2007-08-14 01:53:02 · 7 answers · asked by francis farmer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
How old are you? How good of friends are you? Most people suggest getting with someone who you are close to cause its a better time, i dont know i have never tried it, but if its just for fun and you are both down for it, then i dont see why it would
2007-08-14 01:58:31 · answer #1 · answered by Jersey Sweetheart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your being a lesbian has nothing to do with this, actually. If you were a boy that was friends with a girl or a girl that was friends with a boy or a gay man with a male friend, I would say the same thing. If you really would rather have romance than a friendship, then take a chance. But if you value the friendship enough, unless your friend has very strong feelings for you, then you'll be throwing the friendship away if you "hook up." If the romance works, then great. If not, then the friendship is doomed 9 times out of 10. Personally, I would never hook up with a friend. I've seen too many friendships doomed from it. I only know a couple that actually worked out.
I might also add that if your friend does not feel the same way you do, then you may be throwing your friendship away AND not getting to hook up. Tread carefully! Good luck!
2007-08-14 09:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats a tough questoin because I'm bi so I kind of know how you feel...you want to tell her but you don't want to ruin the relationship
well does she knoe ur a lez? if so then go ahead and tell her how you feel
if she dosent know that you are one then you might want to tell her and then later on tell her that you have feelings for her
if she can't except the way you are and your sextual preference then she's not a real friend and your way better off! you may feel heart broken at first but time kills all pain!
GOOD LUCK AND I HOPE EVERYTHING TURNS OUT FOR THE BEST!
2007-08-14 09:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by dannie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if she feels the same way about you, I would go for it, You should talk to her, tell her how you feel, and then go from there!
If you guys are really good friends, maby she is feeling the same way, and is afraid to tell you also, how she really feels, just say how you feel over a nice conversation, and then you will get your answer.
Life is to short to wonder about the what-if's???
2007-08-14 09:00:07 · answer #4 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your friend is a not a lesbian then it will probably ruin your relationship, but if she is then sit down with her and tell her how you feel about her.
2007-08-14 08:57:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want a Christian answer, the answer is no, let her alone.
2007-08-14 08:58:06 · answer #6 · answered by jokerthefreak1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not if she is truly a friend.
2007-08-14 08:57:43 · answer #7 · answered by joe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋