry please hurry up hermione will be her soon and
you havent even but the meatloaf in the oven yet i
thought you knew how to cook" spat ginny and harry
could see that she regreted having him cook as soon as
he was afraid to but his hands in the bowl of meat
Harry looked at her trying not to laugh at the fact
the she look like ron the time when hermione had beat
him at a muggle game of chess " ginny i said i could
cook but not not fast ,im not like you i cant just
point my wand at something ans have it be one, i never
cooked with a wand before i dont know the spells to
use because i had to cook the muggle way and it takes
along time to cut and chop by hand" harry knew that
wasnt good enough of an excuse for her.
"i really don..." ginny words were drawn out by the
loud pop that told them that someone had just
apperated out side and seconds later they could see a
mass of brown hair walk by the window " hermione"
ginny said as she ran to her friend and gave her a
hug.
" hi ginny" hermione smiled and tryed not to make eye
contact with harry out of fear that he would see that
she had been crying "wow something smells really good
what is it?'
Ginny beamed at hermione "thanks hermione what you
smell are my mashpotatoes and if harry and finished
sooner you would also be smelling a meatloaf but im a
good cook over there is slower that ron trying to
figure out how to use a cd player"
All three at them laughed and hermione felt happy for
that microsecond before harry spoke "is
everything okay hermione you look upset" harry doing
the exsact same thing that hermione didnt want him to
do he was staring into her wet eyes
"yea everythings fine harry you dont have to ask me
that if something wasnt you would know , i just got
some dirt in my eye when i apperated out side is all ,
but all the same thanks for asking tho" she smiled at
harry and her and ginny left the room to find ron
harry just stood there "there is something wrong with
her and you know she lieing" harry thought "yea but
she obviously didnt want to tell you tho so just stay
out of it" " but i cant i hate to see her hurt it
drive me mad i cant stand see someone i care about
crying" harry smile at the thought of hermione smiling
at him "she is just the best and she doesnt deserve to
shed one tear"
There was a big boom over harry's head and he realised
that was ron room and that the girls must of scared
the sh!t out of ron to make him jump like that. Turned
his thought to ron " do i really show how much i care
for hermione so much that ron could tell? i mean when
he saved me and went to distroy that horcrux his fear
was harry and hermione kissing could he tell that i
like hermione ?" harry attention was brought back to
the world around him he felt a shape pain on his
finger and realised that he had cute his finger with
the knife in is other hand.
Harry grabed a rag and rapped his finger and started
to think again about hermione " i do care for hermione
and i lied to ron when i told him it was just like a
brother loves a sister its more than that and there
friendship will never be more than it was now, what if
he had asked hermione out or told her how i felt about
her that i liked her more than a friend what if she
didnt feel the same way then i would loose hermione
and she would tell ron and ron would tell ginny" harry
looked sad if that happends ron and ginny would never
forgive him and he would loose the people he cared
about so much and he couldnt loose hermione and
decited to keep quite.
Dinner rolled around and after alot of complain about
the time it took for dinner to be ready this mainly
coming from ron the hole weasly family and harry and
hermione sat down for dinner. after all the compiments
on a job well done and ron saying that he would love
to wait this long if harry food comes out this good
everything he cooked. Harry looked at ginny who looked
so pretty to night and how he wished she was hermione
but knew he would would have to settle for ginny the
next best thing and he was okay with that as long as
he still had hermione.
Hermione started at harry and could help but think
about how lucky she was , she was surrounded by people
that loved her and even tho the one person she would
had prefered to love her im a different way, but she
decited no to dewell on something that would never
happen and reached out and took rons hand and held it,
ron was no harry but ron loved her like the way she
wished harry would but she would settle with ron the
next best thing.
Harry hermione looked at eachother and for that moment
they thought the same exact thing "even if i
would to break up with ron" " and if i were to break
up with ginny" " at least harry and me ' "hermione and
me " "WILL STILL HAVE EACHOTHER"

2007-08-14 10:03:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As the question says - drunken cheating: still cheating, no matter what, or a forgivable mistake whilst under the influence?

2007-08-14 10:01:18 · 71 answers · asked by Libra ♎ 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband is a pure redneck, which I knew this when I married him, and I knew that he drinks, a lot. The problem is he keeps getting worse about how he treats me after he starts drinking. I've been through the same situation with him everytime he drinks of getting in fights over silly things because he takes things the wrong way when he drinks. I told him he's gotta choose, me and his daughter, or beer. Thats it, that simple. Alcohol has been the cause of all our fights, so was it wrong for me to make him choose like that?

2007-08-14 09:58:52 · 20 answers · asked by tiffthone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

haha sorry about adding it to my last question as just a detail.. i'm asking again..

2007-08-14 09:56:17 · 59 answers · asked by (Changed my name) 3 in Singles & Dating

Please don't assume he's some psycho that's going to rape me. We've been talking for months now and have a pretty good connection. He's a great guy and we tell each other a lot-I think that in person things would be even better. We talked on the phone once as well. He lives an hour away but I don't know if he should come to my house or I go to his or we meet somewhere in between? Any ideas or people who've done this before?

2007-08-14 09:56:10 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

shy until you get to know them
sweet
loves to laugh
likes sports
loves travel
wants you to go away sometimes so they can miss you
physically fit
intelligent and career minded
caring

2007-08-14 09:55:56 · 14 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it because they are not satisfy with their spouse??

2007-08-14 09:54:20 · 16 answers · asked by back2future 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister is having here wedding party in a few weeks and our family doesn't dance much while his family dances A LOT! What would some good songs be????

2007-08-14 09:52:48 · 26 answers · asked by <3 3 in Weddings

I am giving a promise ring to my partner. I am going to use verses, song lines, lyrics, parts of poems, and things like that. Any suggestions?

2007-08-14 09:51:48 · 3 answers · asked by DogLover 2 in Weddings

2007-08-14 09:46:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-14 09:46:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating