2007-08-14 02:34:47 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why not
2007-08-14 02:36:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Absolutely !! Why does it always have to be the man? Because society says so? Hogwash. If a woman truly loves a man and wants to marry him, it is perfectly acceptable to do the asking. It may not be the norm, but that does not mean it's wrong or inappropriate.
2007-08-14 02:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by mopacfan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely not. Let him decide.
You have to ask yourself why you feel like proposing.
This is from "Dating without Drama" (linked below):
"When a man feels like he's been PRESSURED to make a decision -- even if it's about a topic (like marriage) he'd previously been thinking about on his own -- he starts to feel like his back is up against the wall and this "choice" you're giving him isn't really his choice at all.
Even if he goes along with what you're asking, chances are slim that you'll be happy with the outcome."
If you pressure him, it will push him away. Plain and simple.
If he's not the type of guy who will ask, you have to ask yourself why you want to be with a man who doesn't take charge.
Good luck!
2007-08-14 02:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by Phil 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya it's perfrctly fine if a woman proposes...i had a friend that did and their doing well...but here husband later felt a lil sad that he didn't get to do it. it just depends on the guy.
2007-08-14 03:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by ace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with that but i think it'd be more romantic if the guy did it. but then again, the guy might be afraid to propose to a girl cause he may think that she will turn him down. and if u propose to him, he might not be ready for marriage so he could turn u down. but yeah, i don't really see why it matters about who proposes if u both really love each other and care about each other. that's all that really matters. that's my opinion. and others might say that it is notokay but we all have our own opinions.
2007-08-14 02:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by I Love Curtis Ryan Stephens 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
O yes no problem woman rule over men anyway.Many people don't see it that way but think about it it is the woman who wants to get married and it is the woman who wants an divorce,Nothing wrong with woman thou just love them and tread them nice maybe they get the hint.
2007-08-14 02:40:36 · answer #6 · answered by hillman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is it ok? well yes, but If I am at that point, I'd rather let the man ask, that way I know we are most certainly on the same page. Just be ready for no (just in case). Could you handle that?
2007-08-14 02:40:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nah that'd be weird. Unless he'd already proposed, been turned down, then the girl changed her mind. Otherwise, it's up to the guy to have the bottle. Do girls even want to marry a guy who's too weak to do the manly, romantic, thing?
2007-08-14 02:37:14 · answer #8 · answered by sonfai81 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes its fine, its not like we men own the ability to propose.
2007-08-14 02:44:25 · answer #9 · answered by Mollecht 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do. If it feels right why not??? It could also relieve the pressure he might be feeling to ask the question, so if you are up to it...go for it! Be sure he won't be insulted because some men feel it is their "job" to do to ask the proposal question...be careful not to hurt his feelings.
2007-08-14 02:39:28 · answer #10 · answered by singlegreenjeff 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i do not know really........i would not do it myself.......but things are changing as you know in this world but i still think the man should ask the woman...........if you are seriously interested in someone you can or should be able to talk with them about most things.........so a woman might throw hints and things like that.......but i would prefer the man ask if it was me........
2007-08-14 02:38:44 · answer #11 · answered by sanangel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋