i really want to have a relationship with both men and women
plz help me out
2007-08-14 19:55:45 · 12 answers · asked by jon m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
go get mental help. thats sick
2007-08-14 20:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by Savannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you then? There's no reason that you can't take the time out for yourself to find out. Try dating both sexes and see how it goes. Unless you are already in a relationship with someone and are committed to that If you are in a small town and are not comfortable with that...maybe a place close by that you can go to? Its important for you to find out...to get that peace of mind and heart for yourself. Spend some time really soul searching and concentrate on just what you feel...not what you think your parents or friends would like to see in you. Be honest with yourself and true to what you are feeling. Give yourself time to really look at both sides before you just jump in to a relationship that you may regret later. Who knows? Maybe you are bi-sexual. Good luck but be safe in your journey.
2007-08-15 03:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by aknana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still young enough where you have the luxury of time to figure out what you really want. The only real solution is to date both men and women and decide which you feel more comfortable with. If you feel equally comfortable with both then when you find someone you want to be with exclusively you will know. At that time whether it be a man or a woman you will have no desire to be wih anyone else.
2007-08-15 03:16:21 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥♥MiSSY♥♥♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a relationship with someone of the same gender does not make you less of a guy - it only changes your sexual orientation.
Many people are bisexual, but a lot of people do not like to admit to it. I personally find it appealing in men if they are attracted to both sexes.
You should be honest if you develop a serious relationship, but this is not something you should feel the need to broadcast to everyone. If you do want to share it, go for it - it isn't something to be ashamed of!
Good luck :D
2007-08-15 03:15:26 · answer #4 · answered by angeles w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, pull your pants down and what you see between your legs should give you some indication of whether your a guy or not.
2007-08-15 03:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a guy but don't know whether you are a guy or not? What? If you have a penis, then you are a guy. Duh! I think the question is you don't know whether you are gay or straight. The answer to that question would be you are bisexual if you have feelings for guys and girls.
2007-08-15 03:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could be bisexual. which just means that you could go either way, you could have a relationship w/ a girl or a guy.
2007-08-15 03:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by lilchik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont really understand you!! Elaborate a little more?
2007-08-15 03:06:18 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥Mommy to 2 Divas♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it looks like you are having identity problem and you shuld see doctor and have him help you with your problem good lcuk
2007-08-19 00:22:50 · answer #9 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
carry our an investigation to see if you didn't have sex change when you were young.
2007-08-15 03:01:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get someone who wants a sex change
2007-08-15 03:21:04 · answer #11 · answered by you idiot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋