I love my mom, and she and i get along great, its just that one time she was yelling a whole lot, so i though to myself,"why did my dad marry her?" and i feel like the biggest jerk ever having thought that...i know i didnt mean it, i love my mom...and i feel so guilty and jerk like whenever i even begin to think of when i said that...its been like 3 months since then, and i still feel like an asshole. i wish i had never thought it, is that unnatural? or am i really just a huge asswipe?
2007-08-14 19:19:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are so Normal,, That is beyond Normal, I promise..
The part that worries me is the huge guilt that you have over a simple thought, esp since you was upset with her.
Everyone gets upset and thinks bad thoughts about one another at one time or another.
I bet your mom has thought things of you too.
It doesn't mean you don't love her.. It just means you both are human and have emotions and feelings. And when you get hurt by her, you want to hurt back, even in a THOUGHT..
Don't feel bad its OK.....
I wouldnt tell your mom that you had that thought... It was just a thought.. Nothing to confess too... I think it will only cause your more guilt and shame... Plus it would hurt her feelings..
`faith
2007-08-14 20:11:04 · answer #1 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
it's not unnatural. i've thought of that too. i understand what you're feeling. pray to God and make a confession. in these ways it can help ease the pain in your soul. i felt like i've sinned. i also felt guilty of thinking that way too to my mom. try to seek and talk with a counselor. all i did was talk with younger sister, and prayed to God and asked for His forgiveness. after that, what a relief! you can also do some self- reflection and meditation. besides i believe that your mom will always love you no matter what you are and what you did. moms are very forgiving. maybe you could tell her what you have felt and thought of her, and say "sorry" for it. maybe that would alleviate and solve your problem. take care!
2007-08-15 03:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mum i have to apologise to u for something i thought. Tell your mum u have been beating yourself up over what u said she will be happy that u talked to her about it and u will get relief.
2007-08-15 02:59:30 · answer #3 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋