I'm not in the mood much, I am only really in the mood right after my period. Is that normal
2007-08-14 12:13:57 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm not 'in the mood' anywhere near as much as my new husband would like. Then again I don't quite know how many women could keep up, another man's sex drive would probably be somewhere equal :-)
I used to have a pretty healthy sex drive but, it's gone downhill fast. I've gone to doctor's and my psychiatrist they don't really know what to tell me. It frustrating as HELL!!!
I used to be 'ready' any time any place but, now he's lucky if he gets 'it' once a week-end. I'm in pain all the time and I feel that I hurt him if I don't. Sad thing is I do just so I don't have to hear him ask all the time, mostly.
We've talked and talked about this and nothing seems to come of it. Somethings wrong and I don't know what to do to fix the problem.
)o( Blessed Be!
2007-08-14 12:43:04 · answer #1 · answered by whillow95 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just varies person to person. I have friends who are more "in the mood" either right before, or right after their periods. I'll take it anytime I can get it!(from my man) Alot of different things can impact your desire. If you're stressed or tired you might not want to. If you and you partner aren't getting along. If you're really worried call your gyno. Maybe there's a hormone issue. Also different medications, like anti-anxiety or anti-depressants can cause people to lose the urge. Ya know, there's nothing wrong with gettin' alittle tipsy for the added help! ;)
2007-08-14 12:19:59 · answer #2 · answered by BoredinVA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no such thing as normal where libido is concerned. Everyone is unique.
I'm not in the mood as much as my husband, but I've found that once I start up with him my mood is VERY changeable.
Just as a crying baby will kill the mood, there's nothing like a little foreplay to bring that mood to the surface again.
Sometimes if you just go for it, you'll find your libido was just in neutral and not as stalled as you thought.
2007-08-14 12:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by alisongiggles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the mood every day. But, i'm a newly wed...and my man isn't currently here. But I think it's normal to be in the mood after ur period.
2007-08-14 12:19:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm always in the mood after my period. That is normal. I'd talk to your doctor about your lack of desire during other times. There may be something you can do that is easy like adjust sleeping patterns etc.
2007-08-14 16:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretty normal.
How often is he in the mood to pick his stuff up off the floor??? Three days a month???
Give him more than you are in the mood for - and maybe he will give you something else too.
2007-08-14 12:22:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the mood about 5 out of 7 days of the week. I would have your hormones checked if you are out of the mood that often.
2007-08-14 12:17:59 · answer #7 · answered by P B 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In the mood almost all the time, but would say two to three times a week would be great!
2007-08-14 12:18:31 · answer #8 · answered by jrd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, pretty normal... I think I'm in the mood maybe once a month.
2007-08-14 12:17:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the mood about twice a week average.
2007-08-14 12:19:20 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋