My girlfriend was VERY UPSET last night and asked me to stop over. I didn't feel like stopping over to see her after work.
She phoned and woke me up 3 times this morning asking me if she could come over to talk. I told her I didn't want to see her because she wouldn't tell me what was wrong last night.
I found out her friend was selling weed and my guy friend who was staying wanted to buy some. I offered to have her come over if she brought some weed and my friend would pay her for it. She got MORE ANGRY said she was having a bad day and worked from 3AM - 11:30 A.M. and wanted to be left alone and sleep.
We got into a HUGE ARGUMENT because she STILL wouldn't tell me what was wrong with her. All she would say is PLEASE leave me ALONE PLEASE JUST LEAVE ME ALONE we will talk about it tomorrow PLEASE.
I didn't want to wait until tomorrow and told her F**k you you stupid B**ch! She flipped out and FINALLY told me what was wrong. Turns out what was wrong was REALLY DUMB
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2007-08-14 15:43:23 · 13 answers · asked by BadToTheBone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and I told her that. I told her she caused another STUPID POINTLESS ARGUMENT OVER NOTHING!!
She told me she couldn't take it anymore and started crying. She told me she had a bad enough day and wasn't going to put up with it anymore.
She then said "I hope to GOD you treat your next girlfriend A LOT better then you did me." I said are you breaking up with me? And all she said was "JUST LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!"
then hung up the phone
I've been trying to call her
no response
I've tried EVERYTHING to apologize I got nothing
DID I DO SOMETHING WRONG!!!!?
2007-08-14 15:43:47 · update #1
ADDED DETAIL READ IF YOU LIKE
this is what the "argument" was about
My girlfriend invited my guy friend Tim over last night because I was working late and she felt bad. (he lives 6 hours away and he's staying a few nights) Apparently, she cooked him dinner and right after dinner a good friend of mine phoned Tim and went and picked Tim up from her house. I guess she got insulted by him just eating her food and then leaving.
I think my guy friend who picked Tim up MAY have made some nasty comments to my girlfriend as well. Though, I'm not 100% sure.
THAT IS WHAT SHE WAS "SO ANGRY" about. She was also angry that I lied to her and told her I hadn't smoked in weeks and she found A LOT of weed in my room on accident and found out I was high as she was there.
So ALL STUPID BULL S**T SEE
OVER REACTING THINGS
AM I RIGHT
2007-08-14 15:44:17 · update #2
If you sober up and stop smoking dope, someday you might have a relationship with someone.
Like many people, you have chosen a chemical to relate to, instead of people. Break away from it, and get back into life before more and more girlfriends leave.
For people with any sort of chemical addiction, or really, any
"compulsion" problem ( sex, shopping, eating, etc.) it's typical for them to start arguments about NOTHING with their signifigant others/family so that the other peoples' angry reactions will JUSTIFY them going back to their addiction, without guilt. This is a typical behavior of someone who has an addiction problem---to be left alone to self-medicate. Eventually, the loved ones have to give up on the addicted person because he or she keeps driving them away.
2007-08-14 15:52:15 · answer #1 · answered by papyrusbtl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At this point - it doesn't matter!!
You could have just talked to her on the phone last night INSTEAD of seeing her - and this never would have exploded like this. And to make it worse - you treated her like a DRUG MULE by making her deliver something that she wasn't cool with in the first place...
And after all that - you told her off!!
If you are going to act this way in the future - expect to see scenes like this on a fairly regular basis. Next time, just tell her that YOU had a bad day at work and don't want to come over - instead of just going home without saying ANYTHING!!
2007-08-14 16:03:16 · answer #2 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I really think it's best for her if you guys break up. Usually when you're dating someone and they're upset and they want to talk to you, unless you're a jerk and you actually care about that person, you make the effort to at least see them and listen to what's wrong. Seriously. I can't think of any reason why she should stay with you when you treat her like this.
2007-08-14 15:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by RockNRoll 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, you aren't right. How do you expect a relationship to work if you aren't 100% honest. And you seriously shouldn't talk to her like that, do you really think it's going to make anything any better? And you saying she could come over only if she brought pot along, hello, she wants you to want her to come over to be together, not so she can transport pot. Also, you should have stopped over when she wanted you too. You shouldn't expect her to want to talk to you only when it's convieniet for you. That's selfish.
2007-08-14 15:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by Lilly L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your name is "Bad to the Bone" it should be "Sad to the bone" How do you even get girlfriends with an attitude like that?
2007-08-14 15:56:01 · answer #5 · answered by IRIS 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WEED R U RETARDED!!!!Y ON EARTH WUD U SMOKE WEED N THEN TELL EVRY1 OVR THE INTERNET!!!!N YES U SHUD HAVE BEEN MORE CONSIDERATE OF UR GF'S FEELINS!!!!!WOW!!!!!give her sumtime n then have a heart 2 heart w/ her....dont relli bug her a lot k
2007-08-14 15:51:03 · answer #6 · answered by LALALALAL 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You ******* dumbshit. You probly lost a good woman because your so ******* insinsitive. Dumbass.
2007-08-14 15:50:02 · answer #7 · answered by Desert Punk 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
THAT WAS ALL YOUR FAULT!!! omg i feel soo bad for her. poor girl.
2007-08-14 16:28:56 · answer #8 · answered by LittleBunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you asked i will tell you .your wrong. anything else you need to no just let me know...
2007-08-14 15:49:37 · answer #9 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe she doesnt like drugs
2007-08-14 15:49:24 · answer #10 · answered by anon 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋