Family & Relationships - 14 August 2007

Any ideas??

2007-08-14 20:39:16 · 6 answers · asked by Cher 6 in Weddings

We've been married for almost 12 yrs,and during that time,I neglected my duty as a wife to him .Instead of putting him as my 1st priority,I concentrated on helping my family and not even thinking for our future.Whatever it pleases me,he'll give.I was too confident of his love to the point that I took advantage of it.
Until last month,I notice that no response at all even if I keep on calling and sending a message.When finally he broked his silence,he told me that it is better for us to separate as I can't give him the attention that all he wanted from me.He even said that seems like he don't love me anymore. At first,he denied that his having an affair but I keep on asking him until he said Yes.My world is wrecked that time but I forgive him because I know that i'm partly to be blame.I loved him so much that I even beg for a second chance just to show him how much he mean to me.He praised the girl for she treats him like a king which I never did.Please help me,I want to win him back?

2007-08-14 20:28:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My father was killed a couple months ago, his birthday would have been today on the 15th. His and my mother's anniversary was yesterday. They are in South Carolina and im in the military stationed in Germany. What should i say or do, to maybe help mom out or just make her feel better? I dont wanna just ignore it and have her think i dont care but i dont want to make her feel worse either. They had been married almost 30 years.

2007-08-14 20:25:32 · 4 answers · asked by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 in Family

My husband is currently deployed and I recently found out that he is cheating on me. Then today I found out that it is with another service member. That is not allowed, is it?

2007-08-14 20:23:59 · 6 answers · asked by rm76058 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-14 20:10:11 · 1 answers · asked by pieofpigeon 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-14 19:58:45 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really want to have a relationship with both men and women
plz help me out

2007-08-14 19:55:45 · 12 answers · asked by jon m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-14 19:53:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay so here's the story I came to visit my sister for 2 weeks and she happens to work basically for like 3 pm to 10 pm without breaks. between 3 and 10 she "relaxes" and basically does nothing with me and after 10 her bf comes over and ALWAYS sleeps over and i try to act cool and just ignore it but i just feel like a 3rd wheel SOOOO much. and its really pissing me off that when i got up and just left to another room to be alone and go online and chill because i feel more comfortable then u know being around 2 people who are cuddling and talking and i'm not even in the conversation i'm just "there" and so she comes in all with this "wtf" look on her face and she's like why'd u leave whats wrong and i decided it was right for me to come out and say it so i go " i dont like feeling like a 3rd wheel all the time" and she's like r u serious omg w.e bye. and walks out now WHY does she always ignore my feelings, i'm so pissed off right now and i have a good reason to feel that way.

2007-08-14 19:38:32 · 1 answers · asked by Pookie Pie<3 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-14 19:37:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-14 19:33:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have talked before about this. What can I do to he listen to me?

2007-08-14 19:25:14 · 19 answers · asked by morning star 2 in Singles & Dating

If you've been seperated nearly 2 years and you've moved on. When is a good time to serve the divorce paperwork? Should you leave the decision to the person you left & how much time should you give them?

2007-08-14 19:21:32 · 10 answers · asked by Te 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i had sex with 4 guys now what do i do im not sure who the father is of my unborn child.

2007-08-14 19:20:29 · 4 answers · asked by Terri F 1 in Family

I have been dating this beautiful woman for several years. She does everything I want, loves me, does the dishes, works and lets me stay at home, cleans the house and never complains. What do you think...should I still have to pay for her half of the date?

2007-08-14 19:19:40 · 8 answers · asked by Texas Cowboy 7 in Singles & Dating

I love my mom, and she and i get along great, its just that one time she was yelling a whole lot, so i though to myself,"why did my dad marry her?" and i feel like the biggest jerk ever having thought that...i know i didnt mean it, i love my mom...and i feel so guilty and jerk like whenever i even begin to think of when i said that...its been like 3 months since then, and i still feel like an asshole. i wish i had never thought it, is that unnatural? or am i really just a huge asswipe?

2007-08-14 19:19:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-14 19:15:52 · 16 answers · asked by Texas Cowboy 7 in Singles & Dating

So I like this guy and he is looking to be in a long-term/serious relationship and, I would like the comfort of a serious relationship myself, but I don't know if it's a good idea because he is 23 and that is an 8 year difference, not to mention the fact that we live about 8 hours from each other now with him going to university to finish his degree, so i was just wondering if anyone ha any opinions and ways to keep a long distance relationship alive, between two people with an 8 year age difference.

2007-08-14 19:13:26 · 38 answers · asked by rcasays 3 in Singles & Dating

my (half) sister moved in with us 5 months ago, she's 25 and my dad was really excited because he divorced her mom when she was four and he barely got to spend time with her. he thought he was going to get "another" daughter even though she always was his daughter. she had just broke up with a boyfriend that had been a stalker and my dad and MY mom paid ALL of her bills from her old apartment so she could get away from the guy. My parents didnt make her clean at all (a big deal in my house) and the only rule was that she slept in her own bed ;) well, she didnt like that and started coming home at 2:30 a.m. usually dropped off by her bf pat whom she has known for 11 weeks. well yesterday i was with all my friends and she says she's moving out. just like that. i'm not sad or happy, but i'm really mad because it CRUSHED my poor dad's heart. all she did was use us and now i'm really mad because she hurt my dad. he finally thought he was gonna get to be her daddy again after 21 years...

2007-08-14 19:10:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have been together for seven years and every now and then I catch him looking at pictures of female celebrities and they're ALL blonde! When I see all the browsing history on my computer of the females he denies looking at them. He's swore he loves me, but I feel like maybe he "settled" for me cause he was in a dating rut. I'm a brunette and about 60 pounds overweight. I look nothing like what he looks at. Should I be worried?

2007-08-14 19:06:48 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want a dissolution,But I live In Colorado,she lives in Ohio,do i have to show up in court even if we agree on everything,I have moved from Ohio less then 6 months ago.I left her everything In the house and I already pay child support(have paid it for 10 years) I cant afford to show up in Ohio.. we agree on everything..been married 20 years..will i have to make a court appearance?? Are there steps I can take to avoid having to miss work to come to Ohio from Colorado for a court appearance??

2007-08-14 19:00:49 · 2 answers · asked by DudeeE! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was with this kid for about 3 months.He dumped me at the begining of June saying he thought I was using him and he was confused.A month later he sent me a text but I didnt answer.Last night he called me 5 times in a row and now today hes texting me telling me how sorry he is and that he misses me alot.I mean he was bad to me and made me feel like crap alot.I dealt with alot worse though.Also my friend told me she wouldnt speak to me anymore if I went back with him.She said its him or her.Im confused..someone help me =(
People do make mistakes...

2007-08-14 18:58:20 · 17 answers · asked by rawr 3 in Singles & Dating

anyone have any sites that have alot of red and white wedding dresses? thanks.

2007-08-14 18:55:42 · 7 answers · asked by * 1 in Weddings

i over heard my dad having a conversation with one of my sisters in the phone she is 29.he said that ever since my sister who is 20 left the house & moved with her b/f that it affected me bcuz that i changed & its not true just bcuz i am 17 & act younger then my aga he thinks something is wrong with him i could be mature but i just have a good sense of humor & my dad see's it as a bad thing.also he thinks that is why i been having problems with him & that i got a b/f only to have some1 by my side bcuz i dont have my sister anymore none of it is true & it hurts he talks bad behind my back.My whole family is against my b/f & me & my dad is so happy bcuz he heard my b/f is moving to texas & he thinks that i am going to break up with him but he aint even leaving.my dad gets me so upset he tries to bribe me with money he told me that he can give me a car & money & i dont have to worry about paying bills but i gotta end my relationship with my b/f.i cant take it anymore

2007-08-14 18:42:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-14 18:40:41 · 10 answers · asked by heavnzangel850 2 in Weddings

2007-08-14 18:36:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so i just found out my bf has had sex 30+ times with different girls .. i mean the past is the past and i still love him but isn't that a lil to much? I mean whats average? Im guessing 30+ isnt .. wut do u all think?

2007-08-14 18:35:10 · 25 answers · asked by RaNiErRr 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-14 18:31:28 · 23 answers · asked by michaelpc12 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy was leading me on for a long time and making me feel like we were dating. He was asking me to go on trips with him and even talked about taking me to the Grand Canyon. Then someone mentioned that he had a girlfriend. At first I didn't believe them, but then I noticed that he was dragging out the whole scenario without any commitment, and he was sending me a ton of mixed signals. I started sending him short, abrupt little emails instead of the long, lingering ones he was used to. Then he went away on vacation. I stopped emailing altogether even for weeks after he was back home. Now things are very awkward. He is playing friendly and people are still making like we're on the brink of dating. But I know different. Should I tell him what I know? Should I cut if off, or resume our usual routine in hopes of some kind of confession? What on earth is the best way to handle this?

2007-08-14 18:29:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-14 18:24:52 · 12 answers · asked by Indika A 1 in Marriage & Divorce