Family & Relationships - 14 August 2007

How long do I have to wait for her to give in. It has been 3 months since I have had sex with my wife. I understood after we had our 2nd child that she may not want to do it for a while but my boy is now 20 months old. Why do women cut us off like this. We never had a problem B4 we had kids, to tell you the truth it almost got sickning because she was so hor*y all the time. And don't tell me to help around the house more. I do all the cooking, half of the cleaning and do my fair share with the kids so she can have some down time. Even after our first kid we never really got into a rhythm, and she is 4. I have talked to her about it and I guess I am not getting through, she says she will try harder but it all stays the same!

2007-08-14 02:38:03 · 34 answers · asked by bigboy56073 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-14 02:37:54 · 7 answers · asked by Moon 1 in Weddings

how much does a divorce cost in tx and is there a time limit to get an annulment.

2007-08-14 02:35:33 · 4 answers · asked by bris 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-14 02:34:47 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-14 02:32:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

In an arranged marriage, is it a legal requirement in India to tell your potential spouse about all your past relationships before marriage? If so, is there not a conflict of interest for the potential groom/bride?

2007-08-14 02:31:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I see a guy who seem so alone even though he is married and very successful and i wonder if there are other people out there who also go through this

WHEN DIVORCE IS NOT AN OPTION

2007-08-14 02:30:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband & I are miserable. He will not go to counseling (we have in the past), he has stopped talking to me, has stopped having sex with me, & told me he is doing this as his way of coping with our "bad marriage." We have been together 5 years, & have been through a lot of cheating, abuse, & substance use on his part. He has stopped those things (abuse over one year, substance & cheating about two months). We recently moved to another state & we are both adjusting. I know he is struggling because he is "tempted" to do the wrong thing, but in his heart he truly does not want to go back to those wrong things. He will not seek counseling or help. We do not believe in divorce so please don't suggest that. What can I do? He & I both are greatly miserable. Other facts: We have one child & I am 6 months pregnant, he is 23, I am 31, he makes about 1/4 of what I do at my job and he has no regard for money. I am very angry because he literally spent our last $ at a strip club.

2007-08-14 02:30:01 · 15 answers · asked by allie s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

You met a girl when you were in your late teens. You fell completely in-love with her, thought she was your soul mate, however she moved abruptly with her parents and you never told her how you felt. You keep in touch through email and eventually she moves back to go to school (not because of you).

You make a mistake and assume that by now she must realize that you love her but then she does something unthinkable. She starts dating someone she meets at school. You end up being mean to her and resenting her. One day you realize that she might really not know how you feel, you ask her and she says that she had no idea. Now she is with someone and doesn't know what to do. I have waited for years to get with her and it just seems like it will never happen. Does it sound like she's doing this to hurt me? What should I do? Should I wait for her?

2007-08-14 02:28:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am married to a man with children. we have them 50% of the time. My husband and I had a huge fight 3 years ago when the children were in the other room. I told him I wanted a divorce (he treated me like crap back then) and he just lost it! He hit me a couple of times and I was scared for my life. I grabbed my phone and wanted to call the police, but my husband called for his kids and they jumped on the top of me to take my phone away. They scratched me and pushed me, I had marks left etc. They were 7 and 8 years old at the time.
My husband and I are doing much better now, he never hits me and treats me with respect. We go to marital therapy and it really helps. But what do I do about his kids? I do not know how to forgive them. I thought they loved me and I know I loved them, I did so many things for them and we had a great relationship. Everything is different now, I do not know how to get over this betrayal. My husband feels horrible about this, he apologized to me and the kids

2007-08-14 02:25:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-14 02:21:28 · 8 answers · asked by Ultrastooge™ 2 in Family

2007-08-14 02:20:48 · 47 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex-husband has been paying child support for my daughter since we divorced when she was 3 yrs old. When the court ordered the support he wasnt making much money so the support order was very minimal. He has since married the woman he left me for, had two children and has finished school and got a decent paying job.
So two years ago I filed for a modification to up his support. I finally have a court date for this November and my ex has called me to tell me he cannot afford to pay anymore child support than what he is paying. I am remarried and my husband pays child support for his children, so i can understand the hardship child support puts on an income, but i also know his wife makes triple what i make and his family would not AT ALL be strained from my daughter receiving more money. What i cant understand is why her father would call me to tell me either i drop the modification or he wants me to agree to let him sign over his rights to her. Am I wrong for going to court?

2007-08-14 02:16:17 · 21 answers · asked by Michelle B 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-14 02:15:38 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you deal with it??

2007-08-14 02:14:05 · 19 answers · asked by buff1ne 5 in Singles & Dating

I am divorced in Michigan. My ex husband has been ordered to take a urine drug test to see our daughter. He is a crack addict and said that he can pass a urine test three days after he smokes. Is it possible to push the courts for a hair folical test? Does anyone have any experience with this?

2007-08-14 02:12:08 · 4 answers · asked by babyblueeyes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-14 02:04:38 · 3 answers · asked by Nicoletta 1 in Singles & Dating

What's On His Mind?
i'm married and became embroiled in a three year on-off again affair with a guy I knew from a previous job. We had an on-off physical affair, but mostly communicated all day long via email. Just the other day, he said he can't email as much, because of his job, but I wonder if he is just trying to distance himself from me.....he claims he's not and that I shouldn't take this personally. That he needs to focus on work and secondly, that he can't be with me in the way he wants to be. I asked if he's just seeing someone else and he claims not to be....that he would tell me. Is he really seeing someone else, or does he just want to be friends with me? He claims to still love and care about me....

2007-08-14 01:59:54 · 7 answers · asked by kittygirlwhoilove 2 in Singles & Dating

Check out http://www.earthtimes.org/articles/show/92877.html and you know why you shouldn't. Do you fall in love on the net that easily?? Hope not!

2007-08-14 01:58:51 · 5 answers · asked by White Shooting Star of HK 7 in Singles & Dating

I know this girl. I tried to be friendly to her and she looked at me like I was stupid.
Why are people like that?

2007-08-14 01:56:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-14 01:56:43 · 9 answers · asked by SHANTELL J 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex-husband and I were thinking of getting back together as a family. He is upset with me though because I am not taking steps forward to move to the state where he is such as packing, emptying out my storage or updating my resume.

He says that I don't know what marriage really is which is two spouses working together like clockwork. I should be accomplishing things each day in his mind and letting him know what I did and how I got rid of stuff.

Is this the way that spouses are supposed to work together and am I wrong for wanting to do things my way? I want to still talk with him about things I want to do and donate my stuff and pack during the last few days.

2007-08-14 01:55:41 · 6 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

my wife doesn't get her hair cut often, it's long and blonde and unlike most women who live in beauty salons, my wife gets it cut maybe 2-3 times a year. when we were married, she had it cut to about an inch above her shoulder and i loved it. it looked so neat and sexy. now she has let it grow and before her haircut her hair would have covered her breasts.

She probably had 2-3 inches cut off.

I came home and our granddaughter was crying, she was working to set the table and i immediately came in to help and then we set down, had our prayer and began to eat. i complimented her on the potatoes and fish and one of our daughters said, you didn't tell mom you liked her hair.

the salon she went to and her friend, never styles her hair. in fact, this time, they didn't even dry it and quite honestly her hair didn't look to me at first any shorter.

The stylist cut it in different lengths and honestly it looks crappy. she's mad now because i didn't compliment her right away. HELP!

2007-08-14 01:55:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Guys what kind of body do you prefer in woman?
Please state you ideal woman below!!! And your fav part of her body!!!

2007-08-14 01:54:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-14 01:53:02 · 7 answers · asked by francis farmer 1 in Friends

i have no idea about WHERE to find a girl in the 16 to 18 age group who like me just wants to have a little fun...... mabe even sex but not a full on lesbian relationship???? and how would i kno???? i cant really go around asking random girls on the street????? any advice esspecially from other girls who have done this b 4 (ive neva experienced with the same sex b4!!!!)

2007-08-14 01:51:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he's my boyfriend,he's romantic, he's good looking, maybe too much 4 his own good,he's short tempered, and reads too much to most things i say thereby always making me explain myself to correct his wrong decodin of my words, he says he likes me lots. he could be a bit too abusive when angry (which is too often) he's generous. but he doen't listen. a lady likes to be heard sometimes. he doen't REALLY listen. Sometimes i feel like talking deep but i mostly see a far away look which puts me off. what should i do? i need advise pls.

2007-08-14 01:51:30 · 6 answers · asked by chic 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom work as a secretary in an accounting office and one day when i was goin to her office early to pick her up,everybody in the office was gone and i saw mom having sex with her boss in the office...they didn't see me becuz office have no lights and i was behind the walls......i think she was hving sex with him to have a raise and a promotion becuz my mom always told me she have a raise or something....
every friday when i go pick up my mom...she's always in her boss office doin it and when i ask her why she was always late at friday...she say she was doin overtime
so,should i told my mom abt what i saw at the office and understand the whole thing?

2007-08-14 01:51:20 · 4 answers · asked by allen 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-14 01:48:21 · 6 answers · asked by mauni 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-14 01:47:37 · 1 answers · asked by cool 1 in Singles & Dating